Update on the nightmare of a money situation!

Rach darling iv followed your story so well my heart breaking every time u had an update! i no how much this means to you i had money problems to! im so sorry if this is the end of the road for u but in 3-4 years wen u do have money us girlies will be waiting her to cheer u and ur new additions on xxx

Think you could do with one of these! xx

Rachel!
I remember my brother telling me about a couple who needed money when they finished uni so they could travel.
They advirtised locally asking if people had things they could sell or stuck in there lofts.You pick it up from them and sell it on Ebay. With a written agreement and a percentage of the profit back to them say 20%.
I remember him saying they did well but cant remember how much.
It could work really well if you advirtised over and over people will soon spread the word, and its amazing what people will buy.
I have managed to get cleaning jobs and work 2 days a week which involves baby exchange with my sister.I felt like it was never going to happen. I try not to buy anything for myself even down to drinks and food, and im actually getting there and to be honest I cant believe it.
Its a slow game ,but it makes you feel good.
I know now that I will love these boobies and feel proud at the fact that I did it!!
Rachel get your head down and start thinking because you can really do this and we will be behind you 110%


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Rachel, I just read it back to myself, I did I dont buy food when im out, I take packed lunches.

I give up to tired nothing I write makes sense...bedtime I think ,
night all xx

Hi rach



I thought i would just pop by to wish you luck for today. If things dont work out . You Can do it . You mangaged to get this far . I mean you brought your childern up got a roof over your head any idea how much strength and determination that takes?



No dream is impossible Some may take longer than others but anything is possible .



Dont give up on yours . You can make it happen on your own even if it takes longer than you wanted it to .



The place where you have booked to have your op done if things dont come through for you today ..( fingers crossed it does) should give you some kind of refund . Even if its not all of the money . In all honesty you should be able to postone your op till when ever its of no odds to them . I would read the contract see what the opt out clause is .



mya do , a savings thing ...so maybe they can transfer the money over into that scheme for you.



If not i would go to Citizens advice bearuo ( sorry cant spell it ) see where you stand legally . They can not keep all your money if you have had to cancel due to money issiues .



Finally dont loose faith in who you are and what you want ...you will get there we all have some how ...takes time but in the end its worth the wait xxx

Good luck girl!

i would be pretty peeved too mate.. he should never have offered.. and perhaps im a b!tch.. lol.. but i would hold someone to that too.. if it didnt work out.. you can be sure i would be getting any lost money back from him.. why should you lose your deposit too.. not fair.. he offered..
i really hope it does all go through.. keep positive for now ay..

I've been following your story Rach and have everything crossed for you today!! x

As predicted girls my "friend" didn't put the money in my account like he said he would. He told me he'd be going to the banks around midday, taking the money out of his Nationwide branch and putting it direct into my Santander branch, so I've been keeping an eye on my account all day.

By the time the banks closed at 5pm there was still no money in my bank account.

I have called him and text him several times. No reply to texts and the phones (he has 2 mobiles) just ring off. I've left answer phone messages asking what the F is going on.

I know he has screwed me over, and after I had my little cry the other day I had accepted that it wasn't going to happen so I'm not angry or upset or anything. I'll be just fine.

I will save up or try and get finance or something (my credit is better now, not by much but it is still better, cos I don't have the IVA that was on anymore; and I get in more per month than most people do - around £2300 - so it is only the fact that I don't actually work that might be a problem). Hell I may even try and sell my body!!!! lol

I will get there eventually, even if it takes years.

I may be a bit quiet on here cos of this, but will be properly back soon.

Thank you all for your support. Love you girls!!! xxx

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Awww Rach. So sorry it hasn't worked out just now. What a total loser to string you along. What with that and what he did to his wife he sounds like a lovely bloke - not! You are so better off without "friends" like him. Sounds like you are in a pretty good position for finance if they can get over the not working thing. Fingers crossed things you can work it out and sort something soon.

Having said that, I have had mine done and although it is nice having them - I have come to realise that boobs aren't the be all and end all! Chin up hon. You are such a lovely person and good things come to thise who wait! xxx

:\ im so sorry it didnt work out but you will be fine and when the time is right youll get your lifted boobies! hope everything goes well!

P.S. Hope you get your deposit back easily x

Sorry hun, can't believe he had the ordasity to string you along until the last minute. I'm sure you'll be able save up in no time earning that much a month. Dont worry hun, you will feel better in a few days when you have gotten over the initial dissapointment and it will only make you more determined to have your new boobs in the future.

Aw rach i am soo sorry he did not keep to his word hun. But i am glad you seem very strong. Were all here thinking of you rach. hugs to you hun xxx

what a coward he is rachel! if he never planned paying for u he never should have offered!!!! u seem strong tho and remember were all here for you!!

:( thats such bad news rach, wat a complete BEEP!

xxxxxx

Your so young and beautiful with your whole life ahead of you.Try not to let this get you down.I know your a little disappointed but I also know that you can do anything you set your mind to!You seem to be a very strong woman and we are behind you 100%.So keep positive and I'm sure you'll find a way to make your dream come true!We all care about you!

Rach I'm so sorry, you will get there big xx

so sorry hun, well done for taking it on the chin, everything happens for a reason and your time will come, i know thats not what you want to hear but if you want something bad enough you will get there xxx

Aw babe I'm so very sorry. I know you must be really upset right now but the fact that you are being so positive shows what a genuine person you are. He is completely out of order I don't know how he sleeps at night I really don't the t**t! Big To you xxxxx

what an ass he is. babe, in a way probs best not to have financial support from a loser like that.

You are determined and I know you will make it. Big hug hope to see you back very soon. I promise theres a reason behind all this, god looking out. xxxx

ah that just sucks Rach.. what an AS* he is.

I would definitely be after him for the deposit you have lost.. stuff him.. he has the nerve to do this to you... make him at least come up with that.. cos that really isnt fair.. even if he never really planned on giving you the money, for him to string you along right until the very last second.. he bloody well SHOULD pay what you have lost because of him.

you'll get there chic..

**naughty word**. Forget that wanker it's horrid wat he said hel do and wat he did. Karma hel get!

Sure u can save a bit from ur income.
Ul get there xx