Update on the nightmare of a money situation!

Sorry to hear it didnt work out Rach... I understand you are dissapointed. To be honest I was suspicious the whole time, as it sounded a bit odd, but for your sake I wish he never offered in the first place. EVen though if wasnt his obligation to give you the money for this I find it strange and cruel that he strung you along for so long, its been quite an ellaborate story he has constructed... very strange.

I am glad you are looking forward, you want this and you get this, "where there is a will, there is a way"

x

You should also check your bank account.If he had your account number in order to make the deposit that he never made,he could be up to no good and do something with your bank funds.You did say he several bad business dealings and who knows if he can be trusted at this point.

sarahdawn31 wrote:Sorry to hear it didnt work out Rach... I understand you are dissapointed. To be honest I was suspicious the whole time, as it sounded a bit odd, but for your sake I wish he never offered in the first place. EVen though if wasnt his obligation to give you the money for this I find it strange and cruel that he strung you along for so long, its been quite an ellaborate story he has constructed... very strange.

I am glad you are looking forward, you want this and you get this, "where there is a will, there is a way"

x

Well said. Hope you get your boobs on your terms without having to worry about anyone else. Good luck with it all

hes a w@nker.
It was a lot to ask, so im not surprised he didnt go through with it, but if theres one thing i hate, its people who say what you want to hear, when they have no intention of sticking to what they say.
Hes properly strung you along and is a liar and a cheat. he lied and cheated on his missus, so i guess if he can do that, its no surprise he would do it to you.

xx

There would have been many ways he could have easily said no to your original request, without stringing you along

I've merged your two threads to keep everything together.

Sorry to hear it hasn't worked out, but this guy was under no obligation to help you out. As someone else mentioned, sorry, can't remember who it was, if he has a wife and children spending almost £7k on another woman's tits would have been disgusting, in my opinion. That money could be spent on the children, school fees, uni etc. Sorry if it sounds harsh, but this is just what I would think.

If my dad gave that amount of money to a woman who wasn't a family friend I'd feel hurt, upset and utterly betrayed, regardless of whether he could afford it or not.

There's no quick and easy way to getting boobs. I wouldn't advise anyone getting into debt for surgery. If things go wrong would you be able to afford the extra expense?

Save the money. Don't buy shoes/clothes/coffee/wine for a while. Don't go on nights out, or just drink tap water. Buy own brand stuff at the shops. Sell clothes you don't wear. Downgrade your phone, get a part time job while the kids are at school... there are so many things you can do to raise the money yourself and not rely on anyone else. May take longer, but the satisfaction of knowing YOU paid for YOUR boobs is better than relying on handouts.

All the best lovely x

Hey there sorry it didnt work out .



But as many on here have said he is married and has a family so they have to come first .



I too if i was married would kick his butt more than round the block if my husband / boyfriend paid for anything like that for someone else .



You have to think how would feel if your other half paid for something like that and you didnt know .



Yep you would hit the roof !!!



Like i said i was offerend yrs ago by a guy i was engaged to and i said no then ...cos i had to do it for myself but thats me coz im stubborn like that lol .



Save it for yourself .it may take a while .. but that way you never owe no one nothing xxx

I have been watching this post and so hoping things would work out for you hun. I am sorry they havn't but deep down had a feeling this would happen. I hope you find another way to get them done and in a way where you can say "hey I did it and no other bugger has a hold on me for them". Good luck xx