Re: symmastia sad and gutted

by alfie 13th September 2010, 3:14 pm

Good luck with the bra bumblelady, I really hope it works for you hunni. xx

by kittie 13th September 2010, 6:12 pm

bumblelady wrote:kittie yours are exactly what mine are supposed to look like lol

i'm keeping my fingers crossed that yours will be looking fab soon hun. keep smiling symmastia sad and gutted - Page 3 948189

by deflated 15th September 2010, 9:52 pm

best of luck with the bra, have my fingers crossed for you group hug

x

by bumblebabe 16th September 2010, 5:21 pm

i have my bra and giving it a go,
feels strange and not holding them back as much as i thought it would, but still worth a try
what i wonder is why people like jordon and pamela and other girls can have really big boobs and not have this problem, they also have really small chest width, as surgon says mine implants are to big and i only had 450cc,

there bothering me more and more each day when i look at all the other ladys lovely ones on here,

and just think why me!!, ive waited and wanted this for so so long its just not fair,

by kittie 16th September 2010, 5:28 pm

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hopefully the bra will help hun

by Jessica 17th September 2010, 9:16 am

bumblelady wrote:
what i wonder is why people like jordon and pamela and other girls can have really big boobs and not have this problem, they also have really small chest width, as surgon says mine implants are to big and i only had 450cc,
,

Jordan does have big boobs now but she has had a number of ops to take her to the size she is now - I think when she had her first op she had overs and didn't go as big as you, it was over a number of years that she kept going back and having her implants enlarged gradually, which meant her chest wall had time to stretch.

450cc is a large implant to put under the muscle hun. It must have just been to much stretch for your chest wall to take in one go.

Glad you have the bra now, money well spent I think - I read James's reply to you and it sounds promising, it might sort itself out with just the bra, hope so hun.

Take care xxx

by Crystal 17th September 2010, 9:37 am

Hi Hun,
I thought that special bra was for after corrective surgury to help stop the symmastia happening again so it sits down the middle of the boobs to keep them apart while they heal & suppors the stiches down the middle in the mean time?
I think the only way to correct this is with sugury & even then its quite a difficult one.............I did quite a bit off resurch on it myself as i thought i had this but it turned out to be a hell of alot of swelling.

You surgon should have been well aware BEFORE you op that you frame was not big enough to fit that size implant so i personally would be soooooo angry with him & would make a complaint & as foe a re-op with a different surgon & who Know what there doing for free!

Hope you get this sorted out hun, be thinking of you Hug

x

by bumblebabe 17th September 2010, 10:11 am

im really not sure what i would have to pay for on a re-op,
i guess the surgon wouldent charge me his fee as its his fault,
the hosp would want there money for me staying there, and the bloke who puts you to sleep, if he changes the implants to smaller ones who pays for them?

my ba was 5k, theres no way i can do that again,
i dont want to ask him until the time comes when i no i will have to re-op,

by **COOKIE** 17th September 2010, 11:46 am

I should imagine for symmastia hunni, all surgical and hospital costs will be coverered and if you need smaller implants they will be covered too as this was your surgeons mistake - The implants are too large, that's not your fault. xxx

by alfie 17th September 2010, 2:11 pm

Sending you hugs bumblelady Hug

. I truly hope the bra works for you hun. xx

by bumblebabe 19th September 2010, 4:21 pm

well ive had the bra on a few days now and its killing me,
sooo tight, i could make it looser but then it wouldent work,
its falsing 2 things that want to be together apart,
its visable under lots of clothes ive been wearing a type of scarf to cover it, wearing a sports bra for 6 wks was better than this
it is worth it?

by alfie 19th September 2010, 4:50 pm

I'm sure it will be worth it hunni, James recommended it, didn't he, so they must be good. Take care. xx

by abbie 19th September 2010, 5:08 pm

how long do you need to wear it to get an idea if its working or not?

by kittie 19th September 2010, 5:17 pm

I'm sure it will be worth it bumblelady.

by bumblebabe 19th September 2010, 5:49 pm

have no idea how long i am supposed to wear it for,

by alfie 19th September 2010, 6:16 pm

bumblelady wrote:have no idea how long i am supposed to wear it for,

Perhaps you could ask James this question hun. xx

by Jessica 19th September 2010, 7:01 pm

Have you spoken to your surgeon again about the possibility of a re-op? I know you might want to give the bra some more time to work before you go down that road, but it might help to prepare yourself - maybe you could just ask him some questions such as what fees would be involved, recovery times, etc, just to go into a bit more detail. xxx

by Mia 19th September 2010, 11:16 pm

Jessica wrote:Have you spoken to your surgeon again about the possibility of a re-op? I know you might want to give the bra some more time to work before you go down that road, but it might help to prepare yourself - maybe you could just ask him some questions such as what fees would be involved, recovery times, etc, just to go into a bit more detail. xxx

I think Jessica's suggestion is a good way forward for you BB!! Just the opportunity to speak with him would enable you to have all the information and choices explained fully and he could check the progress if any of wearing the bra.

Take Care xx :flowers:

by **COOKIE** 20th September 2010, 6:35 am

bumblelady wrote:have no idea how long i am supposed to wear it for,

You really do need more information from your surgeon hunni, as well asking how many of these procedures your surgeon has performed and asking to see before and after pics to put you at ease.

Stay positive hunni! x

by bumblebabe 20th September 2010, 8:17 am

i am planning on seeing him again in october, he wants me to give the bra a go for a while and to see if it will go by itself rather than being drastic and going for a re-op stright away, as it is mild
i will be asking him how many he has done before and things like that,

by bumblebabe 2nd November 2010, 4:26 pm

its been nearly 2 months since i was diagnosed with this,
nothing has changed, tried the thong bra and high underwires,
i am seeing my ps again in december where i guess he will talk about a re-op,
i dont want to go through it again but i dont have any choice,

by janeybird 2nd November 2010, 4:33 pm

Is stressful time for you Bumblelady but at least after the op all will be fixed and you can relax and enjoy your boobies and get gorgeous bra's again

Hang in there Hug