Re: I'm so unhappy :'(

by Sahara1981 5th March 2014, 8:08 am

It's insane I wrote that message 4 days ago!!!
Time is passing more slowly since the op. Ok I sound insane but it's true.
Not being able to hug the kids is getting me down but they seem to accept it.

On a funny note.
In my home we never shut the bathroom door as theirs only one bathroom in the house.
I was having a shallow bath and my eldest (12) boy came in for a pooh and he just didn't know where to look!! He just stared at the floor!!
Poor boy couldn't get out quick enough. Normally not an issue but clearly now I have boobs totally different lol.

by tinkerbell24 5th March 2014, 8:39 am

Aw I'm sure u will get to.love ur boobies it just takes time, I'm.still waiting lol

I can't imagine people coming into the bathroom when I'm in, it's too personal for me lol

The hardest thing after my ba and reop was not being able to.do.things for the kids xx

by LuciaH 5th March 2014, 9:50 am

YAY Sahara, I am so pleased for you. Sometimes it doesn't matter how many times people say that something is good or looks good on you if you don't feel it yourself then it won't go in, and sometimes it takes something really silly for it to sink and for you to realise that actually you do look good and makes you feel better.

Lol about your son coming in. I bet his face was a picture. xx

by Gemma134uk 5th March 2014, 10:08 am

glad to read your feeling more positive xx

by kdeee 5th March 2014, 11:19 am

Yay Sahara :)
I'm so glad to read that you are feeling much more positive
xxx

by Sahara1981 5th March 2014, 1:45 pm

I'm not looking at them as much as possible.
Thank u to everyone x

by lyn17p 5th March 2014, 6:58 pm

Advice from an oldie. And believe me I am OLD. They will settle down. They will soften and feel more normal in time.
So much brilliant advice on here. I've only just read that you're struggling. Time is a great healer in all ways. It's early days. I'd love to see your pics.
Big hugs and you'll get to love them. Xxx

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