I'm so unhappy :'(

I agree with everything that has been said above.
I was agonising over my boobies for weeks after I had them done.. At the beginning I even wanted them out. They looked high, round and way too big!
But I persevered.. Just stopped looking at them and kept them in my beloved macom bra. My ps reassured me that at 3 months mark, if I'm still unhappy with them, he'll swap them for me fr a smaller implant as the skin ant stretched yet by then.. But..
Just after 3 month mark they dropped, got softer and started  looking natural and perfectly fitted my frame!   
Give them time Sahara and I'm confident that you'll fall in love with them! It took me just over 3 months to start loving mine.. But now I feel that I should have had them done years ago!   
Just try not to thik about them for few week and you'll be surprised how they'll change!  
We're here if you need us. It's good to talk.. For me.. cookie was my rock.. She constantly was reassuring me that n time ill love my result and.. She was right! Cookie is always right   
We're here if you need us!!!
 

I just want to give you a massive cuddle babe, I feel for you so much. Xx

Blondie-Thank u and it's nice to hear that someone else was upset by the size of their implants to.

Thank u Mirren and Mrs ball I know it's early days. It's just not what I was expecting.

I'm going to try to ignore them, if that's possible lol x

Thank u boney. Make sure your Def happy with your chosen size before u commit.
Did u sort out the clothes issue? X

I will do, sweetheart. Xx Yeah, well sort of! Just going to wear stretchy tops.... I'm sure I'll find a way to accommodate them. What are your plans today babe? I know you can't do much because you're still healing but try and keep your mind occupied on something. Xx

Going for a walk to my friends house and just watch rubbish on TV xx

That should cheer you up Hun x

Sahara, I swear to you I was in the exact same situation as you. Exact same. I originally went in asking for a full C, then asked my surgeon to go as big as was proportionately possible. I panicked that 380 was too big, then afterwards I was crying at myself looking at the mirror thinking why did I do this ? I thought i would have much preferred it if I just stayed flat chested.

It wasn't until 3 months had passed that I started to warm to my new boobs and just yesterday I was over the moon at my newly discovered softness and movement.

what i'm trying to say is, I promise it will get better. You are overly emotional now because your body's just been through a massive trauma and your mind is trying to adjust to that, along with any other added stresses you have in your life. You just HAVE to be patient. I would second the suggestion that you look into counselling as I also had body dysmorphia and talking about it helped a lot. Also, stop obsessing over your boobs. I literally hid them for three months and avoided looking at them. It doesn't help when you\re already stressed. Just be patient, and don\t make any rash decisions. At least wait six months before considering a re-op.

I don't think newly augmented boobs are what any of us expect! theyre hard, wide apart, high up and again do look a bit freaky at first. thy will look big due to position and firmness and theyre a lot more than what was there before so can come as a big shock x

I'm going to ignore them as much as possible and as it's not summer it's Def easier.  Just hope I adjust to them x

Good girl, come and talk/rant/cry to us as much as you want! We will help you as much as we can! We just want you to be content and happy sweetie. Xx

Bless you Sahara, you have been given amazing advice from these ladies so I have nothing to add, but I feel for you and send you massive hugs! I look forward to the day you feel more positive about your new boobies because I'm certain that day will come. Thinking of you babe, take care xx

 

Oh Sahara, if you look back at some of my post op posts you will see that I found the adaptation difficult too.

 You will feel better as you get used to them and again reiterating they look amazing and perfect for your frame. 

Just make sure you keep up on your meds for any discomfort and most importantly keep eating and drinking to keep up your strength. I drank plenty of water for the first couple of weeks to flush all the GA etc, which helped a lot.

Chin up xx

Every other girl here has offered smashing advice.
I really hope you've had a more positive day, honey!
Tomorrow's a new day and in the same way that time is a healer, I think that time will change your opinion on your boobs!
Let us know how you are tomorrow, honey.
Best wishes and take care tonight xxxx

Hey Hun I've have just managed to see your pics they look fab switts swooo I can see why you think they are big you went from nothing to nice full boobs think you will get used to them xx

sending you a big hug hun  i hope you are feeling better soon you are still very early on and i hope you will grow to love your new additions. hope everythink will go ok at the doctors xx

Everyone's comments and advise are brilliant, I can't add anything as I am pre ba. Well done for being so honest though that must not have been easy. Bug hugs to you xxx

Sahara, can I see ur picturetrail? Xx

Hey Sahara sorry to hear you're feeling this way.. I really do hope you get used to them and realise they are actually ok.. Bug hugs honey.. 

Can I see your pic trail too? X

Hi Sahara. How did it go today? Sorry if you have already posted elsewhere. I have been at work all evening and haven't been on the forum xx

Oh babe, I'm sorry I have only just read this :( 

Hope you're feeling more positive today? Big hugs xxxx

Oddly yes! Well sort of. 
I'm trying not to look at them and a "friend" from school was really envious!! Even tho her opinion shouldn't matter it did. She is very pretty and whenever I've looked like crap she's always been very honest. Not to mention when I put on weight she told me I had gone to far etc.

But her being impressed, i could believe her as I had already said they were to big. But she was totally surprised at how they look.

It's odd cause all u girls had said they were fine, my fiancé loves them and my best friend said they were good size. 

But yet it was her comments that got through!!

I still would go smaller if i could rewind time but feel more positive that i will eventually get use to them.

It's funny this past 2 weeks have dragged and I've had so many different emotions it's mad x

Sahara, I'm glad to have woken this morning to find you are feeling more positive about your new boobs. X