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 it still p**ses me off when women or men say nasty things about someone just because theyv had a ba!
 when im online looking at celebs or if theres a model with a boob job and people comment saying * there fake blabla bla* .
why carnt they just be nice and not make negative comments just because someon has had a boob job lol?
im not sure if its jelousy or what but agh ! my bf said I shouldn't read the comments but I carnt help it lol .

I am a hair dresser and a client was talking about her holiday and she mentioned that when she was on a beach she could tell who hve had a boob job and that they looked ridiculous and not attractive . and then she went on to bitching about girls who have boob jobs saying she carnt understand why they do it. I had to bite my tounge but I said ''my friend'' had a boob job because she did not have anything at all and hers look natural and they are soft to touch,,,,, there not rock hard solid!! she changed the subject lol, I didn't say ''my friend'' was actually me lol. xxxx

I actually think those that make such awful comments make them to make themselves feel better about their own bodies.

For men... Its make them feel better because they've probably never touched a crackin' pair of boobs in their life! Lol and the thought of a women with a really nice augmented pair intimidates the hell out of them!

I hate the word 'fake' when referring to boobs.

My boobs aren't fake at all, they're VERY real. They are however augmented...

Making the most of the boobs you have is no different to dying your hair to make you feel good, to getting hair extensions to make your hair fuller, to wearing make-up which is no more than a mask that we put on and take off to make ourselves feel better, to nail extensions, to chicken fillets to enhance your boobs, to teeth whitening to make your teeth whiter, to wearing high heels to elongate the leg...

The list of things we women do goes on and on to make ourselves look good and any woman sat in the hairdressers with a face full of make-up on, nails done, teeth done and a pair of heels is a bloody hypocrite!

Instead of making snide comments about other women, they just take a step back and take a long hard look at themselves in the mirror! Xx

I know what you mean! I hate it when people say 'fake' ?! What's so wrong about having a BA?! These women who go huge give everyone a bad name and there are so many misconceptions about why we choose to have a BA.... If a woman wants to improve her boobs because she isn't confident what is wrong with that?! Women who are naturally bless have them out or enjoy showing them off so I think it's just being nasty for the sake if it... People don't understand that people like Katie price and Courtney stodden are the exceptions and ild like to see how many women actually could tell if you havnt gone for the fake look!

I think you should have said you had a BA also to shut her up! Judgemental...: woman!Xx

I know I think if I hear another idiot say anything nasty about boob  jobs im gonna say 'well iv had mine done!' ... iv told close friends/family know and I think some people have probably guessed iv had them done, but I absolutely hate being asked if my boobs r real on a night out! its no ones business isit !?!! im not ashamed of them but I don't like to shout about it which I maybe sad but its because people are so judgmental nowdays and they don't understand what we have gone through  and tough decisions weve made!

the word fake is such a horrible word lol!

jenniferrf1 wrote: These women who go huge give everyone a bad name

Can't say I agree with that comment Jen... We have many women here who have chosen to have huge boobs. Its their choice and one that although might not be right for you, it is right for them babe and they are entitled to have whatever sized boobs they want to have without being labelled for having them. A BA is a BA whatever size implant you choose to have and I don't believe its those that have large boobs that give us a bad name I believe its those that judge that give us a bad name  

I meant the women who you see on this morning and other tv shows with absolutely huge huge boobies that are a serious health risk not the fake look so sorry it it sounded like that! People see these women who sometimes have addictions to surgery and automatically presume that everyone who has a BA does too rather than thinking of deep personal reasons why we have our boobies done! If people thought about our reasons rather then 'they just want bigger boobs' maybe they wouldn't be so critical!... I agreed with this post that it's not right that we are judged and didn't mean the fake look at all because I quite like it myself! Miss my upper pole already lol! So sorry ladies didn't mean it to read like that xx

I'm tired of being made to feel like a cheap tart if I mention my plans for a BA.

I went to a little party last night in my friends garden, just a few close girls, all sat round the fire pit with a glass of wine and I told them all about my plan to postpone my BA until I've lost more weight. Most were really supportive but 2 of my friends were getting really irate saying "WHY WHY would you do that to yourself? It's going to look so ridiculous! You don't need to tamper with your body like that? You'll show Daryl up having your t*ts bulging out all over the place everyone will thing your a tart etc"... These are probably the most insecure girls in my group, the happy, sexy, confident ones are totally behind me.

I just think those coments are so judgemental. They don't know if I'm going for 220's or 580's! (I'm getting 380's) they should end up a nice Dcup with the most natural look possible. My boyfriend is totally supportive and knows I would never disrespect him like that and go to the pub in nipple tassels alone in front of all his mates. These people are so clueless and insecure it's pathetic but I can't help but feel a bit embarrassed by feeling I have to justify MY decision to them.

MY BODY MY LIFE MY CHOICE end of x

(Saying all this I'm not going to wear a tent to the pub, there may be some rather flattering tight tops making their debuts once their done :) )

It all boils down to jealousy and ignorance. I have gone for the big fake look and I like it. I couldn't give a monkeys what people think and trust me I get a lot of negative comments. 

But again it all comes down to jelousy and ignorance. 

People choose to wear, dress, wear make up have their hair any colour they choose all a matter of personal preference  , just because I wouldn't dye my hair pink or purple I wouldn't be critical of anyone that chooses to do so. 

People that make negative comments are also ignorant and wouldn't have the slightest clue about a woman's want for a ba or indeed what it involves. 

For me these peoples opinions don't matter in the slightest and I actaully pity them for being so ignorant and jelousy is such an ugly trait.

I think body dysmorphia is a separate issue to breast augmentation and I think some surgeons need a good old spoonful of morals before taking money from people with obvious addictions.

Some women actually do simply just want to have bigger boobs and there's no other reason for them to have their boobs done than that. They may have a nice rack to begin with, but they just want a bigger one! Lol... It's like those that choose to go bigger when they have their implants replaced. Its not necessary, they already have boobs, but its their choice to go bigger... You don't need to have a reason for your choices if they're what you want. Those choices as I said, may not be for everyone, but they're no less valid than anybody else's.

Years ago it was only really glamour girls and porn stars that openly had BA's and I think that preconception that we're all gonna wanna wop 'em out when we have a BA is something that initially comes to mind when many first think of a BA.

But that again is just down to people being judgemental. Women like Katie Price and Courtney Stodden are making a very good living out their assets and all power to them I say! Its not a life for me, but if its a life they've chosen and are in control of, then they can get theirs out all they like and laugh their way to the bank!

It seems whatever we women do we get judged for and its wrong!

As long as you're of sound mind, you're in control and the choices you make are yours alone, then I'm personally happy for anyone who has what they want, just the way they want it!

GIRL POWER!   haha!

I agree, I think it is jealousy. I also agree that most people don't understand why most women want them done. I think that they think all women want a ba so they can look like a glamour model (so, what if she does?) but a lot of people presume that all glamour models are slags, so if you want a ba you must be too! Which lets be honest, if you want to be a slag, you'll be 1. ba or not! Lol
And rosy I used to get asked all the time if my boobs were 'fake' too & I hadn't even had a ba! 1 guy I went to school with even grabbed them once to 'check'! Even if I had had a ba, what business is it of anyone else's?? Don't understand why people think your boobs become public property just because you have implants? X

Becciann84 wrote:I agree, I think it is jealousy. I also agree that most people don't understand why most women want them done. I think that they think all women want a ba so they can look like a glamour model (so, what if she does?) but a lot of people presume that all glamour models are slags, so if you want a ba you must be too! Which lets be honest, if you want to be a slag, you'll be 1. ba or not! Lol
And rosy I used to get asked all the time if my boobs were 'fake' too & I hadn't even had a ba! 1 guy I went to school with even grabbed them once to 'check'! Even if I had had a ba, what business is it of anyone else's?? Don't understand why people think your boobs become public property just because you have implants? X

Well said Becci  

jensk : I don't have many friends, I have 2 best friends and just before my b.a we had a meal and one of them said ' ooohh your gonna luk like a only way is Essex girl'... then after my b.a she told everyone I had one when it was meant to be a secret, we are still friends now even thought I fell out with her for a few weeks but even now it upsets me she that she acted like that towards me.  xx

That's horrible rosy girl, my boyfriends mum did the same to me! Meant to be a secret but she went and told people... People automatically think it's their business! Not sure why (most likely jealousy) but when I told her I want to be an E she was pulling a shocked face and asking if I'm sure etc! People will always judge but we are the ones with gorgeous boobs :D xx

mrsball wrote: I have gone for the big fake look and I like it. I couldn't give a monkeys what people think and trust me I get a lot of negative comments. 
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You're Breast Buddies very own claim to fame being Courtney Stoddens lookey likey! Haha!

You're a stunner babe and women. Some women see you as a threat and that brings out the nasty in them - poor things! Lol. X

Try not to let it bother you. It's very easy to have a hang up over some part of your body, the majority of women do ! It takes a lot of courage, however, to do something about it. Just remember, a judgmental person spends their life paranoid about being judged, I'd rather hold my head up high and be happy about the decisions I have made about MY body, and not worry about what others have/haven't done with theirs :) xxx

Hi rosy, I'm too a hairdresser and I hear women in my salon  bitching all the time. "Oooooh she's got fake boobs" 
"She can't walk in those heels" she's got too much makeup on blah blah blah blah.....
We are all individuals........ I choose to have false nails, as I am a bad nail biter, I choose to sometimes have hair extensions, my hair is fine and it gives it thickness. I choose to go to the gym, as I want a better body and to be healthy. I wear false eyelashes sometimes........... I do not give a rats **naughty word** what people think about me.... I will carry on doing what I do.
I'm having my boobs and my eyes done, to make me look and feel better. I have Botox too......
Yeah I get comments but I just give them an answer that shuts them up......... I always say if people are talking about me they are leaving some other poor soul alone...... Women talk........ Let them......
We are happy and that's all that matters...... 
I think all the girls Avis on here are beautiful, no matter what size they have gone for........... Stuff the talkers........
Like cookie said "girl power" xx

Rosy girl that's very forgiving of you, I suppose it's their problem not ours.

Jennifer I am facing the same problem, I don't want it to be a big secret but just not a subject if gossip but my boyfriends big mouthed mum now knows and there's no stopping her.

Like cookie says, if you of sound mind when u make ur decision then there's no problem. The stigma attached to BA is a shame but I think every woman of all walks who gets one is slowly diminishing that once and for all!

Xx

COOKIE wrote:

mrsball wrote: I have gone for the big fake look and I like it. I couldn't give a monkeys what people think and trust me I get a lot of negative comments. 
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You're Breast Buddies very own claim to fame being Courtney Stoddens lookey likey! Haha!

You're a stunner babe and women. Some women see you as a threat and that brings out the nasty in them - poor things! Lol. X

Awww thanks cookie!  

It's a shame as many women pre judge me on my barbie girl looks, but again their ignorance if they can't look past my looks to actually get to know me and yes sometimes seen as a threat, actaully it's quite funny I was with hubby at car boot this morning (love my carboots!) was looking at a stall and the guy behind stall eyes were popping out to which the mrs saw and promptly told him to go get something  from the car !! My husband thinks it's funny! 

Something is weird and not honest when they have such a "hate-with-a-passion" feeling about BA.
I would't get a tattoo in my face but I don't get high blood pressure when face tattoos are discussed at a party.

I have suffered for so many years now with having the boobs nature gave me. I was so tired of trying to corrct them and put them right in my bra every 15 minutes.
They were so saggy and didn't have any upper fullness at all. Now everyone can see that I have had surgery and I guess many of my so called friends will call them "fake looking" but I couln't care less.


If I were them-I would be jealous of my boobs...

mrsball wrote:

COOKIE wrote:

mrsball wrote: I have gone for the big fake look and I like it. I couldn't give a monkeys what people think and trust me I get a lot of negative comments. 
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You're Breast Buddies very own claim to fame being Courtney Stoddens lookey likey! Haha!

You're a stunner babe and women. Some women see you as a threat and that brings out the nasty in them - poor things! Lol. X

Awww thanks cookie!  

It's a shame as many women pre judge me on my barbie girl looks, but again their ignorance if they can't look past my looks to actually get to know me and yes sometimes seen as a threat, actaully it's quite funny I was with hubby at car boot this morning (love my carboots!) was looking at a stall and the guy behind stall eyes were popping out to which the mrs saw and promptly told him to go get something  from the car !! My husband thinks it's funny! 

I can imagine you experience a lot of jealousy MrsBall.
Until I had my BA I was jealus of your (and many others) avatar picture.
There is a reason why barbie looks like barbie does. The plan when they created barbie was certainly not to create a look that would put people of. 

So people can say what ever they want - we all know what they think inside their little jealous minds anyway.

IsabellExpat wrote:

If I were them-I would be jealous of my boobs...

Brilliant hahaha...  

IsabellExpat wrote:


If I were them-I would be jealous of my boobs...

hhahaha you know what,if a woman ever says anything bitchy to me again About my boobs im gonna say that!

I was at a fair today and there was a slim girl walking around with big sunglasses on in a tight dress with her boobs on show ( could tell she had a boob job) and my friend made a horrible comment about her, I said I actually think she looks hot ....and her reply was ' you carnt see her face though cus the glasses are hiding it' ... I was like yeah but shes still hot! xxx

Screw 'em chick! They're just jealous of our great tits! It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of our 'fake' tits or dyed hair or false nails or botoxed faces - EVERYONE has insecurities and things they don't like about themselves, just not everyone has the guts to take the bull by the horns and do something about it.

I HATED my boobies for years and decided many years ago as soon as I had the readies I would buy new ones, the biggest mistake I made was being persuaded out of it by a BF because he was so against cosmetic surgery! I don't care what anyone thinks anymore. I don't shout about having a BA but if I were asked I wouldn't deny it it either, I'm not ashamed, I'm proud - I look GREAT (if I do say so myself ha ha) and I can walk with my head held high and a bounce in my step because I FEEL great! So who cares what dem haters say LOL!!!!! 

Here here..... Well said sassy. Couldn't put it better myself thing is they even comment if someone doesn't bother with themselves....... It's " ooh look at her, she's let herself go" doesn't she look rough....... And on it goes.......... 
Some women will bitch for the sake of bitching............

Unfortunately, sad but true - women really can be truly dreadful to their own, its sad - we should be sticking together and bigging each other up!  

Yet another reason why this forum is so lovely, 100s of women - who don't know each other from adam - doing just that! Bigging each other up and supporting each other through ALL KINDS of problems, breast surgery just being one part of that.

GIRL POWER!!!