So nervous....

by ajm81 22nd December 2012, 7:17 am

Hi all Im having my ba a week today all I have always been a bit nervous but since last night I have been really quite panicky about it, realising it only a week away, think I'm thinking into the op and recovery too much and really scaring myself does anyone have any tips on getting rid of the nerves, im really excited but when I really think into it that's when I get scared, think also it's the recovery with having kids I'm already worried how I'm gona cope not being able to do anything x

by **COOKIE** 22nd December 2012, 8:18 am

Awe sweetness, everything you're feeling can be contributed to the pre-BA jitters and is all very normal Hug

There's nothing in your recovery you won't be able to cop with hun and even with kids, there's always solutions.

Reading all the stories here left by our lovely lovely ladies is a sure fire way of helping get that excitement back again, reading how they too were so nervous and then how excited they were right after surgery is definitely good for giving you that boost and helping you get back on track to enjoy this last week in the run up to your BA. Xx

by **kay** 22nd December 2012, 8:51 am

Hi Hun xx

Just wanted to reiterate what Cookie has said xx It's all perfectly normal as you get nearer your date xx

You'll be fine though xx try to focus on the end result and all the positives at this stage, that may help xx :thumbs:

by tinkerbell24 22nd December 2012, 9:16 am

hi i got unders a week ago today and have 2 girls 7 and 2 and my youngest has mild cerebal palsy and needs daily physio 3 times a day. i did arrange for people to do school/nursery run morning and night and never had them myself all week but tbh if i needed to i could have done the school run etc

the only things i def couldnt have done would be ellies physio. chamging nappies and lifting i would have managed everything else had i needed too

i came home on the sun washed dried and straightened my hair lol

i wasnt prepared for the nipple pain back ache and lack of sleep but you will be fine honest xx
i came home on the sun and washed dried andcstraightened

by jakki32 22nd December 2012, 10:53 am

Your emotions are pretty normal, we just all have different ways of showing our nerves xxxxx you will be fine. Just think positively , why you are having it, waited so long for the day . The kids worry is normal and those with small children manage xxxx best wishes to you and look forward to reading your posts :thumbs:

by ajm81 22nd December 2012, 11:30 am

Ah thanks girls one minute I'm so excited and the next so scared, this form has defo helped me get prepared so far, I will read up on all the surgery stories again tonight help put my mind at ease, god u seem to have coped really well tink, washing your hair lol! And with your girls, my boys are 13,8 and 15 months so it more the baby I'm worried about but am sure like everyone else I'll get there, thanks girls for the replies xx

by TinyScarecrow 22nd December 2012, 4:48 pm

Hi AJM81

I was terrible before my BA dreaming all kinds of weirdness, one minute excited and the next minute about to cancel it but honestly you will wonder what all the stress was about!! You will be fine and im sure like me it wont be half as bad as you thought it was going to be!

Horay to new boobs!!

by ajm81 22nd December 2012, 6:03 pm

Ah thanks tiny scarecrow I hope your right haha! X

by CharFaye 22nd December 2012, 6:50 pm

Ajm I know exactly how your feeling and I'm
3 weeks away!! Ahhhh!!! Hope your nerves calm and keep us updated with how it all goes :) xx

by ajm81 23rd December 2012, 10:02 am

Thanks charfaye will do and then I can then try help calm your nerves for your turn x

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