sorry¬just speaking my mind

Although its good to have opinions I'm not sure but the way your question is worded may be quite offensive to those who are unhappy with their size post ba and whether ladies have had 100cc or 800cc they should be able to feel comfortable in seeking support for disappointment in size and I wouldn't want anyone to feel bad. I find your opinion quite contradictive as you also state you are unhappy with your resulting size.
We are all different shapes and sizes and a very slim lady may only need 200cc to achieve a large look where as someone curvier would need a much larger implant to achieve the same look. The profiles of the implant also need to be considered as different profiles get different results. I don't believe anyone is competing on here, as we are all sensible ladies in various stages of life. Weve all undertaken bas because we are not happy with what we have and although we can not achieve perfection we can achieve as close to what we want our breasts to look like. When that isn't achieved we will all look into ways to achieve it. You only have one life so why spend it unhappy. If you are unhappy with your size, once the skin has stretched you may be able to go bigger next time, so a bigger size is still possible for you.

I find the discussions interesting and they have made me think really hard about my decision on size.

I am a little worried that I will wish I had gone bigger than I am going as I am not going for (I don't think) the biggest implant I can.

I think that if people are in a position to be able to afford to change themselves again then that is their call. I am not in a position to do it more than once at this stage, though I do plan to fix pregnancy damage when the time comes, if necessary.

I also accept that some people look at my stats and think I should be happy with 32C/D and I potentially would be if I hadn't have had bigger boobs when I was fat.

I have always said I wanted my pre weightloss boobs on a post weightloss me. So I wanted to go from a C/D to a DD/E. I am actually planning to go a little larger as I always wanted slightly bigger boobs. So I am going for the 460 implant which will apparently take me to a 32E/F. That would give me an overbust of 38-39 which balances my hips so I get my hourglass figure back.

rosygirl90 wrote:i have been reading some threads and see that some of you arent happy with you new boobies and wish to be bigger and look more fake................... why would you want to have the fake look :S ???? i guess its down to personal taste,it upsets me a little tho becuase i could only have 280 cc :( and theres girls on here who can have more than double that and they still feel to small?? is everyone in compettiion with everyone trying to get as big as they can?? just rember reason why you had a ba in the first place..i wish everyone could be happy with what they have got and stop comparing them selfs to other women. sorry if i annoy ppl with this post i dont mean to,i just feel like its not rite when you look perfect as u r that you would want to change your self so soon after having a b/a ??? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

First of all, you wan't bigger yet you're bagging girls who want to go bigger, and offending those of us who may like a more rounded breast than a slope.
You wish everyone could be happy with what they have after their first BA and not compare themselves when you're not happy and you are comparing yourself to them....
and the fact that - they may not but - you think they look perfect the way they are yet wish you could have gotten bigger implants because yours aren't what you ideally wanted either is all too much for my head... like Misf1 said, it's contradictory.
If you don't like the fact that we are all different and want different things then don't put yourself through it. Honey, s#!t or get off the pot... I don't want you to think I am trying to upset you, but your post was a little harsh. You can just tell us how you feel without bringing others down for it, almost like you were blaming them for making you feel that way. Sorry, but that's what I got from it. x

Ms London don't apologise, I don't think the majority of us even considered you were being ungrateful. We all come on here because it makes us feel accepted and secure in our personal journey.

The girls have all added a lot of great comments so I won't rewrite them, but I am just 'speaking my mind'...don't hate me roseygirl, I like you, but just that post has spun me for a loop xxxx

i didnt get p*d off lol :P i just upset to think that you girls arent happy wen u lukhot anyway thats all xxxx

didnt mean to aim it at anyone,just read a few threads and saw wt ppl was putting!xxxxxxx

But that's why we have this forum to vent how where feeling just maybe next time take a little time to think how u write stuff as it came across rude may of not been ment that way xx

how was it rude? when i said sorry ?

No the first comment came across rude u don't have to apologise for how u feel just maybe think about how someone will react to it! U have to admit it reads very harshly to us girls that have said we want bigger and have had a little moan!

oops sorry i have problems with writting and trying to get out what i mean im not good at explaining things .....,did not mean to offend anyone! sorry it came across that way! xxxxxxx

That's fine hun I'm not easily swayed I still wanna be greedy and go bigger lol

do u thinnk u will??? i wil go bigger after i hav my next op wen i need it but my consultant said i may not b able to n hav to wait n see.but luv them now =)) xxx

p.s dnt plan to hav op till after had kids n al that!

yeah i will go bigger prob be next summer or the summer after at most i just wanted more then i got but i'm still only in non wired bras so maybe it'll change i just think they look small in some stuff :(

First of all Rosygirl I think from your avator you look you have got youself a fabulous pair of boobs and if I had achieved that I wouldnt have had a reop only 3 and a half years from my first disaster one. I havnt posted for a long time because I have been very down about it. I had 390cc low profiles unders and they were dreadful-looked just like pec implants and people questioned if I had even had a ba. I measured a 32e but I have now learned bra sizes are not important it is the look of the boobs! I had my re-op two and a half weeks ago anc couldnt be happier. I had extra high profiles and even in my sports bra they know resemble boobs. I think we shouldnt get hung up on cc sizes because everybody bodies sizes are different and no 2 people with the same bra sizes will look the same. For myself it was the profiles that make the difference and without the help of this forum and girls like cookie and misfit help I would still be none the wiser! Thanks girls x

Ms London definitely don't apologise! Your entitled to say what your feeling just like anyone else.

Rosygirl your boobs look great but if other girls saying they want bigger upsets you so much then I'd say just don't read it hun. You say we should be happy with what we have and shouldn't want to change them I feel this is a but hypercritical and insensitive as everyone on this forum either has been or is unhappy with what they have or we wouldn't turn to a BA in the first place.

I just wanted to say I love all you ladies on here and honestly don't know how I would have got through my boobie journey without your help. I love reading all threads and have shared all your emotions with you along the way be it happy or sad. Nobody should feel bad about posting their feelings that's what this forums for. We're all here to help each other!

rosygirl90......I never said that I wanted to go bigger bcoz I like big boobs...my problem is that my boobs are sagging to much!...I had 445 and 470 low profile implants,wanted to have natural look...at first they were nice,full and round..but 3 months past and they have changed a lot!...they are full but at the bottom..and they need more fullness on the upper side...I feel like I should go for bigger size to create more fullness ....and I remember when dr Chantarasak told me to go bigger to be fuller...but I didn't want to look ridiculous big so I went for the smallest implant's option..I'll take a picture to show you what I mean...xxx

never meant to hurt anyone feelings :( :( i was upset when read the posts. nikitaw wow!!!!!!!!!luving ya breats in thaty dess ;) ur lucky urs like like that,i tried that dress on and did not hav the same effect! mxx

Thanks Hun I love it very booby it's nice to be able to wear dresses like that finally x

isit lipsy dress? xx

Yeah it is I've also got a leopard print one from missselfridge x

Nikita I have to agree- you lOok bloody amazing in that photo!!!! Absolute knock out with those knockers!!!!!!
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debsrich wrote:Nikita I have to agree- you lOok bloody amazing in that photo!!!! Absolute knock out with those knockers!!!!!!
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Thanks Hun x

OMG Nikita, STUNNING! Love it! I did see one very similar in miss selfridge the other day. Think i might have to go back there and try it on!!! xxx

Jojo6 wrote:OMG Nikita, STUNNING! Love it! I did see one very similar in miss selfridge the other day. Think i might have to go back there and try it on!!! xxx

Thanks Hun yeah there great for the boobs :) xx

nikitaw86 wrote:No the first comment came across rude u don't have to apologise for how u feel just maybe think about how someone will react to it! U have to admit it reads very harshly to us girls that have said we want bigger and have had a little moan!

I totally agree, I found it quite offensive seeing as I had a thread going at the time titled 'GOING BIGGER' Lol. But anyway, like you said, u didn't mean to upset anyone!

BTW... Nikitaw86 I love that dress too, u look amazing!