did you ever feel guilty
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Re: did you ever feel guilty
That's exactly what she said!
Jemmy- BJSF Elite Member
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She's now a DD but I wouldn't say she looks it. She looks soooo much better with her new boobs.
Jemmy- BJSF Elite Member
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I'll be honest I feel guilty, mainly for the money I'm spending and the fact I'm putting myself through an op and GA when I've got a young son. But on the other hand it's something I feel that I really want to do and I'm unhappy the way I am, and I know I'll personally regret it if I don't. Only you know how you feel about your body, and if it's something that really bothers you I don't see any reason not to go ahead as long as it's the right decision for you. xx
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I wouldnt feel guilty hun i defo didnt. I know its an elective op but its a confidence thing. I couldnt stand my flat chest, not filling an A cup bra, wearing hugeeeeeeeeee uncomfy gel bras all the time, hiding my chest etc. It done my head in im so glad i had my BA x
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I'm feeling a lot better about it all today. Spoke to my friend who had her surgery with the ps I saw and she made me feel a lot better.
Jemmy- BJSF Elite Member
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thats good news Jemmy.glad you're feeling better.
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I get what you're saying about feeling guilty. Did anyone see that documentary on channel 5 last night about those people with awful afflictions that affected their physical appearance? It was absolutely awful. In their countries the only way they could make money was to join a circus freak show. One man was absolutely covered head to toe in tumors. It makes me feel guilty about wanting to alter my appearance when I see stuff like that. I should just consider myself lucky to have a healthy body.
Jess xx
Jess xx
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That's how I have been thinking but now I just think well I know how lucky I am not to have major problems but I need to do what makes me happy
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Jemmy- BJSF Elite Member
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That's also what I think. I was speaking to my bf about it last night and he said you can't go around feeling guilty about stuff like that all the time or you will not live your life. Pray and thank God that you are healthy and happy and also spare a thought for those who are not so lucky, but in the end you have to do what makes you happy in life. I know that having a BA will enrich my life and make me a happier person, so that's what I'm focusing on.
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Jessica - your OH sounds like mine in wanting me to be happy but he's adament I must think for longer ... suppose he's right really. He usually is .... I just don't tell him
Jemmy- BJSF Elite Member
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HaHa sounds about right! :)
Jessica- BJSF Elite Member
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I think it is always wise to get at least 2 opinions which i did , but its unfortunate the first guy you saw said what he did and left you feeling so low - sod em and get yourself another opinion - girls here are so good for all the first hand advice they give ... don't feel guilty at all ..... on the phone tomorrow girl ..
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I don't think he did it to be nasty. He is a lovely guy and I will def have my op with him.
He just shocked me as he was so honest. I wasn't expecting it, I was expecting him to sell it to me. Lol
He just shocked me as he was so honest. I wasn't expecting it, I was expecting him to sell it to me. Lol
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