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by whoopsy.daisy 28th November 2009, 11:32 am

Hi everyone, (not sure how to put this as i know we have to be careful about some stuff what we say on here!)
Had my op 4 weeks ago today. Was just wondering if anyone else is off their extra marital duties with their OH!!
Thought it would be fab now that i am briming with confidence, but i spend the whole time worrying about knocking, squashing or damaging my new puppies!! which you can imagine, is not really making the whole experience pleasurable for either of us! I can feel pulling sensation and worry about scars coming open! I know im such a worryier!

Am I abnormal? or has any one else felt like this?? do you think it will get better??

Thanks in advance for replies xxx

by fluffy_bunn1e 28th November 2009, 11:33 am

i am the same! tho i was before the ops! Hysterical

i know what you mean tho, you think your gunna feel instantly sexy when your recovered, but you dont!

xx

by whoopsy.daisy 28th November 2009, 11:37 am

Since my op me and him been sleeping in diff beds!! He was afraid of rolling on me in his sleep. Now (4 weeks later!) we still dont sleep in same bed as we like the extra space too much and get a better sleep !LOL Hes like the lodger!! and im like a nun! wouldnt care if i never had you know what again the way i feel at the mo!!

by fluffy_bunn1e 28th November 2009, 11:40 am

aw hun..me too tho and im 6 weeks PO, he s still sleeping on sofa as he dont wana knock my nose, been bliss having bed to myself and not being awoken by his trumps! Shocked

by whoopsy.daisy 28th November 2009, 11:42 am

mine has that problem too!! Loss of...... 557141

by Loxxie 28th November 2009, 11:54 am

Awww Bless you Whoopsy D,you too Fluffy! I loved having the bed to myself and had to make myself move back in with hubby....I also thought of loads of awful things that might happen to my precious boobs whilst....er Loss of...... 375568

getting jiggy with it But i can honestly say that as time goes by..the worry for them gets less! And now after over a year(and a little bit of rough handling! Loss of...... 557141

) they are still perfect! Loss of...... 184153

by Jessica 28th November 2009, 1:50 pm

Yeah I had this too, although we never slept in different beds - would have done for the first week or so though if we had the space! It was definitely like this for a while, sometimes when he grabs them roughly now when in the throes of passion (lol) I still shout out right in the middle of things "oi oi be careful!" and ruin the moment but apart from that it's good. Plus I love the way he looks at me now when I'm undressing or anything like that, I feel so much more sexy - you will get there hun, I didn't start feeling this way until about 2 months post op. xxx

by sarahsbabies 28th November 2009, 2:49 pm

I'd be happy if I never had to sleep with my OH again....

by fluffy_bunn1e 28th November 2009, 2:56 pm

sarahsbabies wrote:I'd be happy if I never had to sleep with my OH again....

really?

by misf1 28th November 2009, 5:15 pm

Hi hun, I felt the same, didn't want to do anything with my OH and when I did cause I thought I should to keep him happy it was awful. I found after about 6 weeks, they felt much better being squashed or bounced a bit. Loss of...... 375568

by katie 28th November 2009, 6:28 pm

Whoopsy, you're a card!!

its sure to get better! I am just over 3 months and sensation coming back but still they are my 'priority' and take precedence over any antics!! No rough handling allowed still!!

never slept in diff beds tho!!

fluffi, the trumping warms the bed up!! xxxxxxxxxxxx

by fluffy_bunn1e 28th November 2009, 6:34 pm

warm?!

its so loud it wakes me up! and smelly! poo! xx

by Dancing_Diva 29th November 2009, 10:41 am

LOL girls you make me laugh!! Loss of...... 557141

I must be a bit of a nympho, I havent stopped since having my BA first time was 2 days afterwards! lol I just feel so much more confident I want to whip them out at any opportunity!!! But saying that I do probably kill the passion by not allowing him to come near my new puppies!!! xxx

by katie 29th November 2009, 10:55 am

fluffy_bunn1e wrote:warm?!

its so loud it wakes me up! and smelly! poo! xx

aah, my oh has a 'sweet' bum!!!!! Loss of...... 557141

Trumping bells, trumping bells, trumping all the way
oh what fun it is to sleep beside my trumping lay

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MERRY XMAS TRUMPERS Loss of...... 557141

by Len1 29th November 2009, 7:36 pm

You girls are really making me laugh Loss of...... 557141

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xxx

by bock 29th November 2009, 9:32 pm

i was giving my fella a hand a couple of days after my op and going all the a lot later (i had lipo on my lady garden though remember so that stopped it more than the boobs)

at first i was a bit OMG DON'T POP THEM!!!! but now i know they're durable it's fine...if i find anything uncomfy i just put a pillow on my tummy so they don't squish

by whoopsy.daisy 29th November 2009, 10:29 pm

thought id better give him some action tonight poor boy getting desperate now! he gonna burst soon!!! today my nips arnt feeling numb which is good, I was able to let him have a grope!!. I took control of the situation and all was well!! Loss of...... 991311

Im still kicking him out of the bed tonight though!!! I like to be able to spread out starfish style!! Loss of...... 557141

by ejk1 30th November 2009, 9:48 pm

well done you!!! I am nearly 12 weeks post and my poor OH is still not allowed to fully grab them!! xx

by Danielle 2nd December 2009, 1:54 pm

OMG I cant go two days without it let alone any longer, this could quite possibly be the worst bit of the whole procedure for me.
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DD, glad to hear nothing happened when you did 2 days after, maybe i'll wait 3 to be on the safe side Loss of...... 557141

by lozzied 2nd December 2009, 9:38 pm

.x.

i think the pulling sensation and worrying about the scars is normal WD, i had this too for quite a while and i literally thought that any second the scars would burst open and my boobs would be on the floor! it depends what position your in though Loss of...... 557141

if you feel them pulling them try something else thats more comfortable xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

by Dancing_Diva 3rd December 2009, 8:37 am

Danielle wrote:
DD, glad to hear nothing happened when you did 2 days after, maybe i'll wait 3 to be on the safe side

That would be the sensible solution, but once you see those new puppies you will want to road test them lol!!! Loss of...... Icon_eek

xxx

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