unwanted attention

by loui1981 15th May 2015, 5:46 am

Has anyone else had a bit of unwanted attention in or put of work since having a ba?

by **Charlii** 15th May 2015, 10:00 am

Nope. I don't put them out there for the world to see on a day to day, so I cant attribute any 'attention' to my BA. A friends hubs started asking questions at dinner one time, but I shut him down.

by anneritchley 15th May 2015, 1:49 pm

No not unwanted attention. A few compliments though. Xx

by EmzH 15th May 2015, 2:27 pm

I've been chatting to someone who had hers done on monday as well & she said she'd had some today - one workman oggling & shouting to his mate to have a look! She was mortified by it. Just hoping that's not the norm xx

by anneritchley 15th May 2015, 3:02 pm

Hi unless the words they are using are offensive I would just take it as a compliment, I think it's nice to get some attention. But nice attention xx

by EmzH 15th May 2015, 3:06 pm

That's what i thought. Maybe it just takes a bit of getting used to with not having had attention because of boobs. Like you said [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] as long as people aren't being offensive or purposely making me feel uncomfortable i don't have a massive issue x

by loui1981 15th May 2015, 3:47 pm

Like I never show cleavage but I don't wear baggy shapeless clothes either. And I had one guy I went to school with message me nice tits. also one of the managers in work has been messaging me and I'm now in an uncomfortable position and am not interested but also don't want to offend

by **Charlii** 15th May 2015, 3:56 pm

That's a whole different ball game, and you need to get it under control now. You have two choices, either you politely but firmly explain to him that you no longer wish to message him as it is making you uncomfortable in your workplace, or you go to your HR department. Is it your direct manager? If not, maybe speak to them first about how you should handle this. But never worry about offending, if he's put you in an uncomfortable position, you need to take the reigns and put a stop to it. Regardless of having surgery or not, that's not cool.

by Vickyxo 15th May 2015, 3:58 pm

Yeah i agree with [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] .. I had that when i first started my previous job as a Healthcare Assistant. The head chef used to inbox me on facebook inappropriate stuff making me feel awkward to go to the kitchen and as for my lunch at work cause i knew id see him! I quickly nipped it in the bud and told him 'politely' to stop as he was married and i thought he was being unprofessional. Baring in mind i was 20 at the time and he was a lot older! x

by Mammamia 15th May 2015, 4:09 pm

Agreed, you need to nip it in the bud and firmly say that's not an appropriate thing to say and you're not interested in their opinion.

No one at my work knows about my BA. But regardless, if people want to admire my tits, fine. But they are mature enough and intelligent enough to know that they should keep their feelings and opinions to themselves and not act on any admiration! Perhaps your colleague needs a reminder that he needs to engage his brain. And your friend on the school run either shouldn't have your number or shouldn't be a 'social media' friend!! Friends don't make those comments (unless of course they are close enough to you to know it doesn't bother you whatsoever). Or unless they are 16 years old....

by Sponsored content

Sun	Mon	Tue	Wed	Thu	Fri	Sat
			1	2	3	4
5	6	7	8	9	10	11
12	13	14	15	16	17	18
19	20	21	22	23	24	25
26	27	28	29	30	31

unwanted attention

unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention

Re: unwanted attention