Worrying again :(

I'm worrying again. About my skin. I now have unders and am concerned about the skin sagging away from the breast. I have some loose skin from three pregnancies and am worried that it won't stay put for very long. Am I going to be looking at another op in the next five years? I am starting to find this all a bit depressing. I loved my boobs first time round and considered it the best thing I'd ever done however this time I am really not feeling that way. There seems to be so much more to worry about this time. Now I'm thinking I should have had overs again as at least they would have sagged naturally rather than having to worry about the loose skin sagging off the implant. I'm only five weeks post op and beginning to wish I had just lived with my rotation in the left and the empty upper pole after my third baby. Just can't see these ever looking the way I want them too. Feeling proper sorry for myself right now :( Sorry I'm such a whinger :(

Awww its so hard not to worry isnt it. But will theimplants and muscles not fill the skin u have just the same as it would with overs xx

I don't know, the skin is only loose from under the nipple to the bottom curve of the breast if you get what I mean? I'm thinking Cookie is probably going to cyber slap me and tell me yet again that I need to wait for them to drop fully and fluff to fill out the bresst! Its just so hard not to look at them and get paranoid about all these things! I really really wish pregnancy hadn't ruined my boobs grr.xx

Mines was like that last time. And my.nipple just seemed to flap about (ok maybe exaggerated there) im.sure all will be fine when its settled xx

I hope so hun. This is starting to drive me mad now I'm obsessing! Wish I could just fast forward the healing and see the final result already!!xx

RexieP wrote: I'm thinking Cookie is probably going to cyber slap me and tell me yet again that I need to wait for them to drop fully and fluff to fill out the bresst!

You need to wait for them to drop and fluff! 

  

Awwww babe. They'll come good. Mine were dreadful after my first re-op and I can't even begin to tell you the amount of tears I cried thinking "what have I done?" But they DID come good, and I know its Ok for me sat here saying in time they'll be OK when they're your boobs and its you that sat there worrying, but even a week in BA healing can make such a huge difference hun.

i do actually think given how you're feeling the sooner you see your surgeon the better. I don't think you're going to settle until you do see them    Xxx

yip i was just thinking of you at work there and was coming home to post, is there any chance to see your surgeon soon?

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I've got my six week check on friday 20th, so its only a week to wait. I can't get in any sooner as when I enquired earlier in the week he only had morning appointments and I can't take any more time off work. Thanks for listening to me moan lovelies, I feel bad for constantly posting and being negative but believe it or not I'm not an emotional person face to face and find it quite hard expressing myself even to my best friend and my husband. Its much easier to say exactly how I feel on here so I'm really grateful for the support.xx

oh shust dont be silly moan away   im joking your not moaning your clearly worried and I can understand like I said on another post yesterday we can be paranoid together

If I was to count how many negative/worry posts ive posted im quite sure I could get top poster for that alone lol so please come here whenever you need to!! thats why we are all here to support each other xx

Thank you lovely :) I'm loving this place more than Facebook lately! Xx

I can't help you in advice unfortunately.. But i would just like to wish you good luck in the future with your boobs! I really hope they settle how you want them to! Try not to worry or stress yourself out. You've helped me a lot over the last few weeks so it's devastating to hear you're not happy :( good luck! Remember, it's still early days yet! Xxxx

im still a huge facebook fan have the app on my phone lol xx

Haha in all honesty so do I Tink, but I'm quite private on facebook only posting about social things and family pics, zero emotion aside from happy stuff! And thanks Tigertonix its nice to know I've been able to help you :) xx

lol I post random thoughts in my head as a status but mostly to keep in touch with family all over the world to see the kids xx

Ah yeah its so nice for that, its nice to keep in touch with people you wouldn't otherwise see that often :) xx