Night out

by Lee123 12th October 2013, 5:14 pm

I'm at a family party tonight first one since my BA, no one knows apart from hubby, boys and my daughter in law. I have bought a lovely lace top ( not see through) but it's something I would have never got away with before and now 2 hours before I go I'm feeling nervous! My age as well!! I've always covered up wearing a scarf to hide my non existent boobs, but I really don't want to now, just worried people will notice.. It sounds silly now I'm writing this but I know you lovely ladies will understand! seeing stars

by **COOKIE** 12th October 2013, 5:32 pm

Your body is giving you a new found confidence now Lee, just embrace it and go with it lovely.... You can't live your life for anyone else but you hun and I really wouldn't care what anyone has to say.

If you're blantantly asked about your boobs... Its entirely up to you how you wish to approach it. You either tell them, or if its someone you care about, just laugh it off and say jokingly "do you mind... I don't want to be sat talking about my boobs!" And walk on... If its someone you're not bothered about, just tell them to mind their own bloody buisiness!

Go out... Enjoy yourself and play it by ear babe. You look good, you feel good, so go out and have a bloody good time Lee! Hug

by Bizzyboobs 12th October 2013, 5:34 pm

Ooooooh yeah Hunni you wear it, but if you're going to feel uncomfy don't or you will probably end up fiddling all night.
I can't wait to wear flattering tops, people may not even notice....... , it sounds lovely..........
You will absolutely rock that top. You're not old, age is a number. I'm 44 and I would wear it. Too blooming right I would.......
You go girl, enjoy and have a great night.xx

by jenniferrf1 12th October 2013, 5:40 pm

I know what you mean! Part of you wants to show them off because we are so proud/happy with new confidence however it's annoying that we know people will want to know also!

I think just go for it, answer how them how you want to and enjoy it!! C

by Lee123 12th October 2013, 6:05 pm

Thanks girls, I tried so many old tops on tonight just incase, but sod it I'm wearing my new top... Funny I use to stress about having no boobs now I found myself stressing because I now have boobies :doh: