what to tell work

by adele49704 6th February 2013, 8:51 am

hey girls as you will know how judgemental some people can be i am not wanting to tell them what op i am getting but they will ask questions so can anyone think of an op i can tell them i am getting that would invole the sane area without them knowing its a ba i getting

by tinkerbell24 6th February 2013, 8:55 am

i had an op few years back where i had some lymphnodes removed under my left armpit wasnt just as sore but wasnt to lift etc for 6 weeks xx

by littlewellies 6th February 2013, 9:22 am

Not sure where u work but my work have been amazing they've all text me today to say good luck and I was so glad they knew in the run up because any nerves they've turned into excitement x

by littlewellies 6th February 2013, 9:23 am

P. S anyone who wears make up, picks out clothes they think are fashionable and make an effort to look good has the right to judge you, having cosmetic surgery is no different x

by kenzie1985 6th February 2013, 9:37 am

I work with all men at 3 different sites and they have been great.
No dodgy comments etc, very supportive .
Its going to be obvious somethings been done so might as well get in before ppl gossip.

by tinkerbell24 6th February 2013, 9:55 am

i did however tell everyone at my work, my manager who is female and we share an office she is great and was like "good for you wish i could get some things done" told Graham who i work with who is a good friend and h said i didnt need it done but has been great and been winding me up calling me chebs and then there are 2 other guys who i dont really speak to i never told them but they found out then there is another man and 2 women and they have all been fab xx

by mrs_s_88 6th February 2013, 10:39 am

Likewise all the guys I work with have been lovely. Texting me when I was off work and always asking how I am feeling. I was scared to tell my dad as well but he was wet supportive as well. I think people may surprise you hun. I figured if they noticed when I got back then that conversation would be more awkward or if everyone was whispering behind my back that wouldn't be very nice either. Xx

by **COOKIE** 6th February 2013, 11:39 am

You don't have to tell work or anybody if you don't want to lovely.... Making up an operation for the breast area might be suggestive of something serious though lovely and the last thing you'd want with having elective surgery is get well cards and well wishes and the sympathy upon returning to work.

Its best to just keep it simple hun. A lot of women just use the excuse of saying you have lady problems, if they ask you expand, just say its nothing serious, just lady problems that needs sorting out and its private. Xx

by Princess_x 6th February 2013, 11:43 am

I would go with 'women's problems' too, I wouldn't say an op in the chest/breast area as like Cookie said, people will assume it's something far worse. Saying 'women's problems' people will assume it's your bits so probably won't ask you anything further x

by balamoryyellfruit 6th February 2013, 3:47 pm

Could say you've had some benign lumps removed or like Tink say just say lymph nodes =] x x

by alexandra33 6th February 2013, 7:08 pm

I told a couple friends but not management - but then I work at a larger company - they'd probably accuse me of sexual harrassment if I mentioned my boobies what to tell work 557141

by Shazcott 6th February 2013, 10:28 pm

I took unpaid leave and haven't told anybody at my work as I know if I did it would spread like wildfire and its not there business!! I just said I'm having time off for personal reasons and left it at that. I have noticed the odd person looking at my chest but hey ho Hysterical

xx

by achorley 7th February 2013, 3:55 pm

im having mine done and i told work straight awaty theyre thrilled for me!x

by Nicole 7th February 2013, 4:04 pm

I haven't told my work at all, i work seasonally and am getting my op over easter so when they asked about me coming back for easter i just said i 'probably won't be able to because its my final semester of uni and i'll have loads of work' which is true anyway :P

you could always book time off as holiday, and then when you go back if you're still a bit sore around the breast area and people notice blow it off as tender boobs pre period or a change of contraception etc. it'll shut the lads right up and the women will prob give you 'oh you poor thing i know how you feel!' and leave it at that xx

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