PLEASE GIRLS HELP........REALLY WORRIED

Please can you have a look at my pics if you are post op and give me your opinion. I have spent most of today's in tears. If you start at Day2 Post Op in my photos and go thorough them until the ones I have taken today it is very obvious that my left boob (as you look at them) is a lot bigger and higher than the right one. I wouldn't have been so worried and upset if this difference had happened over the past two weeks but they have been like this from day one. Can one boob really drop after 2 days? When I wear a t-shirt the difference in size and height is so obvious. Also if the right boob is still to drop then when it does drop it's going to be saggy if it goes south any further. At this moment in time I really don't like them, they look awful. I don't like looking at them, and am really worried what they are eventually look like when the healing is all done
Please help.
XShelleX

Hun you're only 2 weeks post op, your boobs have so much moving and settling to do before you can judge where they're gonna sit.
Your left looks like it's dropping quicker than your right which is completely normal. You can tell that your right hasn't dropped much by looking at the position of your scars. On your left the scar is more or less in the crease, on the right it's about an inch away. Again totally normal for one to be ahead of the other and totally normal for your boobs to still be high at this stage.

Don't panic, it's all looking good so far.
When do you see your surgeon/nurse again. Might be nice to have some reasurance from them too.

You will be amazed at how different they're going to look in a month or two. It's not an instant thing, they need time and once they've dropped you're going to love them xx

Littleone,
Thank you so much for you reassuring words, I am seeing my surgeon in 2 days time I am hoping he says the same as you. I have waited 30 years for these boobs and wanted them to be as near perfect as they could be, a little difference in size I can cope with but looking at them as they are now gutted me. But honestly I feel better about them after reading your post, thank you for taking the time to look and give me your opinion it is really appreciated.
XShelleX

Hi hun,

I can take a look if you want? Don't panic! most girls boobs settle at different rates, they are 2 different operations so it is very normal for them to settle at different rates.

I did have this issue and although my boobs changed and improved over the following few months, there was still a significant difference so I have just had a re-op to fix it (.I had unders and my muscle was holding the implant up). I will point out that it is far more likely that yours just need to settle but if you do need a re-op it is really not the end of the world. You are such early days and I can almost guarantee that your surgeon will tell you to give them a chance. Try not to over analyse them I know it is hard but it is much better to not look at them too much until after a good few weeks.

Patience is a virtue when it comes to new boobies hun xxx

Hi Shelle, how can I look at your photos, i'm new to this site? oh I'm so glad i have come accross your post I am 26 days post op and feel actually like you do, I can see such a big difference through the sports bras and t-shirts, even my eight year old told me when she seen me in the shower that one boob was bigger than the other-she has no idea I had surgery but just said what she seen, as kids do, this totally freaked me out!! But like the girls say we just have to wait, I too am worried and even saying to myself " i couldn't possibly go get measured as they are two different sizes and I would be so embarressed" ECCKK, I had 365cc in each breast even though one was bigger than the other to begin with due to breast feeding more on one side, so was surprised PS didn't put bigger implant in smaller boob, but left him as he is the expert! fingers crossed girl that we are still early in healing and this time next month we will be delighted with our new boobies xx

Hay Hun, Ill have a look at your pics but i just want to say that 2 weeks is very early on & it takes a long time for your boobs to 'settle'.
Id almost exspect them to look wonky at this stage..........& like Nat said with overs in time they probably will even out in the end & its more likely that they wont settle with unders due to being under a muscle.

x

Hey hun!

I just uploaded some more of my pics (I am now week 5) and my left breast sits a lot higher and is still quite firm compared to my right so dont worry (it will drop in its own time) I will take a look at urs if you like?
Let me know if you want my password etc so you can take a look at mine xx

Hi Ladies,
Thank you all for your words of support. They really mean a lot to me as I am worried sick. The thing is at the beginning it was the scars I was most worried about but they have healed fantastic, they are really soft and just a fine line as you can see from the pics. Now it's the boobs, I just think they look like they belong to two different people lol.
CRYSTAL, HATTIE, DECISIONS I have PM you all the password and username to access my pics.
SHAKIRA Hun I am really sorry but one of the rules on here states that until your status is upgraded by the moderators from newbie to active member we can't share photos, sorry again Hun

yes I've just been reading that, Its ok and quite understandable. when my status gets changed I could share my photos too , I also feel reassured after reading your words of support , thanks ladies xx

Hi hunni,

I had a look at your pics thinking that I may be about to see something just like my issue and I would have been totally honest if it was but I think your boobies look amazing and absolutely nothing like my issue at all.

I think they look like one has dropped quite quickly (but by no means bottoming out) and the other just has a little catching up to do but I really don't think you have a problem. I'm pretty sure your surgeon will tell you you need to give them time to settle and I am sure they will.

Please don't worry hun and try not to over analyse - put those lovely boobies back in their sports bra and let them do what they need to do- easier said than done I know!

If you want to see my pics PM me and I will send you my details - you will see the difference between my issue and yours, this may reassure you xxx

shakira wrote:yes I've just been reading that, Its ok and quite understandable. when my status gets changed I could share my photos too , I also feel reassured after reading your words of support , thanks ladies xx

Thank you for cooperating and being understanding about the forum rules hun, they are there to protect us all

I'm a little over two weeks out and have the same situation. I had one smaller, (actually non-existent) boob that got pumped up with at least 50 cc more than the other and that one is harder, tighter and higher. The other one is perfect. I'm praying that it drops and matches the other, eventually.

Good luck shelle with your appointment with surgeon today - hope he will be able to reassure you that everything is fine - let us know how appointment goes - will be thinking of you! xxx

As everyone has said, you are still very early post op babe, give it some time. Perfectly natural to have some panic moments. Big cuddles from me xx

Hey babes I am now 7 weeks post op you can have a look at my pics and see just how much you change over the weeks loads i to was in tears the first few weeks but its normal sweetie if you want Ill take a look if you want my pass word just PM me xxxxxx

Hi Ladies,
Just a quick update, I went to see my PS on Thursday. Told him how I felt about the difference in size. He had a look and feel and told me that he was really pleased with them and how well they were healing, and just like yup ladies on here he told me it is a matter of time and they will eventually even up. I came out of his office a very happy bunny. He did say to me " just as our bodies are asymmetric, so is the healing process".
Thank you all for your reassuring words, without all your support and reassurance I know I would have spent a lot more time worrying and in tears, you are all wonderful.

Many Thanks
XShelleX

Glad you're appointment went well Shelle, but most of all I'm so pleased you feel reassured, you can relax now and enjoy your boobs hun. Take care. xxx

I have had a look to hun & they look really good to me Hun! I couldnt see any problems & they look like they are settling very well. It quite commen to get one boob 'drop' & settle quicker then the other and i think this is what has happend with you.............the other boob will soon catch up.

x

hey babes they are looking great and exactly as crystle says its normal for one boob to drop more that the other mine did as you can see on my photos xxx

Glad your PS reassured you that boobs healing normally. I can't wait for mine now that my ticker says less than one month! xxx

I am Havin the very same problem Hun.. My right boob is much higher and firmer than left. So much that my right nipple looks much lower as the bottom of that breast is not as full.. I am going back to my ps on Sunday to see what he thinks. I would love to have a look Hun to see if it's the same as mine and I can send you my password to see mine if u wish also.. I'm glad Ur ps reassured you and Ur feeling better.. I got my op the start of October and it feels like mine is never going to drop.