sex after the op....worried
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sex after the op....worried
Ok im keeping it blunt.
Im feeling really uncomfortable with getting naked.
I know u girls say the scars are not bad but im very aware of how they look.
I just dont want anyone to see them...its been 4 weeks. .I might as well be celibate
Anyone else feel this way?
Im feeling really uncomfortable with getting naked.
I know u girls say the scars are not bad but im very aware of how they look.
I just dont want anyone to see them...its been 4 weeks. .I might as well be celibate
Anyone else feel this way?
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Re: sex after the op....worried
Keep the lights off can't say I've ever felt that way about mine, we all have the scars and they're definitely the last thing a man is going to be bothered about x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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Mine is on my nipple. ..so its right there on your face lol
I just feel awkward. ..really not liking the scars.
Damn it! ! Lol
I just feel awkward. ..really not liking the scars.
Damn it! ! Lol
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Honestly kenzie, he will see past the scars! If it really is bothering you, dim the lights, or turn off the lights and just have candles x and maybe try with the light on when they fade a bit more! X
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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Good idea, the scars underneath don't bother me too much, just the nipple.
It looks stretched and im so aware it.
Dim lights is a good idea
It looks stretched and im so aware it.
Dim lights is a good idea
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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He will think your trying to be romantic, men too can be a bit dim lol xx
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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At this stage I would keep your sports bra on. It may not be sexy but at least there covered and secure or you could throw a dressing up outfit or pretty something over the top if it made you feel more confident. Your scars will soon fade and will be barely noticeable around edge xx
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Re: sex after the op....worried
Lol! !! Lisa u r spot on.
Did u all unleash the Boobies or keep sports bra on?
Did u all unleash the Boobies or keep sports bra on?
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Definitely keep it on for a while yet as the movement wouldn't be too good for them. x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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Doesn't get any sexier than that. Lol
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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I'm 5 weeks post op and sexy granny bra has been kept on!!!
Redtulip123- BJSF Addict
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I kept it on, he was allowed to umm stroke lol but that was it, at about 5.5 weeks I took it off, and I "drove", I let him have a little touch, I was worried he would cause them to rotate. And at my 6 week check up with my ps, he said to treat them as our own! As long as I was comfy and not in any discomfort. But I just had a straight forward BA. You should definatly wait for the all clear from your ps before you do anything naughty with them xx
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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How are ur scars healing kenzie?
I was thinking about this topic the other day u don't it will effect ur sex life do u! X
I was thinking about this topic the other day u don't it will effect ur sex life do u! X
Sezbaby2- BJSF Addict
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My scars underneath are ok but the nipple one is quite red.
Im probably being over paranoid. Ill be updating my pic trail each week to see the changes.
I have a high sex drive and it's driving me nuts.
Im probably being over paranoid. Ill be updating my pic trail each week to see the changes.
I have a high sex drive and it's driving me nuts.
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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I kept my bra on and got tips off Lisa cos she's the resident perv ;] i always tell my hubby to give them a little squeeze to see if they've gone softer or if it's just me flattering myself haha.
Kenzie your scars aren't bad at all hun! I know you think yours are in a bad place for having sex, but i have scars on my pooney from where i spilled a tub of curry down myself as a child, least you don't have that and if i can overcome a mangled muff you can overcome yours x
Kenzie your scars aren't bad at all hun! I know you think yours are in a bad place for having sex, but i have scars on my pooney from where i spilled a tub of curry down myself as a child, least you don't have that and if i can overcome a mangled muff you can overcome yours x
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god I love you girls sooooo much xx
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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I'll have a peek but we always think ours are worse than other I'm sure there fine!
Just do it Hun it least it will make u smile for a while until ur horney again lol!
X
Just do it Hun it least it will make u smile for a while until ur horney again lol!
X
Sezbaby2- BJSF Addict
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Pmsl! !!! Bala that last comment nearly made me choke on my drink! !
You girls crack me up! !
You girls crack me up! !
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Mangled muff
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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Eloquent? Is that what their calling perverts these days?
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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Seriously made me LOL
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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How come wherever there's a chance to be pervy Lisa and balamory run to it!!!??? A what muff balamory??
Kenzie I really don't think ur scars are that bad honestly we just tend to over criticise ourselves, men don't notice these things... He'll be too busy counting his lucky stars for having a fabulous pair of knocker on his face or wherever else (I'm not one to judge) to notice anything else hun xx
Kenzie I really don't think ur scars are that bad honestly we just tend to over criticise ourselves, men don't notice these things... He'll be too busy counting his lucky stars for having a fabulous pair of knocker on his face or wherever else (I'm not one to judge) to notice anything else hun xx
angie8131- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: sex after the op....worried
Ive been keeping mine on too, he's attempted to take it off but he's got swift slap away lol. x
loclo26- BJSF Elite Member
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Angie - I don't know what your chattin about! Me and balamory are so innocent, we have no understanding of the word, Pervy??
Kenzie- just take it slow, try and let him know that the bra has to stay on and he has to be carefull, but not when your umm stuck in the moment lol that can really kill the mood. ( unless of course it's too late lol). X
Kenzie- just take it slow, try and let him know that the bra has to stay on and he has to be carefull, but not when your umm stuck in the moment lol that can really kill the mood. ( unless of course it's too late lol). X
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