i can't decide !

So great , today the husband springs on me whist watching TV and drinking coffee without a care in the world the fact he doesn't like the implants I have as they feel too firm and he hopes I have chosen different ones .I have tbe polyurethane silimed's . I have gone with the PU ones again although polytech version as I fear CC and to be fair I have had no trouble with them at all it's just an aesthetic reason why I'm going in for round 2 .I'm not keen myself on the firm edge of them even after 18 months but it's nothing I can't live with . I also like the fact they are stuck into position during surgery and that's where they stay . I have had a feel of some Nagor's during a consultation and yes they seemed to feel much squashier and didn't have the edge but not having had them implanted it's hard to say how much better they would feel .
So I'm now in a right quandary , he doesn't want me to have the lift done he never wanted me to have the BA in the first place I tend to be a law unto myself and I do feel for him sometimes and maybe they do feel really hard to him during (he hum ) getting jiggy. But I'm fearful of CC and rippling both of which seem to be reduced with the PU implants . Im having the biggest ones I can actually fit this time and subfacially so rippling is a real risk .
Thanks husband , 10 days prior to knife and I thought I was all sorted in my head now seemingly not and if I want to change implants I'm guessing I need to hurry up as i have no idea which ones they hold and what needs ordering in .

Such a difficult one. Maybe have another chat with him when it's not so much of a surprise to you so you can discuss easier and share your concern. All I would say is although the furries are firmer than normal silicon, I personally think even normal implants feel different and are firmer than natural. So if you make the switch to nagor, he may still be disappointed. I have nagor and they feel really soft when moving the implant around as a whole, but a lot firmer when you squeeze the implant, especially when lying down.

Hey hun, it must be really hard to hear that so close to your surgery, maybe it had been on his mind for ages and he'd been trying to find the courage to tell you how he felt? Definitely worth trying to sit down and talk about it all again with no distractions. I'm still pre-BA and I do worry about what my husband will think of how they feel, especially cos I want the furries too! Good luck hun, hope you can sort it so you both happy :-) xx

Hi, I have polytech furries too, had mine 6 1/2 months, Jonathan did mine also :) like u, I chose them as they just seemed a better option where cc and rippling are concerned, especially as I'm very slim.
I know your husband may say he doesn't like them and everything but it isn't huim that would have to deal with complications should any arise. Even at 18 months post op they're not done softening etc, Jonathan said even 2 years post op they are still changing. I would think about the long run, unless you can afford, emotionally and financially,to change them again. I know we want to keep our men happy, but ultimately its our body, we have to live with it. I'm pretty sure he still touches them and stuff Lol x

Men arent always the greatest with words! At the end of the day its your bodily and your choice, not noone elses. My boyfriend was sooo negative at first.. Telling me i dont need them and he likes my 'small' boobs ha. But if you dont feel confident its something he needs to accept. Maybe have another chat with him, be completely honest with eachother.. Let him express his concerns and you express yours too. You have to remind him that implants boobies arent 'natural' so they arent going to be as squishy as a natural breast! Hope everything works out for you! Xxxx

I have cohesive gel silicone implants and although a little squidgy they are still hard compared to natural boobs and always will be. Go with what you feel happy with. It's your body after all xx

Could you maybe go for another chat with the surgeon and take your husband? Would he be honest infront of the surgeon about his feelings?
I totally agree with the girls above that have said it's your body and I 100% hadn't boobs done for me and nobody else but I would have been devastated if my hubby didn't like them as they are for our mutual benefit! Whilst he's been like a dog on heat, he did say at the start they'll be better when they look more natural and I really took it personally. He loves them, that's apparent (!) but I really would have been upset if he didn't. 
Try and encourage him to express his concerns in a bit more detail and see if you can resolve it, even if it means popping back to the surgeon for his reassurance.
It is your body so ultimately your decision and although I spent "my" money on them, that also means some sacrifices for my husband so I wanted him to be just as happy as me xx

*sorry that should say 100% had my boobs done for me

Yes I agree, it does matter what your hubby thinks, if I thought my hubby didn't like my boobs I would be horrified! But at the end of the day they will always feel a little different to natural boobs xx

Men, flipping nightmare. Just go with what your comfy with, if he sees your happy, he most probably  will be too!