Really trying not to worry....ITS NOT WORKING!

by Jen23 27th April 2015, 4:24 pm

Hi girls, me again. Same problem again!
Really got some issues with my Righty, 6 months PO almost and its still high and tight and sitting away from my chest. I can see and feel almost half of the implant. Its gotten worse the last few days and has been really achey, also feels like there is some fluid bbehind it again. I keep telling myself it will even out soon enough, I have to tell myself that or I would get really stressed, like i am now.
This sudden stress is down to the recent ache and the definite difference since the ache. Im seeing my guy next Wednesday but its really got me down today, to the point where I could cry about it. I cant even look at them nude which is really upsetting :(
Ive got furries by the way.
Just wondering if anyone else had or has a naughty boob that is causing them grief? If its sorted iitself out etc. Just some reassurance really....
Jen x

by anneritchley 27th April 2015, 4:30 pm

Hi Jen sorry to hear your feeling this way. As you know my right his higher than the left and harder but it's not that bad that I'm worrying at the mo. It's fair to say that you have given it 6 months. I think it's the right time that you see your surgeon for a solution. If you are not happy that's not good enough in my books. I hope you get somewhere with him. We pay enough money and you should feel happy. Let us know how you get on. Big hugs xxxx

by Emmapinder1983 27th April 2015, 4:48 pm

Hi Hun, sorry to hear your still having problems. Just had a good Google and it could be 2 things. 1st your muscle fibres aren't covering it, 2nd not enough breast tissue to cover it.
As you have pain though defiantly get it checked out when you see him next weds.
What do you mean by fluid Hun? X x

by going4it 27th April 2015, 5:02 pm

sorry to hear that Jen. You've done what they ask and waiting the 6 months so if it's still not right and you're not happy withyou're doing the right thing going back to see him.
Hopefully he will be able to reassure you or resolve it for you.
Good luck next week and let us know what he says but hope you start feeling better before then xx

by Mammamia 27th April 2015, 6:15 pm

Sorry to hear it's bothering you. Great you already have an appt to see your surgeon. It may be a case of patience but you need to get it checked out, even if just for reassurance. Mine have changed a fair bit month 6-10 so there may be lots more changes to come. Try not to think about it too much until your appt. What will be, will be, and nothing is permanent x

by Jen23 27th April 2015, 7:41 pm

Thank you so much for your replies everyone!
My appointment is my 6 month check up, if I didn't already have that I would have made one.
I see what yr saying mammamia, I know I'm still early days, especially with furries but it does bother me. I think its more the ache than anything, might just mean things are moving. Although I have been doing lots of overtime at work so extra time spent on the coffee machine. I've stayed off it today but that's not always possible. I need to get a new sports bra too, mine is OK, but just OK.
I think I just need to chill. I will keep u all posted for sure.
Thanks again ladies x

by going4it 27th April 2015, 9:00 pm

I'm sure once you've seen the surgeon that will put your mind at rest. Try not to worry xx

by **mirren001** 27th April 2015, 11:29 pm

Could be as you say the extra work causing your discomfort, I have done a bit of painting at home recently & right boob ached for days after it.
Hopefully once you've seen your surgeon he will be able to reassure you & have a solution to deal with your stubborn boob! Hug

XXX a

by blush89 28th April 2015, 11:59 am

Oh no! Sorry to hear this hun :( I know you've always worried about it from the start so I think you've done the right thing waiting to see if it'll settle. Let us know what the surgeon says, hopefully it's nothing to be worried about.

They look fab in your pics but I know how it feels when something is really bothering you. Chin up and focus on ignoring them till you get the surgeons advice and checkup/

xx
Hug

by Jen23 28th April 2015, 4:56 pm

Thank you :) I called today to get it noted on the system and the lady I usually speak to, she is lovely, she said that really I don't need to worry. That up to 12 months lots of changes can happen.
I'm back in my sports bra today but defi itely need a different one, I don't think this one fits right anymore. Went to m and s to try and get one but they don't start in a 30 for a start, and the lady I saw this time was so rude I just told her to forget it and I would go somewhere else!
Do debenhams stores do a large selection of sports bra s? I would like to try something different from my shock absorber, although it has served me well, and still does for exercising :) x

by anneritchley 28th April 2015, 4:58 pm

Hi Jen yes they do have a big range. So do house of Fraser xxxx

by Mammamia 28th April 2015, 5:09 pm

I don't really find my shock absorbers comfy. I love the pananche ones. I have the wired and non wired versions and both are really suportive and comfy. Maybe look on Amazon as some deals and then you can refund if needed. I wear these ones for high impact stuff. For comfort and at night I still wear the asda ones!

by Jen23 29th April 2015, 7:19 pm

Ladies! I have to tell you I bought a tesco running bra today and it is so comfortable! Far more so then my shock absorber! And a bargain at 16. Just had to share the love really. Its the same style as my shock absorber max but just much better :) x

by Emmapinder1983 29th April 2015, 7:26 pm

I'll have a look, cause I'm struggling to find a bra to run in. Have the shock absorber but didn't work x x

by Jen23 29th April 2015, 7:30 pm

Its very good. Comes up quite big though. They only start at 32 band, which I always wear in sports bra s anyway, but I had to have a 32 D. Its even got a clippy bit on the back for extra support :) also, there was a bikini top like yours Lol one left in a 12 so I bought it. It fits fine. If I was going in water in it or whatever though, I might alter it a bit, but my boobs hold it up fine Lol x

by Jen23 29th April 2015, 7:32 pm

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by Emmapinder1983 29th April 2015, 7:33 pm

Glad you got a bikini hun, tesco has so many lovely ones. Going to try asda next x x

by Emmapinder1983 29th April 2015, 7:34 pm

Thanks hun x x

by **mirren001** 29th April 2015, 7:39 pm

Jen23 wrote:Ladies! I have to tell you I bought a tesco running bra today and it is so comfortable! Far more so then my shock absorber! And a bargain at 16. Just had to share the love really. Its the same style as my shock absorber max but just much better :) x

Will need to check these out, could do,with some new ones.
XXX

by Jen23 29th April 2015, 7:44 pm

They have all sorts, for all types of activity. I wanted it for just everyday wear at work, as my job is very manual. Feeling much better since being in my sports bra for a couple of days. Had an awful experience with a woman in m and s the other day, telling me at 6 months they shouldn't ache, she didn't want to sell me a sports bra to wear all the time until I had spoken to my surgeon!!! I couldn't believe it!!!!

by Jen23 6th May 2015, 6:35 am

So today's the day. Managed to get myself in a right old tiz and convince myself I have CC in my right boob....even though with furries the chances are so slim, thats why I chose them. I slept without a bra last night, hoping that maybe if I give it more chance to move about then it might. Im in a bra constantly...even though thats mot done my left any harm. It still feels the same as it always has, just tight I guess I never even am aware of my lefty now and it really does look like a real boob, I can feel my right all the time.
Will let you all know what he says later, appointment is st half 1 x

by anneritchley 6th May 2015, 6:37 am

Hi Jen good luck today, I'm sure it will all be ok. As you say I'm too aware of my right as well xxx

by Jen23 6th May 2015, 6:39 am

Its rubbish isn't it Anne! They never tell you stuff like this before surgery either :( I hope he offers a real solution instead of telling me to just wait it out x

by anneritchley 6th May 2015, 6:49 am

Yes it makes you feel really frustrated. I will be interested to see what they say to you today. Xxxx

by dannieyram87 6th May 2015, 6:57 am

Good luck with surgeon today jen23. Hopefully your mind at rest after being with surgeon xx

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