Partner wants to know.......
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Partner wants to know.......
This might have been asked before and is a bit personal but my fella wants to know when he can start to rheep the benefits lol I know it will definitely be after ive been signed off by the surgeon but after that what kind of play is advised ?
Typical fella he's impacient lol
Typical fella he's impacient lol
Emmybird2- Active BJSF Member
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HaHa, typical fella :-), glad you asked this, as I would be prob asking same question in few months! Will wait for the replys :-)
neeleytrev123- Newbie BJSF Member
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I think you'll be ok, just keep your sports bra on. My ps advised no sex for 2 weeks after ba due to increase of blood flow. Sorry if to much info but be careful of certain positions, that involve your boobs being squished lol. He'll just have be careful touching your boobs as well. X x
Emmapinder1983- BJSF Elite Member
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Whenever you feel ready. Keep your bra on during until your all clear though. Not the sexiest, but better than damage. And take it slow, not too much bouncing. Other than that, do what your body wants. Once you're out of the bra, a good thing to do is take his hand in yours to show how much pressure he can use whilst handling them.
Charlii- Moderator
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As a guide line I was told to wait about 2 weeks before having sex... kinda only lasted 3 days.. not that I did very much!! xx
sarahlou222- BJSF Elite Member
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I was wondering this myself lol x
Zum_Boobs- BJSF Addict
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Yes just wait for all clear by surgeon. Although I didn't feel ready for my hubby to start having a good old feel and other stuff they like too do, say no more!! As for positions certain ones I was ok with , but it all depends what you feel comfortable with really. They tend to get a bit carried away when it comes to boobs. If you get all clear at 2 weeks sometimes you still don't feel ready to have them handled. Xx
anneritchley- BJSF Elite Member
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My surgeon said no handling for 8 weeks!
Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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8 weeks!! well ive been 5 now so what's another 3 weeks lol I'll ask when I go on the 23rd x
Emmybird2- Active BJSF Member
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Haha this was something I was wondering too!
blush89- BJSF Addict
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Ooooo 8 weeks for handling, that's good to know :) xx
sarahlou222- BJSF Elite Member
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Haha that made me laugh, no handling for 8weeks! Good to know thanks ladies as I'm sure my husband will be Mr Impatient too!! Xx
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It may be sooner so check with your surgeon but I imagine it usually coincedes with the period of time you're in a support bra. Best check! Having said that, mine didn't feel at their best for a while so I didnt feel that comfortable with them earlier!
Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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Definatly not till the all clear from the surgeon, however even if at 6/8 weeks , they need to be handled as much as you feel is comfortable. Remember they'll still be fairly hard and you may not have a lot of sensation , or opposite have hyper senstavive nipples!
So maybe have a handle with care talk before!! X
So maybe have a handle with care talk before!! X
mrsball- Global Mod
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I see my post didn't post !!! Perhaps my post was speechless. This did make me laugh !!
Gembo- BJSF Addict
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Then you post 3 time, and we cany shut you up chuckle chuckle
Emmybird2- Active BJSF Member
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And now it's doing it to me but only posting half my post lol x
Emmybird2- Active BJSF Member
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Only gentle handling and not until 8 weeks ish, even then they will feel funny and hard lol x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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I am 2 wks post op and manged gentle spooning with no groping just hair pulling lol x
bambi69- Active BJSF Member
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Bambi!!! Xrated hahahaha
Gembo- BJSF Addict
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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] !! Brilliant!! Xx
going4it- BJSF Addict
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bambi69 wrote:I am 2 wks post op and manged gentle spooning with no groping just hair pulling lol x
Brilliant! Eat your heart out Mr Grey! xx
blush89- BJSF Addict
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That did make me chuckle! Xx
sarahlou222- BJSF Elite Member
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Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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Haha i was wondering this myself and felt so nervous to ask anyone or at consultation!!
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