Re: One bigger and higher

by Langers 17th February 2015, 5:25 pm

Great advice xx

by Rebeccajbarratt 17th February 2015, 5:27 pm

Thanks mirren that's reassuring xx

by Fleurina 18th February 2015, 8:14 am

Good advice mirren. I will try and ignore them, but not easy. Showed my mum and sister yesterday and they agreed there was a difference. Interestingly the one that has given me the most pain is the smaller one and larger one is now giving me pain and it hasn't previously. I really really hope that it is still swelling in my right x

by Langers 18th February 2015, 8:17 am

My smaller one has always been the most painful

by camilla85 18th February 2015, 10:48 am

Hi, I had BA to correct asymmetry and one boob looks nice and settled and another one still high up but its still early post op thou.
I think you need to be patient hun and it eventually settles in if that makes sense - anyway this is what I am still hoping/waiting for:)

by Fleurina 18th February 2015, 11:07 am

I really hope so. Have been crying this morning, I know is silly but this is my 3rd and I have really had my fill.

by Langers 18th February 2015, 11:17 am

It's not silly. It's an emotional thing. I can't even look at mine and my incisions are so painful. To scared to look at them. Hugs to you honey. Xxx

by camilla85 18th February 2015, 11:21 am

Oww bless you, sending hugs your way.
I know it's hard but try not to check your boobs all the time if that makes sense as it's only winding you up - I felt exactly the same hun.
As girls are saying it can take months before they will settle.
I am over 2 months post op and they still havent settled.

I have to say your Avi looks very nice in my opinion and I only by very close look I could notice what you mean hun.

How big implants did you have?

by Fleurina 18th February 2015, 11:23 am

Thanks so much. since my avi they have got worse unfortunately. I had 240cc so only little ones. Also with mybreast but used simon withey.

by Prettylil 18th February 2015, 12:41 pm

Mine looked like triangles in the 1st 2 months ... as mirren said - try to ignore them but pls raise your concerns with your surgeon asap - so its noted.

by NikkiJaneT 18th February 2015, 12:43 pm

I'm feeling down too hun. My right has swollen more all over. Still has a slight seroma too. My left has a hole in it. And I'm still so sore can't can't do bugger all! Got so much to do as moving house in 9 days and I can't lift a finger. Have had to sort out kids new schools and other stuff in the last month. My hubby-to-be is working 24/7. I can't drive as I had a seizure after surgery so now on a driving ban for 6 months. Had an mri scan yesterday and that made my boobs more painful lying flat for all that time with the vibrations and I need to repair before our wedding honeymoon in 7 weeks. Feel like I can't cope at the moment. I live in hope that on Friday when I have my dressing changed there is some good news. If there isn't I will probably break down in front of the nurse xxx

by Mammamia 18th February 2015, 12:49 pm

Big hugs all round. Try to stay positive ladies which I know is easier said then done. Fingers crossed for you Friday nikkijane and fleurina definitely get your concerns noted.i had to ignore my boobs for similar reasons and I'm really glad i did as I drives you nuts otherwise!

by Fleurina 18th February 2015, 2:26 pm

Gosh nikki you have really been through the mill. Take care of yourself.
Mammamia your advice is very good. Will get all my concerns out tomorrow xx

by anneritchley 18th February 2015, 4:50 pm

I had one bigger than the other. The surgeon put a bigger implant in on the right but that is smaller and higher than the left. I'm just trying to ignore the size and wait til 6 months to see what happens xx

by Fleurina 18th February 2015, 5:40 pm

It's amazing actually how many of us seem to be experiencing the same problems. It's hard not to scrutinise them isn't it. i will be interested to hear what my surgeon says tomorrow. Will keep u posted x

by Rebeccajbarratt 18th February 2015, 5:41 pm

Yes keep us posted fleurina hope all goes well xxx

by drinkeroftea 18th February 2015, 5:50 pm

Hi girls,

Is this a fairly common problem? Or is it because you are still quite new post op and will be scrutinising them a lot more?
X

by NikkiJaneT 18th February 2015, 5:58 pm

Good luck Fleurina. Hope it goes well tomorrow. So hard not to over analyse in the early stages. Fingers crossed for you x

by anneritchley 18th February 2015, 5:59 pm

I would be I interesting to see what he says xx

by Princess_x 18th February 2015, 6:36 pm

It's common if you have any asymmetry pre-op (a lot of women do).

by Mammamia 18th February 2015, 6:55 pm

I think we'd all be surprised by the normal of ladies who have naturally big boobs with asymmetry. It doesn't help us when we consider we've spent 6k trying to correct them, but personally it helped me accept it, and love my boobs. I googled page 3 girls and flicked through the images and when scrutinising them I could even see assymettry in their boobs that I would never have noticed usually. It's so important to discuss pre and post op x

by drinkeroftea 18th February 2015, 7:29 pm

Thanks girls, makes sense. And I guess the more you are looking at something, and taking photos etc, the more you are going to notice any differences.

x

by Mammamia 18th February 2015, 8:41 pm

So true drinkeroftea. My assymettry is magnified 10 fold when I take a photo....hence why I don't take photos anymore!!! In fact when I explained my assymettry to my surgeon he downplayed it, and then he took photos of my scars and when looking at the back of the camera commented that it was a lot more obvious on camera!

by Fleurina 20th February 2015, 12:32 pm

So saw the surgeon and predictably been told still swollen, could change etc. To me they are wonky and still too big. All in all am gutted. It's hard to be positive when I know I can't get anything like the result I wanted. X

by **mirren001** 20th February 2015, 3:55 pm

It is a waiting game until all swelling has gone & you're fully healed etc
Has your surgeon noted your concerns & seeing you again to check on how they are doing?
I found it helped me by ignoring them for a while whilst settling & they did change for the better eventually.
Try not to over scrutinise them for a bit & let them do their own thing. Hug

XXX

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