Perfect Age? 21?
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Perfect Age? 21?
Hi Girls I've got my second consultation with my chosen surgeon tomorrow! Mr Nathan from transform. I keep having the debate with my mum of am I too young. I was 21 on the 1st of November!
My Mums argument was I havnt had kids so paying all this money at this age when they could potentially get ruined/ or not be as good due to kids so I should wait till after because her boobs got big after having me (she is now a E cup in a bra) She feels I should wait
My Argument was I do not want kids for another 7 years at least and NO OFFENCE meant but I don't want big boobs because I've now had children I want them when I'm in my prime, I want to look back at my pictures of being young and happy I did it, that I'm happy I've got those memories and pictures that Im happy with myself. Not regret I never had it done
Is anyone on her My age and having it done or done?
Has anyone had them done and then had children? or any regrets of not doing it earlier
Or does anyone here have a view on this please?
Also my mum did say she would support me regardless
Thank you
My Mums argument was I havnt had kids so paying all this money at this age when they could potentially get ruined/ or not be as good due to kids so I should wait till after because her boobs got big after having me (she is now a E cup in a bra) She feels I should wait
My Argument was I do not want kids for another 7 years at least and NO OFFENCE meant but I don't want big boobs because I've now had children I want them when I'm in my prime, I want to look back at my pictures of being young and happy I did it, that I'm happy I've got those memories and pictures that Im happy with myself. Not regret I never had it done
Is anyone on her My age and having it done or done?
Has anyone had them done and then had children? or any regrets of not doing it earlier
Or does anyone here have a view on this please?
Also my mum did say she would support me regardless
Thank you
AP1993- Newbie BJSF Member
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
Hiya, My friend had 2 children then implants, then she had another 2 children. She breastfeed all her kids and her boobs are still fine, I think she had 500cc under the muscle. I don't think you're to young, I'm now 31 and wish I would of got them done when I was younger x x
Emmapinder1983- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
Hello, welcome, I'm 27, got 3 kids, not planning any more... And Ive finally got round to be able to have the consultations to have them done, I would say go with your gut, only you know whether it's best to wait or to go for it now, obviously take everyone's opinions on board but ultimately its your body and your decision,
Good luck in whatever you decide Hun
Xx
Good luck in whatever you decide Hun
Xx
Roses27- BJSF Addict
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
Hi Hun
I had my first ba at 34 after I'd finished having kids, I've recently had my second one 12 years later. If I'd been abke to afford it I definitely would have had it done when I was younger.
Implants dont last forever so at some point you'll have to have them done again so you may as well go for it now, enjoy em while you're young and get them redone when you've had your family, they'll prob be due to be done then anyway.
Good luck
I had my first ba at 34 after I'd finished having kids, I've recently had my second one 12 years later. If I'd been abke to afford it I definitely would have had it done when I was younger.
Implants dont last forever so at some point you'll have to have them done again so you may as well go for it now, enjoy em while you're young and get them redone when you've had your family, they'll prob be due to be done then anyway.
Good luck
dling1- Active BJSF Member
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
I had my first BA when I was 20. My daughter was a baby then, she's now 7 and I had my second BA 2 years ago due to having PIP's first time around. There is no perfect age x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
Theres never a 'perfect age' its just when you want them done. Theres a lot of 'younger' girls (late teens, early 20's) that come through here. I think the hardest thing for mom is that they still kind of see you as their baby at that age, not yet a 'grown up'. But the fact remains that you are an adult and make these decisions for yourself. Im glad shes going to support you either way.
To be honest, I wish I could have had mine done younger, but I just couldn't afford to. The downside is though that the younger you have them done, the more replacements you might need due to natural aging and wear and tear (recommended life is like, 10-15yrs)
To be honest, I wish I could have had mine done younger, but I just couldn't afford to. The downside is though that the younger you have them done, the more replacements you might need due to natural aging and wear and tear (recommended life is like, 10-15yrs)
Charlii- Moderator
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
I honk the best age is when you are old enough to make a lifetime commitment decision. I was too young at 21 I looked like an adult, thought I acted like an adult but at 33 I look back and think aww bless I was very childish. I personally waited. And as for prime I look bether now than when I was 21. I have a tummy now after the kids but I also have the money for nice clothes, make up hair etc and I've look my chubby baby face. So basically don't wrote yourself off at 28, the perfect age does differ nd yes if u decide to become a mum they could well change. But if you timed it for 10 years time you'd be looking to have them replaced anyway
loui1981- BJSF Addict
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I would have had mine done when I was younger but I think I was more likely to want a really large implant back then because at that age for me it was all about looking good for the opposite sex. Now I'm 39 and don't think like that xxx
anneritchley- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Perfect Age? 21?
There's no perfect age and people will be having it done aged 18-65+! For me I waited as i wanted to be certain of my decision and be certain I was doing it for the right reasons. I really agree with loui's reply. And only you can decide based on how you are feeling x
Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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