complete waste of £4700 out of savings

by tinkerbell24 11th March 2014, 3:02 pm

beginning to think that having my boobs done has been the biggest waste of a fair amount of money

I did get £500 back as my surgeon moved and also some help towards travel etc for the reop but to still not have the look that I wanted and to have some complications still I think taht its been a total waste of money

If I could go back id not get it done nope

by Princess_x 11th March 2014, 3:09 pm

Aww Tink :( sorry to hear you feel this way. You're doing amazing, throughout all of this! how are those boobs doing at the moment? xx

by tinkerbell24 11th March 2014, 4:12 pm

still sitting hing and nipples pointing down, they are so much better than they were before and obv im not in pain with the CC but I just want out this compression band and in a blooming bra lol

I need to hold out til April then if no change we are disgussing what will be done in the next reop

sorry for rant but its just the way im feeling right now lol xx

by LuciaH 11th March 2014, 4:32 pm

Oh Hun, I just want to give you a big hug. You really have been through it and you always seem to stay so positive and helpful to everyone. April is not far away at all, and you seem to have the most amazing surgeon that is willing to help you get sorted even if it does mean another re-op.

The band must be driving you crazy, as I know mine is and I have only had it for 4 days. Stay strong and positive and you will come out of this with the boobs you wanted in the first place and you will be so proud of them. Xxx

by kdeee 11th March 2014, 4:52 pm

Big hugs Tink there, there

You are amazingly strong person and I admire your patience and positivity and support you have to offer to us.
We're all here for you and I really hope that this reop will be the last one and you get the boobs that you want xxx

by Bigbusty 11th March 2014, 4:52 pm

Hi Tinkerbell so sorry to hear you're feeling this way, but April's not far off, it's good you have a surgeon who is willing to help you get this sorted, I can only send you hugs and hope you get sorted soon take care E x

by **Charlii** 11th March 2014, 5:30 pm

There are 20days til April. You've come this far - whats another 20? And its not been a complete waste, how many new friends have you made in the process. Focus on the positives for now. I know its seems like omg £5K, I could have spent that on something else...but its just money. You'll get there in the end, you're a strong woman and we all know you can do this.

by tigertonix 11th March 2014, 6:11 pm

tinkerbell24 wrote:beginning to think that having my boobs done has been the biggest waste of a fair amount of money

I did get £500 back as my surgeon moved and also some help towards travel etc for the reop but to still not have the look that I wanted and to have some complications still I think taht its been a total waste of money

If I could go back id not get it done

Aw no, babe :( It wasn't a waste of money at all.. You WILL get the boobs of your dreams, you definitely will. I know it's been more than a long haul for you but good things come to those who wait, Tink! Are you having a reop if they still haven't dropped by April?
I'm so sorry to hear you're down about it all.. You're such a help to all us on here as well! You're a little diamond, Tink xxxxx

by Soosie73 11th March 2014, 7:06 pm

Aww , that's a shame you're feeling down ....hopefully you'll feel better in time xx

by Galeforce1 11th March 2014, 7:11 pm

Oh no hate that you feel so low at the moment but it must be mega frustrating as you just think/hope that it's just getting over the op is the worst bit! You are mega helpful on this forum and try to help everyone out! Hopefully will be all sorted soon hunni! Even though you are scaring me a little venting is the best way to help you through this so keep going :-) xx

by tinkerbell24 11th March 2014, 7:53 pm

Thanks girls I agree I've made some proper life long friends and 100% have a great surgeon

It's just when.ur a mum and own a house that money could have done alot elsewhere

It's going to be may when I actually see the surgeon after my hol. So still seems so far after the original 14 months

The band drives me insane lol xx

by LuciaH 11th March 2014, 7:58 pm

Try to enjoy your holiday Hun and then it won't be long until you get to see your surgeon.

I bet your band does drive you nuts, mine is driving me crazy and it's only 4 days. Xx

by Soosie73 11th March 2014, 8:35 pm

We as women are awfully good at spending money on housey stuff or our family yet we feel so guilty at spending it on our well deserved selves , just don't think of the "what ifs" xx

by tigertonix 11th March 2014, 8:39 pm

This BA was for you, Tink! Sometimes you have to give yourself something or else you'll start to resent all the hard work and effort you put into your family and house etc...

I hate to think how annoying the band is for you :(

Big hugs xxxx

by Kt402 12th March 2014, 7:10 am

Aww tink I am sorry to read you are feeling despondent. It will get better, try not to think of the what ifs, you have a great surgeon who will do all he can to ensure you end Up with the look you want xxxx

by Sahara1981 12th March 2014, 7:16 am

You have been through so much. Your such a strong woman your bound to have a wobble now and then.
You will get the boobs of your dreams xxx

by Boney1992 12th March 2014, 8:14 am

Charlii wrote:There are 20days til April. You've come this far - whats another 20? And its not been a complete waste, how many new friends have you made in the process. Focus on the positives for now. I know its seems like omg £5K, I could have spent that on something else...but its just money. You'll get there in the end, you're a strong woman and we all know you can do this.

Completely agree with Charli, babe. Big cuddles! Xx

by tinkerbell24 12th March 2014, 9:44 am

thanks girls yeah def agree I do need to start spending money on myself lol and it was an xmas present from my husband lol so I need to try and get over taht

I have to admit i just want to have this next reop of tahts whats needed and then try and get these boobs on track to looking like what I imagined them to look like, I know that we never get the look 100% what we wanted but even my husband knows that I dislike them now and sees that im unhapppy, their not awful and when they fluff out and drop i know i will be happy

thanks girls xx

by Gemma134uk 12th March 2014, 10:15 am

sorry to read your feeling like this sending big hugs your way Hug

xx

by Boney1992 12th March 2014, 10:59 am

What will they be doing differently in your re op babe? Xx

by tinkerbell24 12th March 2014, 12:25 pm

changing the placement, as we will prob need to go over but not fully over theres another placement and I can remember the name and also going HP atleast so taht I dont have the "flat" look and possibly pocket revision but that comes with the moving of the implant xx

by Boney1992 12th March 2014, 12:29 pm

Ohhhhh I see!! Will you be having the op in April babe? Xx

by tinkerbell24 12th March 2014, 12:31 pm

no I want to be able to cover up the compression band so will ask for it in the winter lol Nov/Dec time plus this is when peters work is quiet so can have as much time off as needed and as he is self employed and owns his company now can plan his work around my time off

I want to have a date in place etc so taht I know whats happening, but will def wait til the end of the year for the reop xx

by Boney1992 12th March 2014, 12:34 pm

Aww, everything will definitely come together for you, babe. Oh yeah I see, so that's the best time for you to have it done then isn't it, you had your last reop in Nov/Dec didn't you. Will you have to travel to Manchester again? Xx

by tinkerbell24 12th March 2014, 12:39 pm

I had my first BA the 15th Dec reop the 25th Nov

nope i get to have it done up here yay!!! surgeon still does some work in Manchester but he is based in NHS Glasgow Royal infirmary where he does breast and cleft palate reconstruction and works for a few other clinics if he has spare time lol

so it will be up here however if he happens to be in Manchester in Nov/Dec I dont mind travelling as long as the times suits me xx

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