September Buddies

Woooooow its been a busy few weeks but have finally caught up.   I cant believe how many already have boobies... 

sassy - great news that you're so much happier now. 

Teaspoon - I'm so sorry about your friend xx

Great news on everyone else too,.

Girls I need your advice.  So tomorrow my surgery needs to be paid.  I am still waiting for some sort of money back from Harley Street and the credit card company should hopefully advise me if I have a decent claim or not.   What do I do?  Do I borrow the money off my mum not knowing if I am going to get the £3000 back from Harley street or do I just give up? 

Could really do with some advise on what you would do. ! 

I hope you don't mind me asking

xxxx

Hi Bex, hope your feeling ok!! It's such a tough situation!!

If it was me.....
I would have to look at it from the worst case Scenario because that's what I'm like lol (a worrier) ... I would think about what I am going to do if I'm not going to get my money back anytime soon...
Then I would look at my finances and work out if I will be able to pay my mum the money back... Although mums will lend us money, we always want to know for sure we can pay then back!!

If I could then I think I would go ahead and borrow the money if I was 100% sure I would be pay back my mum... I would be hoping and doing everything I can to get my money back but I would most likely go ahead and continue to fight for it back... I would always have worst case scenario in my mind though to prepare myself incase....

That's just me!.. If I could pay my mum back I would feel like I've waited long enough and ill go for it and be happy... Xx

Hi Jennifer, 

Thats what I have been trying to do,  it would take me a while to pay her back but I would be able to do it.   Also I'm hoping if the credit card company tells me I've got a pretty good chance of getting my money back then that's positive too.  They have promised to call me tomorrow by 3:30 I will then call the Chelmsford to either let them know I'm going ahead or if i need to cancel it.   I feel totally unprepared and not in the Mindset either.  All just a nightmarexx

Bex if it will make you more confident, if it will make you happier and if its something you know you want more than anything then borrow the money especially if your mum can manage getting paid back in installment. That's what I would do but you need to do what is right for you hun only you can decide xx

Love your avi by the way bex!
I agree with Hannah, if your mum can manage comfortably and you will able to pay her back, I would go for it xxx

You must be so confused I bet! What ever you decide (if it is to go ahead) focus on you and getting ready for your big day... good luck and let us know what you do! xxxxx

Great new avi sassy x

Loving the avi sassy.... Faboooblous!!!!

 Fanx girls  

Bizzy BOUND was the friggin problem  not long babygirl and it will be YOUR TURN!!!!!!! And if the evil surgeon decides that bounding you up til you can't breathe for a week and it feels like your skin and nipples are persistently on fire beneath the evil strapping, and you want to cry every time you glance at your chest........just remember.......what is beneath the evil.......is fabulous.  Apparently, there is method in their madness. I made it very clear to the nurse today that I believe my surgeon, regardless of his reputation of being a genius, is a friggin sadist. Simples. Still, even in my elation of free boobs, the nightmare of the strapping haunts me. So sorry preBA girls. But you heard it here first, and I don't lie. The strapping ain't fun. Pheow.

Jen honestly, I'm so pleased to be free I just wanna leave them braless but don't dare for more than an hour at a time. And my nipples are mega sensitive too - I thought before that was just the strapping (the strapping got the blame for EVERYTHING!) but they're still sore now.  I've tried putting pads between them and the Macom and they still hurt :-(

Bex, I stick to what I said before. I know your hubby wasn't really comfortable with your mum lending you the money but its not like that was the original plan! The plan just went scwiffy through no fault of your own, all your mum wants to do is help you so you can stick to the plan! Regardless of the outcome she will be repaid, putting myself in your shoes I know I would worry about the way hubby feels about the borrowing BUT at the same time, mums like to do this stuff every now and again and its not like its just an off the cuff gift, its a LOAN. If you feel unprepared, then maybe cancel it - follow it through until you get the refund THEN start again. If you're not ready you're not ready babe. Only you can decide though honey. 

Bizzy LOVE your avi...

Thanks for your advice girls,  is been hard this time round as I have stopped myself getting excited about it was I was distraught the last time it fell through.   I have everything I need in a bag still, so I think that is the only reason I feel unprepared because I haven't let myself have the build up this time.  I'm going to speak to the credit card company again tomorrow regarding the claim back and make a decision then. 

I'll let you know tomorrow if I'm still a September buddy or not.?

Thanks again girls

xxx

Same with the nipples sassy... It's weird because they are a little numb but sore to the touch... Doesn't seem to make sence lol...oh well I'm sure it will be better soon :) and at least the strapping is gone... Glad your feeling good about size... I feel like mine are a bit big because if the side boob but keep reminding myself they won't stay in this unnatural position and they will hopefully get better! Xx

Bex ok let us know, either way we will still follow your journey!! Fingers crossed you make the right choice for you xx

Sassy, I will bare that in mind, the strapping sounds like fun.......I heard it here first........ There is light at the end of the tunnel..... I am so glad that you are finally free of that horrible stuff........ Did you get to keep it? Little momento for you to bring home........ Or was it happily binned, never to be seen again................. It's onwards and upwards for you girl now.... I am so pleased..... The sassy we know and love is back...... With a fantastic avi.....woop woop!!!!!!!!!!

Like Bizzy you will ALWAYS be a September buddy Bex xx

Jen I'm the same - I have side boob, but it WILL go AND my nipples are numb/hyper sensitive. Its bizarre, like they've got ice on them and too hot and cold all at the same time. AND they keep randomly getting erect too!!!! Especially my leftie! Clazabella had the same though so I'm trying not to worry - it did pass for her. And NOW I get what everyone was on about with the madonna cone thing! Mine are like that, and still rock hard. But they're proper physical boobs, so I don't care for now, I just love them and have it in me to be patient with them now they're actually real and not just a strapped up painful figment of my imagination!!! Lol xxx

Bizzy if they'd have given it to me to keep - it woulda got BURNED!!!!!!!!! Hisssssssssssss!!!!!!! xxxx

Phew! :) glad it's normal to have these weird numb/really sensitive nipples lol...
Having my first proper shower this morning!! I'm sure it will be a quick one but I might feel ok once I'm in there :) pinkprincess first top up tomorrow!
Bizzy good luck today!! :)


Hope everyone's feeling ok and our September buddies still to have boobs are excited... Only 12 days left of this month so everyone had under two weeks... Which means bizzy you must have just over two weeks :) will fly by xx

WOW Sassy GREAT avi!!! I'm really lagging behind need to get one up ... right thats my aim for today.

I'm having nipple issue as well, cant stand anything on them they are really sensitive! What was funny was that I told my mum I have sore nipples and she said Hannah don't say nipples its a horrid word I don't like it!! How mad is that another one who hates nipples lol

Haha Hannah!! Pinkprincess would like your mum!! I'm so glad my Macom has nipple room or I don't think I would manage to wear a bra!! Xx

Sassy look at that Avi!!!  They are perfect!  

Bet I hope it's good news today hopefully your still a swmptember girl x

Hi girls, I'm very briefly posting on here as going back to work now......

Hi Jen, yeah 2 weeks, give or take, today went really well. Will post more later. Went so much better than I thought. Really lovely the director of spire...... Bloody nice man and his P.A lovely...............  Restored my faith!!!!!! I felt guilty for a brief milli- secound about the e.mail but was the truth.........
 
 Back later xxxxxx

Ohhhh that all sounds promising :D Ok looking forward to your update xxx

oh u cant do that to us bizzy haha. cant wait to read ur story later xxx have fun at work:) xxx

So I did it girls...... I paid!!!! Xx

Woooohooooo    Yayyyy! Sooo happy for you!!! I think you've done the right thing for you!! 
This time week you will have boobies!!! Xx

Congrats  sweetie on ur purchases xxx this time next week will be ur day woohoo so excited for u xxx

Awww Bex!!!! Whooooopiewhoopwhoop!!!!! Awesomeness xxxx

Bizzy you got me on the edge of my seat....can't wait to hear your update babe xxxx please let us know asap xxx

Sassy I'm hoping bizzy isn't working the 9pm shift, were all waiting to hear lol!! Xx

I still cant quite believe that this time next week or will all be over and I'll have boobies..

so I'm all over the place,  what should I be doing other than moisturising and washing in cidal soap? Going to start arnica on Saturday...

bet bizzy is on the 9pm,.. x