Partners

Good morning ladies :) xx
I have a bit of a worry about how my partner will see me or whether he will become too jealous/possessive after I have my BA, did anyone else have those worries and did your partner change towards in anyway?xxx

Some do, but you can usually judge how they'll be by what their reaction is to you actually getting the BA x

My partner actually gave me the monies for the BA, he knows on an experienced personal level how u feel inside when you're not happy with yourself so I guess I am worried over nothing but one comment he made about people looking and if they gaupe, he won't like it, I replied neither will I! Lol xx

My hubby cant wait for me to be showing them off :0) he did say if we ever divorce he wants them taken out though haha!!

haha dilly, my fiancé would probs say the same lol tho I have no intention of a divorce , we don't get married till aug next year and I am so looking forward to "filling" the top half of my dream dress :) xx

Mine was very wary before he met the surgeon with me, but mostly because of surgery worries than booby worries. He's still a bit hit and miss post op though. Im still not sure if he likes them, or if its still taking him time to adjust, especially as hes not had a proper good grope yet! He doesnt seem to mind outwardly that Ive been wearing slightly lower cut tops, but he's not really one for emotion, so who knows! But I think deep down as long as Im happy, so's he.

Ahh it will be amazing for you getting married after..i tried so many dresses when i got married and couldnt have the plunging neckline i wanted - but that was many moons ago now...i might get my dress out of the loft and re-do some wedding pics now :0))

My boyfriend. Is excited for me to have it done because he knows how much if affects me.... I can't wait to feel much more confident and that will only do good things for our relationship lol xx

Jealousy after a BA is something many women have to deal with hun. If you're man is jealous now, then I'd prepare yourself for it to possibly get worse after surgery hun.

My husband has had pangs of jealousy through our marriage, but nothing that caused any problems between us pre-BA. After surgery it did get bad. Not toward me, but toward men who might look at me. He'd be steaming and sometimes give them a right good telling which was embarrassing. It took me some time to reassure my husband that men might look but what he needed to keep in mind was that I'm with HIM! It doesn't matter about anybody else as long as we had each other and instead of getting angry to look at these idiots who did the double takes, or who near broke their neck staring and that's exactly what we do now... We laugh at them! We have a good giggle 'together' now if we do catch men staring.

It may take a lot of ego stroking and reassurance for some men to help them deal with a woman's new body and they may feel threatened for a while, but if your relationship is strong.... They get over it and your relationship will be better than ever. I know mine is! Xx

my hubby didnt change at all.obviously he sees other people looking but he just ignores it.at the end of the day hes the one that gets to play wiv them wen were alone ^^ haha.and theres a lot of trust between my hubby and i xxx

My hubby has been my rock through all this, so supportive. Like Charliis he was a bit wary over the surgery, he hates operations, hospitals etc........ That's why he has been with me to each of my consultations as there was things he wanted to ask the surgeon too. He knows I've done my research and he knows I have a great surgeon so he's been really good about it all. We have a great relationship and if there are any lookers, he may get a pang of jealousy but I think he will just laugh it off......
It must be hard for them if guys are looking at your chest. After all us girls don't like girls staring at our partners...... Not really.....  So it's understandable.....

My boyfriend is worried about me also bless him which makes me feel bad lol but like all of you I've done my research so I feel confidence and it shows because I feel like I'm reassuring my family lol xx

Gosh I hadn't thought about it - my husband isn't the jealous type anyway, so I am extremely lucky!

He's been telling me to have them done for years - in a good way! - it just took me a while to justify the expense!

My boyfriend hated the idea of my BA. He says he doesnt like boob jobs at all. He still doesn't like it now but the way he is with me hasn't changed. He has his opinion on what iv done but it hasn't changed the way he feels about me. I'm fairly convinced however that when everything settles and gets more squishy he will enjoy them better than the nipples I had before.

It was my Hubby that suggested the idea to me originally. I'd not really seriously considered it, thinking that he'd think I was being daft or vain. He's been so supportive all the way though I couldn't fault him. Although I think he got a bit bored of it all at the research stage! He does tend to roll his eyes too at the amount of time I spend on this forum!! 

I'm sure he'll be mega happy with the end results though. Lol!!x

My ex was all for the idea of me getting them last time i had booked it (before i had to cancel) don't think he was too kean on the deflated water balloons I had after breast feeding our 2 babies lol Think he would have been ok with the attention but who knows coz we have since broke up now n guys can be so weird espec when it comes to guys looking at us xx

my husband knew for years I had been down about my body and that I wanted a BA and knew what surgeon I wanted as I had mentioned him and researched him loads, so he booked me and appointment with him and a few other clinics and then booked me in for my xmas

If anything my husband is raging he cant see them more often as Im hating them at the moment waiting for this reop as I feel they look way to fake, but thats the look my husband loves lol

but he will be happy when im happy xx

In the same tink, I've always tried to make the best if these 'boobs' it you can call them that haha but I've never felt confident about them and preferred to keep them covered!! Since my Ba is getting closer I feel even worse about them and just can't wait to get some confidence back around my boyfriend xx

I had nothing there at all and I never felt feminine at all now I have shape to my tops and dresses and when I take my bra off my boobs are still there and ever better im getting new ones again soon lol xx