Your partners and your new assets?
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Your partners and your new assets?
More questions whirling through my head, sorry guys, I am so excited :)
Just wondered how your bfs/partners coped with your boobs, my bf, to the surprise of my friends didn't seem fussed. I spoke to him and he doesn't dare be seen to be excited cause he doesn't want me to think he isn't happy with me now.
I'm worried he will see my rock hard, bruised boobies and be horrified? I've shown him stages of recovery online so am hoping he isn't alarmed.
Just wondered how your fellas reacted?
Just wondered how your bfs/partners coped with your boobs, my bf, to the surprise of my friends didn't seem fussed. I spoke to him and he doesn't dare be seen to be excited cause he doesn't want me to think he isn't happy with me now.
I'm worried he will see my rock hard, bruised boobies and be horrified? I've shown him stages of recovery online so am hoping he isn't alarmed.
Just wondered how your fellas reacted?
kezjb- BJSF Addict
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Pre op, he was terrified because 'I love you as you are'. Which was a flat out lie, it was more the fact I was putting myself through surgery voluntarily. Post op healing, it wasn't about seeing them as a sexual thing, it was just about making sure I was ok, had everything needed, and could rest and heal and get my strength back up. He saw me at my worst (I couldn't even pull my undies up!), so the rock hard Franken boobs were so not a primary problem! And its not like he wasn't seeing them, he was helping me change, taking pics and changing my dressings.
I think what I trying to say is he'll be far more worried about you and your recovery to worry about how your boobs look while they're healing. Or at least he should! And by the time you're allowed jiggery pokery sans bra, they're going to look much more boob like. Please don't worry about the aesthetics post op, or what anyone else thinks. It's just about healing.
I think what I trying to say is he'll be far more worried about you and your recovery to worry about how your boobs look while they're healing. Or at least he should! And by the time you're allowed jiggery pokery sans bra, they're going to look much more boob like. Please don't worry about the aesthetics post op, or what anyone else thinks. It's just about healing.
Charlii- Moderator
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I have a different perspective. One of do you don't you tell prospective partners about it and the anxiety over how they will react. So far it's been curious I've never seen or felt fake breasts before but they look fantastic and my new boyfriend loves them. He is actually quite happy that they will continue to look good as I age. I haven't had any negative reaction yet
loui1981- BJSF Addict
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my hubby touched mine last nite and said rnt they hard lol.i said once my muscle has relaxed and stretched they will soften it all takes time.he said he loved them before and loves them now.like charlii said he was far more concerned about my health as he saw me struggle to sit stand lyedown helped me to toilet showered me :Ok:xx
WOOWOO55- BJSF Addict
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Good to hear thanks girls, am sure I giving him too little credit and he will be great :) he's been so supportive!
kezjb- BJSF Addict
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If he truly loves you, it won't matter. And it'll be worth the wait!
Charlii- Moderator
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I agree with what has already been said. My hubby was more concerned about me puttin myself through surgery voluntarily. He loves my new boobs as much as me, he also says he loves the way they make me behave - way more confident than before!!! B x
B'sboobs- BJSF Addict
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Thanks all :)
kezjb- BJSF Addict
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