Bedroom activity!!!
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Bedroom activity!!!
Hi Ladies, I know this might seem like a daft question, and a bit embarrassing, but, I'm dreading any .......bedroom activity, as I'm worried about my hubby touching my new boobies as they're still very tender (2 weeks post op) and also not sure whether I should be partaking in that sort of physical activity yet ;-) Lol xx
Any advice??
Any advice??
jsweetie- Newbie BJSF Member
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I was erm partaking in bedroom activity around day 4! I just couldn't wait lol x there's no reason why you shouldn't as long as your careful, you keep your sports bra on and you feel up to it hun x I found it best if I "drove" lol, so he didn't squash my boobies xx
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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I think you know when your ready to participate in bedroom activity, like Lisa said, take the driving seat and that way your in control. Good luck trying to make a sports bra sexy, definitely keep it on though as it supports your new additions and makes you free more secure until they have healed :0)
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Little jen- BJSF Addict
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Good luck in your bedroom activity!! I wonder about this too and by boyf already asks how long we have to wait but like the girls have said if you feel up to it then asking as your comfortable go for it!! Dreaded sports bra though lol, find your sexiest one haha ;) xx
jenniferrf1- BJSF Elite Member
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Jen trust me the sports bras are so unflattering, I tried to wear a sexy bed shirt and knickers to hide my massive bolder holder lol.
I think most blokes are just happy to get some attention post op lol.
I have been told no gym for 6 weeks so wouldn't go to mad lol
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I think most blokes are just happy to get some attention post op lol.
I have been told no gym for 6 weeks so wouldn't go to mad lol
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Little jen- BJSF Addict
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If YOU don't feel ready yet hun then please don't put pressure on yourself
You're fine to have sex whenever you feel comfortable. Its not really advisable to take off the sports bra and trust me, you'll feel far more comfortable with it on. You don't have to wear a sports bra for always, just through your healing.
Take your time babe and if you're worried about hubby touching them maybe do what I did... I held my hands over my husbands whilst he cupped my boobs and I showed him how much pressure was OK with me.
If you don't feel ready to have any pressure at all applied then talk to your husband about this. Sex can still be enjoyable for you both as long as he knows the boundaries. Xx
You're fine to have sex whenever you feel comfortable. Its not really advisable to take off the sports bra and trust me, you'll feel far more comfortable with it on. You don't have to wear a sports bra for always, just through your healing.
Take your time babe and if you're worried about hubby touching them maybe do what I did... I held my hands over my husbands whilst he cupped my boobs and I showed him how much pressure was OK with me.
If you don't feel ready to have any pressure at all applied then talk to your husband about this. Sex can still be enjoyable for you both as long as he knows the boundaries. Xx
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Ha this is definitely not a daft question. One I have thought of myself. It's good to hear your experiences of this as I was worried. But I guess like you say see how you feel as long as the goods are strapped up well :) haha xx
louann17- Active BJSF Member
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Certainly a question i was wondering about a lot so i'm pleased somone has asked it haha! Whenever you feel ready sounds like the best advice to me!! xx
emilysarahdodds- BJSF Addict
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*giggles* not a silly question at all :)
Im 6 days post op and we did it first time today! Was nothing to adventurous though... I am to sore!! I think just when your ready and no he was not allowed to play with the puppies yet!! I don't think he will be for some time yet hahaha!
Just talk to your hubby about your concerns :)
Im 6 days post op and we did it first time today! Was nothing to adventurous though... I am to sore!! I think just when your ready and no he was not allowed to play with the puppies yet!! I don't think he will be for some time yet hahaha!
Just talk to your hubby about your concerns :)
Aussiechicc- Newbie BJSF Member
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You can do it when you're ready as long as you keep your sports bra on x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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I was actually going to post a question like this today as my OH is feeling deprived right now! Lol! I told him he would have to wait until my six week check-up, haha, he looks mortified! But it's good to know that I don't have to worry about this really being a week post op, as long as I keep my bra on! xx
Selena8683- BJSF Addict
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Oh my hubby will be pleased! I also told him nothing for 6 weeks hahaha!! Nice to see that some ladies feel upto it after a few days though!
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pr1ncessmummy- BJSF Addict
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Haha the 6 week check!!! Can imagine what all our OHs think!!! Good luck to all ladies participating in bedroom activities lol xx
jenniferrf1- BJSF Elite Member
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Thanks everyone for your replies xx I don't feel as silly now x Keeping my 'sexy' macom bra on seems like a very good idea, and I'm sure my hubby will be happy for me to take control ha ha!! Might wait till the weekend so I can have a glass of wine to help me relax a bit ;-) xx
jsweetie- Newbie BJSF Member
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Oh god! I've had the sexy Macom on for the past week! Victoria's Secret has got nothing on the sexual power of the Macom!!!!
Selena8683- BJSF Addict
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Love this post!! I might tell my hubby 6 weeks just to be wicked!! haha!! He is just as excited as me about the new arrivals!! hehe xxx
Midgiebites- BJSF Addict
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I think I was active around day 6-7 (cant remember ha) but was fine as long as he didn't squeeze them, am now fine and have been for a week or so to um.... resume normal activities!!
:coffeescr:Little jen - boulder holder lmao brilliant!!
:coffeescr:Little jen - boulder holder lmao brilliant!!
alipops66- BJSF Addict
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Haha well I see a gap in the market..... I need to make sexy sports bras....!
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Little jen- BJSF Addict
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Haha Jen great idea... we need sexy bolder holders :D xx
jenniferrf1- BJSF Elite Member
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Then that is the way forward :0) I would love to have my own underwear range especially for ladies with extra stuffing, regular bras never sit right.
If I ever become rich then lacy racy support bras will be my range lol.
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If I ever become rich then lacy racy support bras will be my range lol.
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Little jen- BJSF Addict
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I think I might customize my Macom, maybe sew on a few sequens, what do think ladies? Ha ha xx
jsweetie- Newbie BJSF Member
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Haha!!! That would be great lol!.... Making the best of things haha xx
jenniferrf1- BJSF Elite Member
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Lol! Customised Macoms are definitely the future! xxx
Selena8683- BJSF Addict
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Any distraction from the support bra is a bonus lol
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