The bedroom

Hi girls not long now for me only about 5 days I can't wait for big boobs! I'm so excited!!!!!!!!! Just a question how long would it be until you can start your boobs touches and squeezed I was thinking about 6 months but I'm no to sure. What do your bfs and husbands think about your boobs when you unleash them? Oh I can't wait I'm so excited I can't say how excited I am
Jess xx

When boobs are new they can look a little odd at first. Not all.... But most do. They don't look natural at all. Just thought I should warn you about that because guys can very often be quite scared of how they look at first and don't realise the changes that will occur over the coming year. 

The skin is tight, they feel hard and there's no movement to them and for the first few weeks and they can be quite sore due to being so engorged so you really won't want your boyfriend/hubby touching them right away. 

Sex is fine whenever 'you' feel up to it but you'll find you'll want and need to keep your sportsbra on during sex. 

Sportsbras aren't the sexiest of contraptions either but M&S do cute zip front sportsbras that can look really cute if you match them with some knickers.

Touching is also men get very afraid of so when you feel ready it may be up to you to guide your man and show him just what you're comfortable with. 

My husband was terrified of mine and no matter how many times I said it was OK and I wasn't OK until getting the all clear, he just couldn't bring himself to touch, so I started slowly with us laying on the sofa and I'd guide his hands to cup my boobs with my hands over his and squeezed over his to show him it was OK. Once he felt confident I was OK there was no stopping him then and I've been fighting him off ever since lol.

There really are no stern guidelines when it comes to things like this and it really is up to how you feel as well of course as how you other half feels too.

You'll know yourself when the time is right for 'you' xx

my husband literally could not wait to get his hands on them and we had us time day 2 and 4 after the first BA and then reop but bra stayed on the first time and after reop I was braless but had the lovely compression band which I had on for blooming months

Im still seeing changing, that I never thought I would after 6 months after the reop so it can take timw xx

One surgeon told me don't let your hubby play with them for 8 weeks! Let them sit and settle!! I guess each surgeon is different though. My op is wednesday so I'll have to ask the surgeon I'm going ahead with his advice!

My surgeon told me no sex until ten days post op as I had to keep my heart rate down! ha-ha! And after that I could carry on so long as were gentle. Hubby saw them this weekend for the first time (he works away) and he was scared about hurting me at first, but I think these men were so used to little boobs the revert back to being teenagers again and have to learn it all over. I gave him guidance and he was fine. After that he loved them.  Up until mid week this week they were still really hard and my nipples were really sore and then I woke up and they were squishier and the pain had gone. I was a bit scared to touch them myself as they were like rocks, so I'm glad he wasn't home any sooner.
xx