How long until you went out for a drink?

by RayRayT 4th June 2013, 7:53 pm

Hey ladies,

I've been avoiding going anywhere for the last few weeks and a friend has invited me out who I have had to make excuses to loads recently, I'm worried she is going to be thinking the worst of me! How long did you want before going for a night out? She has suggested this Saturday going for cocktails at hers and the out to a bar that has music which can get busy but its not like young people busy if you get me, lol?! I could do with a giggle but do you think this is a good or bad idea? shrug

by **COOKIE** 4th June 2013, 7:56 pm

If you feel up to it you'll be fine Ray. I'd just be very careful that you don't get a knock in the boobs though if it does get busy because trust me babe, it HURTS!

You maybe would be better seated too and be prepared for an early night, you'll be surprised how tired you get!

Have fun babe. Xx

by jenniferrf1 4th June 2013, 7:58 pm

Aww I imagine it must be difficult ray to make excuses!! My bday will be two weeks after my BA so I'm going to be in a similar situation lol... If you do go out look after your new baby's hehe... Like cookie said I can imagine a prod in the new boobs could hurt!! Good luck :) xx

by Lisa34 4th June 2013, 8:05 pm

Just be carefull not to get a knock x it took me weeks to pluck up the courage to have a drink lol, and then it went straight to my head. If you feel up to it then why not! Just mind them boobies xx

by RayRayT 4th June 2013, 8:18 pm

Thanks Ladies. She is one of my friends that I haven't told which makes it difficult :( Bless her every time she has invited me out for coffee or drinks i not been able to go due to consultations etc. I'm nervous about being knocked, I don't like drunk strangers at the best of times, lol. I've suggested going for dinner, just waiting to here what she says!

by Lisa34 4th June 2013, 8:23 pm

That will be a better idea, less chance of being knocked when your sat at a table xx

by **COOKIE** 4th June 2013, 8:24 pm

Ooooo definitely don't go to a bar if she doesn't know hun! You'll only want to go with friends who would help protect you through a busy bar. It could prove rather awkward if you did get a knock and if you're not wanting her to know you could be backed into a corner to explain.

If she's invited you for coffee maybe take her up on that, or a shopping trip with lunch maybe? Xx

by Daisydee 4th June 2013, 8:34 pm

I went out a week after my BA, but I went with a friend who knew about my BA so she looked out for me and kept me away from any stray elbows and helped me through busy crowds!!
You will be fine to go out but it depends how busy it gets and how comfortable you feel. Dinner is probably a good idea, enjoy!
xx

by RayRayT 4th June 2013, 9:45 pm

she is happy to go for dinner, I may just tell her though as I think she may be thinking dinner then drinks at a bar :( I don't like being untruthful to friends. x

by Princess_x 4th June 2013, 10:03 pm

Too early for going out to busy bars, especially with friends who don't know about your BA. x

by RayRayT 4th June 2013, 10:15 pm

All sorted now, we are going for dinner with drinks and then prob back to hers for cocktails or are local pub. I'm planning on eeeaking out dinner with several courses so will be sooo stuffed hopefully then avoid the temptation of a busy bar. x

by alipops66 4th June 2013, 11:04 pm

I am going out next weekend Il be 2 days off 4 weeks PO...tho fashion wise i wanted to wait 6 weeks so i didn't have to wear my frumpy sports bra but am going away withhubby so will make the most of bring child free :-) if u feel ready go for it - if u stick to ur local then i inaginevu won't get bunped xxx

by friedeggs 5th June 2013, 8:10 am

Great post ray so how long after ur BA do u suggest then ? 2-3 weeks is it??! I'm freakin out as hav so many things on in June like friends birthdays am gonna continually have to keep making excuses :-( xx

by RayRayT 5th June 2013, 11:32 am

I guess until you have had the all clear you need to be careful. Ie no dancing on tables, lol. Just see how you feel and play it by there, maybe select to go to places where you have less chance of being bumped? I've had to do loads of excuses and I think I'm run out now! xx

Enjoy your child free night Alipops :) xx

by Princess_x 5th June 2013, 11:37 am

2-3 weeks for quiet sit down pubs. It'll be months before you can go to a busy club and go wild dancing etc x

by RayRayT 5th June 2013, 11:39 am

I think my busy club and wild dancing days are done, lol. I much prefer a quite bar these days, haha miserable old cow already ;) x

by Princess_x 5th June 2013, 7:07 pm

I'm still at the wild dancing all night at a club stage haha! so to have to wait for 3/4 months after my BA was a longggg wait! Quiet pubs and sit down drinks are fine quite early on :) x

by friedeggs 5th June 2013, 8:35 pm

Oh no this is very depressing news I've my gen party two months after my BA ill b goin crazy on that ? Oh god I'm such a crazy girl out every weekend goin and I dunno how ill come up wit excuses to da girls shrug

xx

by friedeggs 5th June 2013, 8:36 pm

Hen party I meant

by RayRayT 5th June 2013, 9:48 pm

You'll think of something lovely, its rubbish and you feel terrible for it but its so important you heal well, you would never forgive yourself if something bad happened. xx

by Daisydee 5th June 2013, 9:59 pm

I think it all depends how carefull you are, I pretty much went out every weekend after my op bar the first couple (just took it easy in pubs). Yes i probably shouldn't have and yes I got tired but as long as u listen to your body and your carefull I don't think there is any need to wait MONTHS after your op... I wouldn't have survived! My birthday was one month PO and I went out clubbing and I was fine, I did have friends with me that knew about my BA so could keep an eye on me too which helped. Xx

by RayRayT 5th June 2013, 10:18 pm

Suppose you just need to be sensible to begin with and listen to your body, everyone heals at different rates too. I've been lucky so far and had minimal pain and swelling so I've found it difficult knowing what my limits are. Tiredness is my biggest thing at the moment, that reminds me I'm still not quite there yet! xx

by friedeggs 6th June 2013, 7:21 am

Thanks ray I can change my hen until October and my BA next week sibh shud b ok by then! It's just coming up eith excuses to the girls about why all of a sudden miss party animal is sitting in will b tuff! Inknowbo can say I'm saving for my wedding but they'll say " just come out and don't drink then" and all of the girls birthdays are coming up this summer so it'll b hard but ill just hav to do this cos I no ill b happy I did xx

by friedeggs 6th June 2013, 7:23 am

I really need to start reading over my posts before I send them how many mistakes have I in there Hysterical

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