Picture trail etiquette - Please read!

understandable but if you did have a problem with me you could have just pm me and told me how you felt so like i said if it was me i do apologise and yeah maybe being side tracked isnt an excuse but at work my wee customers come first xx

This thread isnt aimed at anybody in particular. Its a friendly reminder as its happened to me and others too many times.

tinkerbell24 wrote:understandable but if you did have a problem with me you could have just pm me and told me how you felt so like i said if it was me i do apologise and yeah maybe being side tracked isnt an excuse but at work my wee customers come first xx

Obviously as Cazzy said sweetness this thread is not specifically aimed at any one person in particular.

If you feel you know you may have missed a response to someone sending you their pictures, then maybe you could go through your inbox babe and check who you may not have responded to and maybe give them a little feedback or a thanks. :flowers:

To help those better understand what it feels like to not get a reply, it makes you feel like your boobs look like crap and the person is too nice to say that, or they looked and saw something and were to frightened to say because they didnt want to upset you.

It ruins your whole day! And that's no joke girls, the paranoia you may have started out with, gets so much worse when you don't get back a response.

We ALL who have new boobs are paranoid about how they look, even those that may come across as confident will still have insecurities post-op, its not just nice to get a response, but its important to the person offering pictures to get that little feedback even if it helps them to confirm there may be a problem or to help their confidence when they get good feedback.

Its IMPORTANT for those offering to know. Sharing pictures isn't all about helping someone by showing them their boobs, its about the person giving also. A mutual exchange that benefits BOTH.

This is to all - If you KNOW you don't have time to respond, then don't ask. If you forget to respond right away, respond as soon as you can.... Its as simple as that. There's no excuse for not responding. We all have problems, we all have issues and we all expect the same respect you would expect for yourself. Try saying that last sentence when youre p*ssed Xx

I couldn't agree more with Cookie's post xx

This thread should not be taken as a personal dig at anyone xx IT ISN'T xx

As Cazzy has reiterated it is a friendly reminder to people and should be seen as such xx

The person that never thanked me will know who they are as we were in quite deep dialogue regarding complications and a specific surgeon who bodged my boobs on two separate occasions x it took a lot for me to share and I was utterly devastated and really hurt when I heard nothing back from that person x

There is no acceptable reason for not thanking someone for sharing what are probably THEIR most intimate photographs ever xx

After all manners cost nothing xx

When I looked at FAQ to try & find out what a picture trail was, there was nothing there.

Newbies would benefit from a brief description & I think that some ground rules listed would help. One of them being something along the lines of the etiquette/ respect expected & anyone reported runs the risk of loosing site privileges.

Obviously nobody on this thread is the target perpetrator(s)- the irony is that those who didn't take the time likely won't be reading or responding here.

I couldnt agree more... very annoying!
At least some ppl do respond. I always try and make sure i thank ppl because they are personalpics.

this is slightly off topic but kenzie i just noticed your new avi - WOWzers you must be really pleased, you look so fab!! x

and on topic, i completely agree, manners cost nothing x