I don't want to tell people!

The only people that know I am getting my boobs done is my parents, boyfriend and best friend (and all the lovely people on here obviously) and I want to try and keep it that way for various reasons. I have opted for 325cc which my surgeon says will look natural so hoping that people will not notice. Was this the case for anyone else? xxx

The only people that I have told are the same as you: parents, hubby,sister and best friend. As I only had small implants no body noticed. Just had them replaced and again not told anyone. Was hoping to go a cup size bigger but they look the same as before so again no one will know what I've had done.

I think as long as there isn't a massive difference people aren't going to notice.

Same! Other than close fam I've only told 4 friends I'm hoping nobody else will notice as I used to wear 2 extra padded bras so hopefully in clothes won't look too different!

As long as you don't obviously flaunt them in a big way then no one will notice. I had 315 for my 1st BA but I'm tiny and they were very round, and I flaunted them in bikini's and low-cut tops etc. So a lot of people noticed x

You don't have to tell anyone, and chances are nobody will notice, especially if youve had kids or your weight has fluctuated in recent years. x

You'll be fine to keep your surgery to yourself babe. Its no-ones business but your own and you neither owe it to anyone to tell them nor should you feel guilty about not revealing you've had surgery.

Many women feel that 'being honest' telling all is the best way to go.

My take on that as a women who has chosen NOT to discuss my BA with those other than my immediate family and best friend is that in not revealing my BA it doesn't mean I'm being dishonest, if I tell a little white lie to detract someone from asking questions, it doesn't mean I'm deceiving them, if someone makes a comment hinting at my boobs being augmented and I ignore the comment and change the subject, doesn't mean I'm being fallacious...

It simply means I don't wish to discuss my boobs other than with those I have chosen to. I didnt sit having discussions about my boobs pre-op and my new boobs haven't changed me as a person so I'm certainly not going to sit and discuss my boobs post-op!

You make your own choices babe and never feel guilty for that choice lovely. They're YOUR boobs. Yes, you may have bought them, but that doesn't make them any the less YOURS! x

Agree with what cookie says, you'll be fine and no one will notice if you dont want them to.

I haven't told anyone either, my husband knows and thats all. I will tell my mum, sister and close friends once they are done but right now i just feel that everyone would bombard me with the negative side of what can happen. I'am well aware of the risks, I just dont want to listen to everyone going on about it before hand. xx

Im the complete opposite, ive told lots of people at work because of the uniform is tight and they wont give that long a time off without a reason so thought it be best to be honest. Until I have everything booked I am postponing telling my parents as i want them to know all the same facts as I do about it. My bf and sister are the only other people that know.

Only my husband knows and thats the way I hope it to stay. Im having teardrop implants so hopefully they look natural. I think its a private decision and very personal so hopefully if anyone notices they keep their opinions to themselves, I admire those of you who have the courage to be so honest x

Everyone is different and I think because of my excitment I havnt been able to shut up about it to the girls at work. I give them daily updates of what clinics ive seen/surgeons and whats been said. Who im going with and all the ins and outs of it all.
People are fickle and the last thing i wanted was for someone to find out from somewhere and there be an issue with why i have decided to keep it a 'secret' from everyone, like im ashamed of it or something. I think that honesty is the best policy in my case.
That and im just so damn excited about it, even if i did want to keep it personal, id only crack at some point anyway and discuss it with someone. x

I despair of this 'honesty is the best policy' where Our surgery is concerned (im not targetting you personally Yolanda hun )

I'm not in the least bit 'ashamed' of my BA. In not telling people its because I choose not too. I'm not lying and I don't have an issue, I simply don't feel its anyone else's business.

Just wanted to say that 'cos I don't want anyone choosing not to disclose their surgery to have any feelings of being untruthful in any way at all.

You choose whether or not you wish to tell people. That is all about choice, 'truth' doesn't come into it. X

Honey, I was a b cup and now a d and no one has noticed! even the people I did tell said it wasn't very noticable... i guess cause you wear a sport bra for a few weeks so they aren't prominent! I would say! if your worried maybe wear a drapey top or cardi for a little while after the additions? or just say something about having being fitted for a good bra and thats why they look more ample! or get a new hair cut or colour to take the focus off it! but seriously my boobs were like 2 completely different sizes and went from an a/b cup to a d and nobody ever noticed they were lopsided or that i had gone up a few cupsizes!

I havent told anyone about my BA. But i didnt buy these beautiful boobies to hide them away. Close friends and not some close friends have asked if iv had them done or commented on how big they look. Thats without having them on show too. I just laugh it off. Its nobodys business but mine. & i wont be the subject of idle gossip. My work life is completely separate to home and social life and their paths don't cross & a few people at work know which I'm fine about. I told one person then it spreads and everyone's asking "how's the twins" "how was your Xmas presents to yourself " etc. Bit annoying but just went with it. I'm not ashamed. Just don't feel the need to disclose.