boobs and naughty times?
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Princess_x
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boobs and naughty times?
Good Morning ladies. I was just wondering when your partner can start to treat your boobs as 'normal' boobs during times of passion. I thought about this after the discussions of not massaging textured implants. I'm def not ready for them to be played with at the moment but would like to know when they will start to feel like part of me and therefore be able to be part of our naughty times?
lil-happy-jo- BJSF Addict
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Now I know every surgeon will give different advice and every lady heals differently, but mine told me that I would have to wait until I was around the 3 month post op mark, he said this is because I have had anatomical implants and he likes to give them a little longer to adhere to the pockets! Im fully expecting to wake in the night and find my OH stroking them lol x he's a boobie man!! Oh where in herts are you from Huni?? I'm in a little town called Tring!
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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Hi Lisa I did ask my surgeon and he said "depends on the person, you will know when they feel ready"??
Im originally from Luton so not far from you, think i told you about the first time i took my little boy to your local museum and he was a bit traumatised!
Im in letchworth now, snoooooze.
Im originally from Luton so not far from you, think i told you about the first time i took my little boy to your local museum and he was a bit traumatised!
Im in letchworth now, snoooooze.
lil-happy-jo- BJSF Addict
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Oh yes I remember lol x such a bad memory. I took my 2 yr old for the first time a few weeks ago, bless him i think he thought they were alive!! Is your OH getting impatient?
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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To be honest I think he is still scared of them! I'm planning on bra shopping today as Ive been given the all clear to wear them for a few hours each day, these sports bra's are a passion killer.
He's away in New York until Sunday and he's only back for 1 night before flying to South Africa for a new job.
He's away in New York until Sunday and he's only back for 1 night before flying to South Africa for a new job.
lil-happy-jo- BJSF Addict
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Bra shopping.... Now that sounds like a good way to spend the day! No these sports bras arnt very attractive at all... I'm hoping my new babies will be free for the summer. Wow now that's commuting lol, is he away alot? X
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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Yeah we're always moving around, lived in amsterdam, antwerp, hong kong etc. Im going to stay here until the sale of the house in luton has gone through and until he is certain about the job. Hoping to travel over during easter holidays to look at schools etc.
lil-happy-jo- BJSF Addict
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Depends what you mean by "be part of". I've had implants for nearly 5 years and no one is allowed to be rough with them in any way
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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I am 6 months po and I must admit I dont like my fella being too rough and I cant bear it if he puts too much weight on me!
5stonedown- BJSF Elite Member
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After my BA, 3 months post-op and I was ready, willing and very able for a good squidge!
After my uplift, it was much longer, probably 7 months if my memory serves me right. I was fine after about 5 months with normal pressure for sex, but no rough play until around the 7 month mark.
Your surgeon is right though - you'll know when you're ready.
Just as our surgeries are individual to each of us, so are our recoveries and our bodies will heal in their own good time and let us know when we're ready and what kind of pressure we're OK with. Xx
After my uplift, it was much longer, probably 7 months if my memory serves me right. I was fine after about 5 months with normal pressure for sex, but no rough play until around the 7 month mark.
Your surgeon is right though - you'll know when you're ready.
Just as our surgeries are individual to each of us, so are our recoveries and our bodies will heal in their own good time and let us know when we're ready and what kind of pressure we're OK with. Xx
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Interesting that uplift takes longer.. as I did wonder. My dog just jumped on my right boob and it's killing me now! Am hoping he didn't do any serious damage ;)
Thing is I'm not in a relationship and do have a couple of dates lined up so once I get to that stage (if I get to that stage) it will be odd having to tell them to "go easy on the boobs". I guess I can cross that bridge when I get to it.
7 months seems like a long time... xxx
Thing is I'm not in a relationship and do have a couple of dates lined up so once I get to that stage (if I get to that stage) it will be odd having to tell them to "go easy on the boobs". I guess I can cross that bridge when I get to it.
7 months seems like a long time... xxx
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Why will it be odd to tell them to go easy?xx
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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Because I may not want to tell them right away about my surgery! I guess it depends on the situation and the person .. We shall see! X
rubylily- Active BJSF Member
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Rubylily, I'm sure if I was in that situation I would tell after a wine or two. haha im just to chatty x
lil-happy-jo- BJSF Addict
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Yeah I guess I will see when I'm in the situation! X
rubylily- Active BJSF Member
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That was one of the first questions my partner asked about!! Typical! It wasnt whether I'd have problems breast feeding or whether they have any health complications in the future, it was how long after the op can i touch your boobies!
Men!
Best of luck :D
Men!
Best of luck :D
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