Re: Regrets. How many of you regret your op?

by Gem76 13th February 2013, 7:30 pm

Oh dear, I would be feeling sorry for myself too. Try not to be too harsh on your husband - even tho you probably want to punch him lol. If you need him there then you need him there and thats it, at least now you know next time you book he can organise the time off work and that you will be more relaxed and feel safe with him there with you. What was it that got you so upset, the anaestetic? The operation itself? x

by nikkinoo 13th February 2013, 7:39 pm

I was raped when I was 15. At the time I was at a friends party. It was the first time I had a drink. I was in and out of conciousness. When I had pethadine when I was in labour with my son, it had a similar effect. It felt just like that night. in and out of it.

I find it really had to let go and trust people. I have had lots of councilling ect and had no idea until today how the idea of going under would affect me. I had the other obvious concerns like not waking up but knew they wer irrational. I know I need my husband at these times and should have pushed him harder for it. xx

by Raceytracey 13th February 2013, 7:46 pm

Best thing I have ever done Hun had them done 7 years ago from a B cup to DD and recently just had my 2nd op I am now a G cup and I'm totally in love with them they make you feel so confident an look great so you go for it an enjoy lol!!!

by Princess_x 13th February 2013, 8:43 pm

No regrets, I love my boobs :) do not miss the days of wearing HUGE gel bra's and being too ashamed to take my top off.. finding it hard work choosing what to wear as certain things made me look even more flat chested etc!!! Obviously there's the future re-ops/complications side but I'll think about that if and when x

by katielou2111 13th February 2013, 9:24 pm

Ohr hunni just wasnt your time yet, it will come i have real control issues i think its from loosing my mum young and since then ive always been in control coz i wasnt with my mum dying.So i can totally understand the control thing it was something that worried me for days months before.Even on the day but one thing i new was i seen plenty of poorly people go under GA and they come out a healthier from their op.Take you husbands ask for some calming medication and i think u will be ok next time xx

by nikkinoo 13th February 2013, 9:30 pm

Sorry to hear about your mum Katie. Thanks, hopefully. Calming meds and my husband and I will be just fine. I hope I dont have to wait to long. Feeling real down tonight. hope your healing well still! xx

by katielou2111 13th February 2013, 9:55 pm

Yep your guna be fine next time hunni, i did panick in theatre but when i voiced how i feel they never listened just went come on give me your hand it was like they wasnt going to let me have time to panick. Im doing great hun recovery wise.All is how it should be and my surgeon is very impressed well i am to be honest ive had my ups and downs but there great at min.I actually forget there done some times they feel like they have been there ages now. Well hope you get a new date soon hun xxx

by nikkinoo 14th February 2013, 12:15 pm

Wish they had done that to me! Sounds like your doing really well. xx

by Kurukullachis 14th February 2013, 12:25 pm

I regret my first operation. I looked into everything researched for years and still ended up with a bodge job. I was never happy from the moment I woke up and went through a stage of wishing I'd never had it done and just dealt with my horrible empty skin. In some respects I feel lucky I fought for a reop as I am a lot happier now than I was with my boobs. I wish I'd had more patience and didn't let desperation get the better of me, it would of saved a lot of stress... I'm not one for flaunting them at all. I never wish I was bigger if anything I wanted to be smaller. I think my breasts are a lot better now shape wise than they were before just wish I didn't have to go through everything I did before

by Nicola21 14th February 2013, 2:57 pm

hi
im only 4 days post op and had a very empty 32 E, I've just had an uplift, no implant. I'll let you know if there any regrets cause they are smaller than i thought they'd be, but I know there is a lot of changes still to happen, but very happen at present.
Nicola

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