School mummys...

So once Ive had my BA im a bit worried of what the mummys at my daughters school will say? Im not very talkative with any of them so Im expecting a few looks and sniggers.
How did any fellow mummys get on at the school gates? x

Lol... Story of my life being talked about by school mums, don't get me wrong I'm friends with 90% of them and they're the ones who havnt judged me or taken the time to get to know me. I'm often judged o. My looks, the blonde hair, petite figure, big boobs etc. and I find it sad and ignorant but there a a few clique ones that still feel the nee d to gossip and I have found the only reason people comment and gossip is pure jealousy . I'm a friendly and actually quite shy person and I'm a great believer of live and let live each to their own etc
However in life you're always going to get people that have an opinion on everything but always remember its just that AN OPINION. you are doing this for you and to make yours,ef feel better and happier.
I hold my head high speak with my friends and let the small minority have their snigger and know IM HAPPY , I love my boobs, I'm not ashamed Ive had a ba and let them carry on KNOWING THEIR OPINION DOESN'T MATTER A HOOT to me. !

I'm happy and to me that's all that matters x

Don't let anyone EVER bring you down Hun. X

i wouldnt worry bout what other people think its just jelousy. some moms round the school that i speak to knew what i was having done. but some others just look and it obvious why they r looking but just dont let it bother u.
they r just jealous cos we got big boobs. you will be fine

OMG school mums are vile!
When I had my first BA I for my sins took part in a documentary. I was we'll prepared for comments but I think they were too scared to ask... Until one child - and mind you the 8/9 at the time said... Abis mum have yo had a boob job, I said yes and she goes me and my dad saw you on tv.... I was shocked not because she asked but why was she watching it a 8pm... My daughter didn't get any grief either but I am 15-20 years younger than most the mums and think they think I'm volatile (I'm not just stuck with my friends).... If it was me I'd flaunt them, make them jealous!!

They probably won't even notice hun x

mrsball wrote:Lol... Story of my life being talked about by school mums, don't get me wrong I'm friends with 90% of them and they're the ones who havnt judged me or taken the time to get to know me. I'm often judged o. My looks, the blonde hair, petite figure, big boobs etc. and I find it sad and ignorant but there a a few clique ones that still feel the nee d to gossip and I have found the only reason people comment and gossip is pure jealousy . I'm a friendly and actually quite shy person and I'm a great believer of live and let live each to their own etc
However in life you're always going to get people that have an opinion on everything but always remember its just that AN OPINION. you are doing this for you and to make yours,ef feel better and happier.
I hold my head high speak with my friends and let the small minority have their snigger and know IM HAPPY , I love my boobs, I'm not ashamed Ive had a ba and let them carry on KNOWING THEIR OPINION DOESN'T MATTER A HOOT to me. !

I'm happy and to me that's all that matters x


Don't let anyone EVER bring you down Hun. X

mrsball Im shy too and also quite friendly. Im not that bothered about what others say, its the staring I wont like lol. Apart from on here, Im a very private person and the only people who know about my BA are my fiance, mum, dad and sister and you ladies.
The fiance will be doing the school runs for the first week or so, hopefully most of the swelling will subside by then. x

kuru, I love the fact youd flaunt them.
God Ill be a bag of nerves in the summer, haha x

Yeah i agree with princess they prob won't even notice, i take my son to nursery & nobody has noticed as of yet!!! Think this may have something to do with the amount of clothing i have on in this blumin FREEZING weather so in summer may be a different story!!! HAAAAAHAAAAAA x x x x x x

Don't worry anyway babes, if your happy sod what anybody else thinks!

x x x x

I agree missalexa!
Your avi's great x

Tar babe, when's your op hunni? x x x

MissAlexaEll wrote:Tar babe, when's your op hunni? x x x

Im just waiting for my cheque to clear then booking. Hopefully clears next week. I cant wait! x

Unless you have them obviously on show, no one will probably notice hun. I wore such padded bras, with clothes, you couldn't tell much difference. Don't worry what anyone other than your other half and close family think!
M x

wow mandy ur avi is fab x

newboobz wrote:wow mandy ur avi is fab x

Thanks hun!
M x

Thanks all!
I have to agree with newboobz mandy, your avi is brill! Hows your healing coming along? x

I love the whole hmmm has she or hasn't she? Haha xx

loclo26 wrote:Thanks all!
I have to agree with newboobz mandy, your avi is brill! Hows your healing coming along? x

Thanks hun! I'm doing ok I think! Boobs feel ok, just the sides of my ribs that are sore. Can't wait to get these dressings changed on Friday... so itchy!
M x

I agree I don't think anyone will notice esp while its winter and everyone is under layers and layers of clothes trying to keep warm and by the time it's summer they would have forgot how they looked last summer anyway! I'm only at the school one afternoon a week due to work but no ones said anything I think even my friend who knew was disappointed they wasn't massively noticeable lol!xx

Thing is mothers at school will bitch about people whether they have had boob jobs or not. I think the playground as an adult is far worse than being a child at school. I think/hope I am a friendly person, I will talk to anyone but I find that some people don't even acknowledge me when they walk past me so I end up saying hello to myself! There are those that talk and the rest can get lost as far as I'm concerned.
One of the mums of a boy in our eldests class is a nurse. Our youngest had to stay in hospital as had really bad croup. She was very pleasant whilst we were in hospital but the next day on the school run I was totally blanked. I also went to a coffee morning on Monday. Had lovely time with the other mums but today, one of them ignored me, she usually does but I thought I might be better after our coffee morning. How wrong was I?

My advice is to forget about everyone else and do what you want. Nobody's opinion from the school matters and I expect a lot of them have nothing interesting to say anyway. Go for it x

as most of the girls on here were not having it done to please other people its for our own confidence there always be people out there to judge but sure if they had the chance they would do it too :D as long as your happy don't worry about what anyone else thinks :) x

Hello perrie and welcome to the forum
Bet you getting excited now for your ba! x

Hi loclo26!

I have also wondered the same thing about the playground stares but I just keep telling myself all these 'Mums' will have horrible saggy post breast feeding boobies & mine are going to be boobylicious haha! I say let em stare and be proud because they will only be jelous - who wouldn't be! lol

Wow so many amazing new Avi's on here - makes me super excited

loclo26 wrote:Hello perrie and welcome to the forum
Bet you getting excited now for your ba! x

hey :D thanks .. I noo im so excited I cant wait now days are going so qwick :D u excited for yours too :D x