Blimey... Floods of tears (must be 2 days to go)

Think the jitters have got hold of me girls, woke up ok but after a little argument with bf I've spent an hour in floods of tears! :(

Starting to wish I wasnt going on my own now and my excitements gone, working today and tomorrow too!

Any tips for calming down?

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aw they get us all at some point. i went myself and ment i could relax.think of ibiza in lovely new bikinis and boobies. ive messaged u onfbxx

Aaaaw hunni

Sorry your feeling upset! I remember trying to get all excited but a few days before i was a total mess! I kept crying & snapping at everyone! you wouldnt be normal if you weren't a tad nervous but just try think of your beautiful new boobies your going to have afterwards

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Aw hun, don't worry you'll be fine. It's such an emotional time for you at the moment. Best thing to do is have lots of cuddles with bf, and keep busy, work will help even though you probably wont be able to concentrate, I think a few of us made lists of what we needed, then packed and un packed a few times. Make sure you have a good clean and get everything down at arms reach. Think positive and you'll have your new boobs before you know it.

Awww hunni, c'mere

Its such an emotional time on the run up to your BA and tensions can get very high, but its all going to be just fine

Going alone honestly won't be a problem hun. Men are a pain in the backside when it comes to anything like this. They get more nervous than you making you more nervous then when you get more nervous you get "well you wanted this!" Lol they're so predictable....

My hubby drove me mad with all his fidgeting and asking me every minute... "Are you sure you want to do this?, we can walk away right now you know, I don't care about the money"

Nice but....SOD OFFFFFFFFF! Hahaha its all funny now looking back, but honestly babe, I'd have been better on my own and after surgery, you're that zonked out you don't even know they're there anyway.

Take some deep breaths gorgeous, think about what I just said and then thank you're lucky stars you partner isn't going lol.

I spent my time on the last couple of days reading the stories the girls have written here. Reading how happy they are after surgery really helps pick you up hun.


Maybe go out for a meal with your partner tomorrow night to clear the air and spend some time together before you go.

You really will be OK you know babe and you CAN do this. Xxx

Ooooow its the boobie wobbler!! I had it too! Such an emotional time!! I'm so excited for you for weds, I can't offer any calming advice but you know we're all here to share your wobble.
A problem shared is a problem halved xx

Echo what everyone else has said! sending you a BIG HUGXXX

I was exactly the same in the run up to mine hun, its totally normal! Work should be a good distraction anyway and just sit down and have a chat with your bf, explain your not yourself at the moment etc. He should understand and you can start to get excited again

I wasnt really able to calm myself down much, just make a list to be sure you have all you need, maybe even go for a walk to clear your head? Good luck, it will all be fine xx

I spent the last couple of days convinced it wouldn't go ahead for one reason or another!
M x

Aww littlewellies you've been so excited! Don't let the jitters get to you hun.
Spend some time with your bf...no boobie talk, just the two of you and make the most of your time together. x x I've got a hug for you when i c u x

Thanks girls, bf came to see me on his lunch and I apologised for calling him the most selfish person in the world because he puts top gear on every day........ LOL!

Bit of a crap day at work, nor only has it been pick on gemma day but they didn't send home the girl who came in with a tummy bug and threw up in the toilets...... If I get the bug and don't have surgery I will be fuming!!!

Dove how are your nerves now??

Xx

Ah hun as the others have said so normal! I was awful to everyone around me leading up to mine I also had to work right up to night before and then rush round packing the kids off to their dads felt rushed beyond belief! All was ok tho and same wil be for you :) glad you met your Boyf and sorted things out :) you will be fine find that excitement and concentrate on that :-) xx

Im still not feeling a thing, i feel quite down and emotional tbh...don't know why though! Glad you've sorted things with your bf hun.
Did you really say he was selfish for watching top gear? You make me chuckle x

I told him he was the most selfish person in every single way because he never considers I might not want to watch top gear every day of the week and that I used to fancy Richard Hammond and he has ruined that for me as well....... Lol he did laugh at the time and he didn't take any of it to heart but I felt really guilty he had to leave me in tears this morning I don't suppose that was very nice.

Mybreast can't be right about our surgery times, there's only 20 mins between our admission times so it can't be 90 mins surgery time after admission xx

You could try some rescue remedy. xx

Emotional but with a sense of humour. The bad day is nearly over and a better one is just around the corner. X

oh darling! I felt like I was fine until the weekend before, until I had a big argument with boyfriend too!!! I'm so surprised but consoled that so many of us have gone through weird emotional times too!! I'm glad you're feeling better- probably now you've let loose a bit the tension will have dissolved a bit for you!

Good luck with everything xxxxx

No i don't think they're right with the op times either, we'll find out on the day. It's a good job your bf obviously knows that the op has made your mood go all funny, bless you x

Aww no. It's funny what choosing to have this surgery does to you isn't it. I was in floods of tears before my 1st BA too, and then again on the operating table as I was about to have my second. It's normal, not long to go now x

sending you hugs littlewellies

You will be absolutly fine and before you know it you will be back on here posting your new avi. Take no notice of your bf, men are strange creatures, still cant work mine out after 8 years! x

Well I must be a little better as when the bf said earlier 'your ops thurs not weds isn't it?! I wonder why I thought it was thurs I'll have to change my plans for weds now'.... I saw the funny side lol normal service is resumed! Wish it was tomorrow tho I don't want another day of feeling anxious!! Xx

Ohr its guna be amazing hun i was so anxious and honestly after wards i was like omg its not that bad at all lol, not long till u have your boobies :))

Katie after reading some surgery stories exactly what I needed to hear is bits not as bad as I expected!! Xx

cause he watches top gear everyday aw lovely that made me giggle lol

glad he came and seen you and all is well, hopefully you get all your emotions out the way before Wed, eeek not long xx

hope your feeling better now, i went through the crying stage and the wot am i doing stage lol then on the day i was very quiet, but as soon as i was in my room and being drawn on i was excited and nervous!
Try to stay positive and enjoy every minute cause it flies by so fast i wish i could go back and do it all over again xx