My Sister has told everyone

Hi Girls,
Ive been recovering and can sleep on my sides. Have been using a kush too. I feel fine but still taking it easy. Had my first shower yesterday, was lovely.

Me and my sister havent been getting on at all. Shes just told me that everyone knows about my boob job, smirked and went back upstairs.

I am really upset she didnt respect my privacy. I just cant express how betrayed I feel by her. We are not talking. Xx

aw no thats awful, why would anyone do that.

I can understand not talking to family my brother and sister never came to my wedding, long story wot even go there xx

Aw Tink..im so sorry to hear that! Here if you need to chat.

Its over with me and my sister. She had a go at me for choosing my boob job instead of paying more at home. I do chip in. Shes had a go at me for doing a degree and not looking for a better paid job so i can pay more at home. She has a good job, boyfriend, good social life good luck to her. X

Hi Alice, glad to hear your recovering well. Your sister sounds jealous as if she has such a good life herself why does she feel the need to interfere with yours. Don't let her take the shine off your ba happiness and hold your head and boobies high and look forward to how amazing you're going to look in all your new bras! Take care x

Sorry to hear about your situation at home chick! Not nice to hear you are getting no support! Your sister sounds so bitter and jealous and she should really be putting her personal opinions aside of cosmetic surgery and just think about YOU and how you feel, yeah it's been a personal choice for you but that doesn't make it any less traumatic and live changing!

I really hope you have some friends around you who understand and support you! We are all hear too too listen. I hope she takes her head out of her backside soon before she loses you forever! xx

aw hun, thats horrible! When I told my mum about getting my ba done she was really supportive, but we both decided to keep it a secret from my sister! We just know she would be the same as yours is being, and to be honest I think its jealousy! Some people just can't deal with others being happy, its sad really, but try not to let it get to you!

Just hold your head high, you've done nothing wrong, its nothing to be embarrassed about so if people know who cares,let them gossip all they want! And to be honest its not up to her how much you contribute at home so just rise above it, dont even respond xx

Thanks girls. She feels like my op was not necessary or important. But it has nothing to do with her i make my own choices.
I havent told anyone else other than family i wouldnt dare to. She doesnt want to know me. After what she said today im not bothering. She should have respected my privacy out of all people. I once told a friend i had buccal fat surgery, she told her mum cus she was worried about my swelling.i thought never again am i sharing anything that personal.
Just totally betrayed and she has given people a reason to talk about me. I dont know who she has told...presumably cousins and her friends and boyfriend. Xx

I agree with the girls lovely. Definitely sounds like the green eyed monster has hit your sister hun.

Your sister does seem intent on dragging you down and you can either allow that to happen or not and you sound like a strong woman to me lovely, so get your mind set into what done is done now and theres no going back. So just hold your head high, give that back of yours a good arch to get the best from your boobage and get yourself out when you feel ready and strut your stuff babe!

People may well talk, but so what! People wear false eyelashes, false nails, false hair, false tan, make-up to create a false appearance, chicken fillets, false hair colour.... Having a BA is no worse than any of those. We all do these things to make the best of our appearance so stuff them and stuff your sister hun! Xx

Thanks Cookie, its true people are doing other false things out there. And im sure my sister has bras with fillets or a bit of padding.
She came downstairs ready to go out not long ago and decided to tell me that she hadnt told anyone she just wanted to see my reaction!!!
I wouldnt put it past her though the angry person she is. I said to her a point which red mentioned..why interfere with my life when hers is going so well. And it is going so well shes on good money, her bf is the one , she has an amzing social life. I am not on good money, dont have a bf and my social life sucks but i still manage to get out every now and then. Ive never had a group of friends to go out with every week or that best friend. She has so many outbursts at mem she does conrribute at home a lot with money cus she can. Parents love her butthink wht happened to me. I am a disappointment.
To think i could be depressed with how nothing is going mt way i find a bit of confidence with my body cus theres nothin else right now i can shout about.
Shes gone out now, i really give up with her. She knows shes doing better than me and shes younger. I went to uni and she didnt. I dont trust her and its such a shame it is like that. She bad mouths me to all her friends and when they come round its awkward cus they have painted a picture of me already. Xx

god she does seem jealous maybe not of what u got done but cause u could if that makes sense. you so right but nothong to do with anyone what you do to your body xx

Alice I hope that now you're happy with your ba you'll find your confidence will grow. After my 1st ba I lost my confidence and all interest in going out to the point that my son named me "the house plant"! Now that you've had your ba and happy in yourself you can focus on all your positives like having a degree which is fantastic ( I'm considering doing a degree now at 44). You're obviously an intelligent girl and you're young too as well with a great pair of boobs and I'm sure life can only get better for you with a bright future ahead. x

My sister is 3 years older than me we have always fought we didn't talk fir 6 months but we both get on very well now and I go to her with all my problems... She will open,y say she's jealous!

Ignore her, it'll pass, jealousy is a very ugly trait sadly you can't choose your family!

Urgh!! I'm sorry but people who are like that don't get anywhere if life for long, she's clearly not happy withnin her self and her sibling rivalry face has turned on you, shame as it hurts from the ones we love. Good for you for doing something with yourself that YOU wanted and makes YOU happy (boobies).. Sod her! She'll either come round in her own time or live forever bitter and jealous, you keep your head held high and there's nothing more important than your happiness, you live your life not your sister.
Sorry if ive repeated anything else anyone said I only saw what you wrote Alice and got mad! Lol hope your ok xx

God id be just as upset as you hun, its a personal and private thing that you've chosen to do, you told your mum and she is supporting you so who cares what your sister thinks about your home situation.
If your mum wasn't happy with the choices you are making in your life then she'd tell you! Also in order to get a better paid job you need qualifications so good for you doing a degree...if you've got the ability then why not push yourself?
She's just jealous and at the end of the day you've had this op for a reason...to make yourself feel more confident and happier so do not let her rain on your parade! Congrats on the new additions :-)
I've not even told my family :-\
Keep your head up and if your feeling down then log on and get your support from here as we are all in the same boat x

Like the others have said, she sounds very jealous! Hold your head high and tell her you don't care, your proud of you new massive, perfect boobs! :) xx

Thank you Red, wow I admire you wanting to do your degree. I think I'm down because there doesn't seem to be much out there for me.

Hi kuru, that's lovely you and your sis now get on after 6 months of silence! That's a big achievement.

Thanks Charfaye means a lot your message. Shes just reminded me of the surgical complications and said she watched botched up bodies and thinks having the op is disgusting.

Thanks Dove. I do need to push myself. She's charging around the house, makes me feel uncomfortable. She commented again on how i haven't contributed much to the house. Had enough of her.

Thanks Mais, I will tell her I'm proud of them next time she says something. let her know she can't bring me down xxx