How obvious it is that they're fake?

I had my surgery done about a year ago and my breasts are now a size D. I haven't told anyone that I had them done, and I want to keep it a secret. Many guys have felt them and not said anything other than how great they are. The guy I'm seeing at the moment heard a rumour that my breasts are fake and he asked me about it and I denied it. I am now nervous about letting him touch my breasts. Do you know if guys can tell if they are fake, is it very obvious? The impression I first got was that they don't have a clue, but I can't tell if there's a big difference in the feel of real ones when compared to fake ones?

Augmented boobs do feel different to real boobs lovely. That's not to say a man could tell though.... When you're in 'the moment' guys don't really give much thought to things like that, which explains why none have asked in the past.They just LOVE boobs! Lol.

If you don't want to tell your boyfriend, its entirely your decision babe and dont ever feel pressurised to say anything you'd rather not sweetheart.

Put rumours behind you and just enjoy yourself hun. All matters is that you and your boyfriend happy right now and as you get to know your boyfriend better maybe later you could tell him then 'if you wanted to' xx

My boyfriend knew straight away, as they feel a bit firmer. If its a person you really like and you want to build a relationship with him, I'd tell him the truth. Trust is so important, lies can ruin everything. If it bothers him then hes not worth your time. In my experience, theyre just really excited to have a feel.

I wouldn't say not telling about your boobs being augmented would deem you 'untrustworthy' ... It's a little white lie that until you feel entirely comfortable with someone you could keep to yourself.

Your aren't hurting anyone by saying your boobs are real, you're just protecting yourself really until you feel able to confide something that personal to you...

In my opinion anyway Xxx

Of course. I do agree with you there cookie. If it's very early and you arent ready to tell him yet then a little white lie won't hurt. I just meant if its a bit more serious it's better to be able to confide in someone because you trust them and they trust you. I hope that makes more sense.

Welllll actually I feel like he did ask, and while it is a little white lie, it won't seem that way to him. Trust me, what happened was, someone that you know flat out told him you got your boobies done. He was asking you and when you told him you didn't, he's going to have that kind of thought in his head with everything you tell him. Like, well is this true or is it something she's not comfortable with so she's not telling me the truth?

I'm NOT preaching at you hun. I'm currently in a relationship where I was less than honest a few times (not anything really bad, and certiainly nothing that would harm the relationship) and now he admits that he does think twice about if what I say is true.

We're working on the trust thing. But if I were you, and you love this guy, when you feel you're ready I'd tell him the truth and then tell him why you didn't want to tell it before. It's TOTALLY understandable hunni and he'll totally realize that.

xxx

If many guys have said they're great Trish, Don't worry

Trust your instinct hun, if you want to tell him then do so, if you don't try not to worry about it - at the end of the day it's your body but it sounds like he's more than happy with them either way!! :-)

I think it depends if he is for keeps or not these boobies don't last forever and at some point we will all either be having problems put right, new implants put in, or taken out! I guess when it comes to our OH they would sort of need to know!!
Not really sure what I would say in your situation though its easier to give advice than be living it lol xx