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Changes in attitude post BA?
by jakki32 1st October 2012, 5:30 pm
Just wondered in anyone has found their husbands/partners maybe friends attitudes are different after a boob job? I change my hair colour all the time, my husband never really passes comment ( that's his way!) , I love glam, fake tan lashes etc and am always done up even on the school run!! I said to my H last night that I was thinking if going back to blonde from brunette ( again!) , he looked at me and said Blonde? Big tits? Is that wise? Shocked me a bit. He is a bit jealous sometimes, just wondered if having a breast augmentation has caused probs etc ,
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by alexandra33 1st October 2012, 6:06 pm
I haven't noticed any with my partner, he's if anything over the moon. He IS a man so sometimes he'll make an arsey comment like "are you sure you want to wear that" or "everyone will be looking at your boobs" and i just say "too right, that's why I spent thousands on them - not to hide them away LOL!!"
he's probably just a bit insecure that you're going to be EXTRA glam with your new assets.
you could reassure him and say "yes, aren't you lucky you'll have me!!"
good luck xxx
he's probably just a bit insecure that you're going to be EXTRA glam with your new assets.
you could reassure him and say "yes, aren't you lucky you'll have me!!"
good luck xxx
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by rockyk12 1st October 2012, 6:28 pm
luckily i am single and plan to stay that way for a while so dont have to worry about a boyfriends opinion but my friend who had a BA a few years ago broke up with her boyfriend straight after because he got so jealous , i suppose it just depends on the people involved but i would like to think my friends and family dont change towards me, i would say alot of girls notice 1 or 2 friend acting jealous! xx
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by 5stonedown 1st October 2012, 6:38 pm
My fella was a little worried at first as he likes natural boobs and he didnt want me to go too big that I would look out of proportion. Now I've had them done he loves them as I already have so much more confidence and he said that he loves the change in me as I'm no longer so self loathing!! He cant wait till he can 'cop a proper feel!' and is so glad I had it done! I am always changing my look - hair, tattoos etc so nothing really surprises him or anyone else that knows me anymore!!!
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by COOKIE 1st October 2012, 6:40 pm
My husband at first got a little protective of me. He didn't like if other men looked, but that was the extent of it really... It never bothered him before that men would look at me, but it was obvious some men did leer at my boobs.
I just stroked his ego and it all worked out for me. Telling him other guys might look, but that's as far as it goes for them... We can now sit and giggle together and take the mick out of any 'pervs' 'cos he knows other men mean nothing to us, they never did pre-op and don't now I'm post-op. xx
I just stroked his ego and it all worked out for me. Telling him other guys might look, but that's as far as it goes for them... We can now sit and giggle together and take the mick out of any 'pervs' 'cos he knows other men mean nothing to us, they never did pre-op and don't now I'm post-op. xx
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by zebra1984 1st October 2012, 8:19 pm
That's a shame your partner said that! I would imagine he is just feeling a little insecure about your new found happiness/confidence leading up to the big day!!! I think it's normal for the other half to be a bit worried/jealous!
I personally can't wait until me and my fella go out for the first time when I have a proper WOW bra on and get some looks off men, haha! I have never had men look at my boobs so kinda looking forward to it!
Hopefully my b/f will be happy to have a newly confident g/f that doesn't shy away from taking her bra off! Your man will come round, esp when you have them and he sees how happy you are :smiler: xx
I personally can't wait until me and my fella go out for the first time when I have a proper WOW bra on and get some looks off men, haha! I have never had men look at my boobs so kinda looking forward to it!
Hopefully my b/f will be happy to have a newly confident g/f that doesn't shy away from taking her bra off! Your man will come round, esp when you have them and he sees how happy you are :smiler: xx
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by Nicole 1st October 2012, 8:25 pm
my other half makes the odd comment sometimes like "you're not going to be showing them off all the time are you?" (yeh!) but i just reassure him that he's the only one for me etc. I know he understands how i feel about my body and that he'll support me no matter what but i guess its natural for men to be protective and we just need to reassure them! I think, for my oh, once i've had the BA he's going to want me to show them off just as much as i do when we go out etc so everybody sees he's with me and thinks "what a lucky guy" haha. Men just like being awkward sometimes, but i guess we do too :p xxx
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Re: Changes in attitude post BA?
by jakki32 1st October 2012, 8:33 pm
My other half is a bit insecure I guess. I have had a few comments like " men will talk to your chest now etc" , I am
An out going friendly person, I won't change that's for sure. I am
Not having a BA for confidence etc it's because I don't like my chest and want to feel more feminine for me!!! I just ignore his comments. I hope he doesn't start getting a bit difficult, I love my girls nights out . I couldn't stand that x although he may have a sulk by the time I get in he's usually ok lol. I just hope it doesn't cause any probs .
An out going friendly person, I won't change that's for sure. I am
Not having a BA for confidence etc it's because I don't like my chest and want to feel more feminine for me!!! I just ignore his comments. I hope he doesn't start getting a bit difficult, I love my girls nights out . I couldn't stand that x although he may have a sulk by the time I get in he's usually ok lol. I just hope it doesn't cause any probs .
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