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by loui1981 7th May 2014, 9:15 pm
Driving to work today n they were on about fake people and and made the comment I'm more fake that a boob job and it really bothered me. Society frowns upon it and it makes me feel like I should feel guilty like I should be made to feel like some kind of fraud? I would love to have even just be a full b or c cup naturally but I wasn't, I had next to no tissue and droopy hanging sacs. My 83 yr Grandma still has better boobs than I had. (she showed me lol and fully supports my decision). Yet society judges you for it. Bugs me
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by Blueeyedsoul13 7th May 2014, 9:17 pm
everyone is different and entitled to their own opinions.
unfortunatel society in general seem somewhat prejudiced against it, but you know what, it's not for them to decide what's best for you.
if you're feel happy, then you shouldn't be made to feel bad about that by others!
those who scorn are usually trying to compensate anyway, so feel sorry for them and be proud of yourself xx
unfortunatel society in general seem somewhat prejudiced against it, but you know what, it's not for them to decide what's best for you.
if you're feel happy, then you shouldn't be made to feel bad about that by others!
those who scorn are usually trying to compensate anyway, so feel sorry for them and be proud of yourself xx
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by loui1981 7th May 2014, 9:25 pm
It's almost as if, everyone likes to prejudice and if it's socially acceptable to, then they jump on the band wagon and persecute. If a man decides to go thro cosmetic and hormone therapy to change gender she is then protected by law from discrimination. but if a women should feel that unhappy about her appearance that she would pay to risk surgery then that's somehow seen as wrong and it's fine to call her fake? Plastic? I feel more needs to be done to protect augmented women from the harsh and often ignorant opinions of others.
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by Wee Lou 7th May 2014, 9:31 pm
People are all wanting to feel good about themselves, why do we go to the gym, diet, wear make up and buy certain clothes?!Is that faking how your meant to look like?? its your body and are entitled to look great. **naughty word** the haters and love yourself, will make them haters more jealous :clap hands:You've got a great pair huni xxx
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by loui1981 7th May 2014, 9:37 pm
Yep like all the no make up selfies - isn't that fake? I mean my god makeup is a wonderful thing lol. I think as a vulnerable diversity group we are judged unfairly and it's wrong. My friend has a reduction, that ok, yet augmentation isn't? Sorry rant over, just don't feel I should apologise to society
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by Charlii 8th May 2014, 12:19 pm
Society will always fear the unknown. They fear for us, and judge us and look down their noses at us because they haven't taken the time to look at all the facts. Its the same for any type of surgery, because they are ignorant. But I don't think we can compare it in any way to a hate crime like racism or homophobia.
It does hurt to be judged in this way, but for the most part its due to ignorance and jealousy. The women saying this still paint their nails, colour their hair, tan their skin...is that really any different? So we take the higher ground, laugh at them for their stupidity, and look fabulous doing it!
It does hurt to be judged in this way, but for the most part its due to ignorance and jealousy. The women saying this still paint their nails, colour their hair, tan their skin...is that really any different? So we take the higher ground, laugh at them for their stupidity, and look fabulous doing it!
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by Princess_x 8th May 2014, 12:59 pm
It always surprises me how people don't get bored of calling people who've had boob jobs "fake" or "plastic". Bore off.
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Re: societys attitude towards ba
by Blueeyedsoul13 8th May 2014, 10:41 pm
charlii and princess, well said girls xxx
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