Reactions to your new fab boobs

Hi everyone, I am 100% doing this for myself and no matter what people think of breast implants thats their opinion and it wouldnt make me feel any differently...

I know some people will think Im vain for doing it (not that I care) as Iv already had someone at work tell me "You think alot of yourself dont you!" which honestly isnt me at all!!

Just out of interest really I was wondering what reactions (good or bad) you have received after you had your BA?

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i think all good really, i can only recall one bad one when i was out n this girl who was talking with our group of friends said she thought they were gross eeeww!!
but like you said, i dont care!! ppl love having an opinion on you dont they? n you know what?? i couldnt care less, idont wana get involved in what ppl think, i just leave em to it. whatever! cos im happy so why should they care?! xxx

Hey Claire, first of all congratulations if you want boobs for you go you,

I'm just back to work for the first day today and was nervous, but in clothes mine downt look huge and had some great reactions, however having a ba was for me, my mum has been great but my dad thought I was doing it for attention, which my mum keeps reminding him it isnt and Im 25 not 4 lol, best thing I've EVER done, my friends have been very supportive and think they look great. I didnt tell many people as this was for me. but most importantly it dosen't matter what other people think as long as it makes you happy, I feel all grown up now lol its fab.

Good luck sweetie xx

I had good reactions.didn't care much for the unnecessary comments made by some jealous people!but I think u r guna get that reaction regarding cosmetic surgery anyway cus most people think that it's only vain women that have it done!if only they knew the real story behind the surgery.My sisters were quite jealous but not in a bad way they wanna get theirs done now because they love mine

i'm still pre op but no matter whether ur doing them for u or bob down the road everybody feels they have a right to an opinion.



i've had people advice me on size (not ps's lol), tell me i'm beautiful the way i am and some say i'm doing it for the attention. Just tell them there entitled to there opinion but sometimes its best to keep it to urself.



or as my mum always told me if u haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all!! some people are narrow minded and don't think u can possibly do anything in life just for yourself i wouldn't worry hun happens to all of us.



good luck with the boobies xx

I'm just recently post op, so no one's said anything, plus I'm not a small girl, so don't think anyone would really notice since I've been wearing padded bras for AGES - but...

a friend had hers done, and she's GORGEOUS - perfect body, etc etc, and she's a barmaid, and this one girl out on the **naughty word** was like "well THOSE are clearly fake" to her boyfriend. total jealousy!! the boyfriend didn't seem to care tho LOL!

you may have hater comments but screw 'em!!

agree totally alexandra prob jealous they haven't got the balls or money to do it xx

Hi Clare1003,

I always had good boobs, until I finished BF 2 boys 3 years apart and the skin had well and truly stretched.
I do get chatted up more by young guys which is difficult, I'm a size 6 and these boobs are about FF-G so they look huge in going out clothes.

I know some girls get this size for attention or for work but I just wanted to be filled up and this was the smallest size (360) I could have...

I like the lift, the fullness and the Womanly feeling, I do still have days when I think they are too big and if I go swimming at my gym I feel a bit
"Out there" because, well they are lol...

I'm not a prude I do dress sexily but the last I went out i wore jeans and a tee because i cannot be bothered with it all, I'm Married...

I do get asked a lot (by slimey men) if I am a glamour model, which is hilarious really but it's the male attention I am struggling with. I went out and stayed sober which do often and found myself needing a drink to block out the bitchy Women and get the guts to tell guys to go away...

Apart from that, things are ok, I have not grown in to my new shape yet,
I expect once I start to feel more comfortable with my boobs that I will
Care less and less about negativity, I just worry about the aggressive young
Males.

So what if they are huge its my choice huh xxx

hi Jqueen - since you're just filling out what was already there (but left temporarily after having kids) I'm sure you're used to those bitchy comments and guys hitting on you - it's all flattering in my opinion - if u weren't gorgeous no one would care!! LOL

i personally can't wait to rock these new puppies in a halter top (or less :)) but for that I'll probably have to wait til next summer

Totally agree with all of your girls, I am pre BA like nikitaw86...I havent as of yet had any bad comments with regards to me having it done. I havent told a lot of people. My mum is behind me all of the way and my bf is happy that I will soon have the boobies Ive always wanted but actually isnt too fussed him self. I think when it comes to going on a night out Im guna expect those comments...but I think if they've got something to say its probably because they want them themselves or cant afford it....Coz I know quite a few girls who have had it done, and secretly I was always a bit jealous lol ;D.
It comes with the package of having great boobs i think :D x x x x

I agree - jealousy is natural - i was always a bit jealous of skinny girls with bigger boobies - BUT I was never nasty to them - but was jealous!!! and now I have them tooooooo

Yayyyyy :D...well unfortunitly alexandra33....im still guna be jealous of you all....End of December for me :(.....I cant wait
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i had mixed reactions. most of them said good for you! the people who turn their noses up are entitled to there own opinions but i just tell them not to horrible about it. jealousy is not an attactive quality!

Well said meme :) x x x

I dont really go out ... Ehhmmmm never . Lol dont enjoy it so no bitches comment bitchy on my titties . And if they would i wouldnt care . Another girl at work . I guess a size 16+ just said to me . ( oh so went through with ur boob job ? Thats nice .. Now u need to get rid of ur belly)
Whaaaaaaat the fu...? Size 16+ says that to me ? Size 10 ... Here in germany we say " who sits in a glashouse , should not throu with briks/stones " honestly ..... Some people cant be happie for others because they aint happie them selfes

I've had great reactions tho not been on a night out yet! All my friends have said they're now seriously going to look into it for themselves! Like others, after Breastfeeding I was left with empty boobs so it was purely to replump my balloons hehe xx

I am worried about reactions too. The people who do know (workmates and housemates) have sort of made a supportive 'ring' around me though which is really sweet. A lady yesterday was with us and she heard what I was doing and said "Nooooo! Why on earth-" and one of the guys just said "it's too late, it's happening, it's good, it's good." and just cut it offf which I thought was just soo sweet. The lady didn't mean anything by it she wasn't trying to be mean but people don't realise how much their negativity can impact your emotions.



I am worried what people will say/ think but at the same time this isn't for them! I think back to all the boyfriends who left me for huge boobed women and I just know the kind of things they will say but they can all get stuffed!



I am worried people will laugh at me, worried it will alienate me further from social things but at the end of the day this is my life, I need to please me...





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Exactly !!!! Ur doing it for ur self ... Men leave u even with big boobs . But when those misgeburten ( swear on german )run off for someone else ull still got ur nice boobies ull be happy about ....

alexandra33 wrote:hi Jqueen - since you're just filling out what was already there (but left temporarily after having kids) I'm sure you're used to those bitchy comments and guys hitting on you - it's all flattering in my opinion - if u weren't gorgeous no one would care!! LOL

i personally can't wait to rock these new puppies in a halter top (or less :)) but for that I'll probably have to wait til next summer

Hi Hun,
I had natural boobs that moved with my body b4, unless I hoisted em up in wonderbra they were never this high...Plus, I lost a dress size after I stopped BF my youngest and even the surgeon said wow you are slim...SO...No I never got chatted up because of my boobs directly and that IS pretty new, and I personally find it uncomfortable..

A few more months I can hopefully settle in to my body but I had a DD cup in my mind
The whole time so adjusting to 3-4 sizes bigger is a shock 4 any1....

I think I have sent lots of business my surgeons way any1 who has seen them comments they are done well and I totally agree, they look even, stitches are almost invisible.

I will say, everybody's expectations of BA is different, some Ladies are changing the size, some have had corrective surgery, and some have had children (like me)
Healing takes time and getting used to a new body shape takes time too

Wear you're halter top if thats how you feel then do it, September shud be lovely and warm xxx

BKOZ wrote:I am worried about reactions too. The people who do know (workmates and housemates) have sort of made a supportive 'ring' around me though which is really sweet. A lady yesterday was with us and she heard what I was doing and said "Nooooo! Why on earth-" and one of the guys just said "it's too late, it's happening, it's good, it's good." and just cut it offf which I thought was just soo sweet. The lady didn't mean anything by it she wasn't trying to be mean but people don't realise how much their negativity can impact your emotions.



I am worried what people will say/ think but at the same time this isn't for them! I think back to all the boyfriends who left me for huge boobed women and I just know the kind of things they will say but they can all get stuffed!



I am worried people will laugh at me, worried it will alienate me further from social things but at the end of the day this is my life, I need to please me...





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You won't be alienated doll you sound as though you have some great Family and friends so try not to worry...

It will take a little time to adjust just choose the right size/shape and profile 4 you..
You can get away with very natural looking boobs you are lucky as your skin is tight
So you can pick and choose whats best 4 you

No-one has noticed mine yet (i dont think) but then again it just looks like it used to when i wore padded bras. My partner knows and is freaked out by shaped and firmness and incisions and my friend who i told said they suited me and looked natural.



Who cares though right? if we are happy that should be the only thing that matters xxxx

starsfade - i think this will be a similar reaction in my case - since I too used to wear big padded bras. I think I'm worried that people will actually have the opposite reaction - like "oh i can't tell you did anything!" (cause of course none have ever seen me naked)

i think that would make me sad b/c i am going through quite a lot of discomfort and pain and hope that someone notices LOL

same here nobody has noticed my new additions ,they look the same in clothes as pre ba due to the padding but thats the result i was after im just glad ive actually got more boobieness when i take my bra off its great x

I'm exactly the same. there is a huge huge difference when you see me in bra or without. Huge. but in clothes i look averagely sized i think...its what i asked for though.....

starsfade - I know - and in certain clothes I feel they look small - but others I'm like OMG theyre HUGE! lol

but out of clothes they definitely make themselves known