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what reactions have you had from men?
helloooo girls,
Those who have had their BA must be more body confident!
I am curious to know what reactions have been like for all you post op girlies...from men in general? Come on girls spill! lol
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Those who have had their BA must be more body confident!
I am curious to know what reactions have been like for all you post op girlies...from men in general? Come on girls spill! lol
x
alice111- BJSF Addict
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Re: what reactions have you had from men?
I cant say that I've found mens reactions in general any different to what they were before. I still have issues with my body and I'm quite shy so maybe it's just me not noticing the reactions?
Re: what reactions have you had from men?
no different at all from the general public.
abbie- BJSF Elite Member
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Thanks girls . I just hope ppl dont notice when i get mine done as I dont really want ppl to know other than close family and friends.
misf1 your surgeons done a great job from what i can see from the avatar, but i understand bout the shyness, as i can relate to that x
misf1 your surgeons done a great job from what i can see from the avatar, but i understand bout the shyness, as i can relate to that x
alice111- BJSF Addict
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Thank you hun, shyness is a curse, although I am better now than when I was younger
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I have said a million times on here before I told everyone I was having them done. Im not really shy, but at our works christmas party, although I didnt have them out they were noticeable, and I felt really conscious about them (until I got drunk). When I was at the table the zip on my top broke and it zipped all the way up the back, so 3 girls I work with had to force the zip down while I held it up against me then fix zip and sow me into it, so I was not very inconspicious. Had a lot of attention that night!!!! But on the whole no real difference x
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I think it depends what you wear, they are easy to hide when you dont want attention on them. Before my BA i thought it would be really obvious difference but you would suprised how un noticed they go.
On the other hand in a low cut top and the right bra mens eyes to begin to wander, but what can you expect if your putting them out there lol.
My males friends that all know, treat me no different and i think people tend to forget about it after a while, if your not keeping it a secret its the girls you need to prepare for! millions and millions of questions will be asked and they are alot more open about expecting to see/feel them. Xxx
On the other hand in a low cut top and the right bra mens eyes to begin to wander, but what can you expect if your putting them out there lol.
My males friends that all know, treat me no different and i think people tend to forget about it after a while, if your not keeping it a secret its the girls you need to prepare for! millions and millions of questions will be asked and they are alot more open about expecting to see/feel them. Xxx
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I'm not going to lie girls, i do want to feel attractive within myself but i do want to feel more attractive to other men too, i hope thats not a bad thing?! I jus feel like standing out a little, but without ppl knowing ive had it.
i agree with you wellwisher it does depend on the top you wear. I want to fill out my clothes more. no point wearing a size 14 dress with the hips fitting perfectly but nothing to fill on top. I'm a pear shape dying to be an hourglass!
i agree with you wellwisher it does depend on the top you wear. I want to fill out my clothes more. no point wearing a size 14 dress with the hips fitting perfectly but nothing to fill on top. I'm a pear shape dying to be an hourglass!
alice111- BJSF Addict
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Hmm, I'm seriously hoping to get NO attention from men.
Apart from already being married, the men who would give me attention because I had cleavage, aren't the type of men I'd want to receive any attention from!!
Apart from already being married, the men who would give me attention because I had cleavage, aren't the type of men I'd want to receive any attention from!!
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I wouldnt mind being appreciated for my assets..especially after paying so much lol. I'm at that time in my life where I want to have fun, wear anything, go out feel confident and get appreciated for it.
alice111- BJSF Addict
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I havnt actually had anyone say anything to me when iv been out & iv worn some pretty revealing clothes lol
The only women that have asked me if iv had them done have been strippers LOL
The only women that have asked me if iv had them done have been strippers LOL
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Alt_Barbie wrote:I havnt actually had anyone say anything to me when iv been out & iv worn some pretty revealing clothes lol
The only women that have asked me if iv had them done have been strippers LOL
Are they all walking around with their eyes shut
Awesome pic hunni.
xxx
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I agree with Gabby, though i'm not married! lol Although I feel more confident within myself, I hate getting sleazed on. The sort of guys who would go straight for my boobs, just because of my boobs are not the sort of guys I really want.
But I went out last week with a mate and for the first time wore no bra. I only have an ugly sports bra right now. They were so high despite the fact that I had no bra on that I did get some attention. I didn't really like it as much as you might think. I kinda felt self-conscious. I also felt that at this stage they are blatantly fake. No boobs that big are that high up without a bra unless they're fake. And i felt that this was why they were really giving me the attention.
I'd like a guy I like to think 'she's got nice boobs'. Because before I always thought that people looked at me and thought 'she's flat'. But I'm not that much of attention seeker really. I mostly just don't want people to think I'm flat as opposed to thinking I've got a huge rack! But it's still pretty early days right now. I'll keep you posted.
But I went out last week with a mate and for the first time wore no bra. I only have an ugly sports bra right now. They were so high despite the fact that I had no bra on that I did get some attention. I didn't really like it as much as you might think. I kinda felt self-conscious. I also felt that at this stage they are blatantly fake. No boobs that big are that high up without a bra unless they're fake. And i felt that this was why they were really giving me the attention.
I'd like a guy I like to think 'she's got nice boobs'. Because before I always thought that people looked at me and thought 'she's flat'. But I'm not that much of attention seeker really. I mostly just don't want people to think I'm flat as opposed to thinking I've got a huge rack! But it's still pretty early days right now. I'll keep you posted.
HighMaintainance- Active BJSF Member
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AB is that you?
Wow!!
Wow!!
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I know. You look like a sexy Manga heroine. I love it!
HighMaintainance- Active BJSF Member
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Same here no extra attention, only from the hubbie ;)...and I like to keep it that way. I didn't like the attention I got from when I breast fed my twins but I think it's cause I had a whole lot of cleavage and now there's no cleavage just perky
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Mmmmm......what reactions have you had from men?
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I agree great pic alt barbie. very creative!
Girls if i was married i'd only want attention from my hubby too.
I don't think gettin boob attention is bad, it's quite nice!! Do you realise how powerful a good set of boobies can be!! take advantage! lol
Girls if i was married i'd only want attention from my hubby too.
I don't think gettin boob attention is bad, it's quite nice!! Do you realise how powerful a good set of boobies can be!! take advantage! lol
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Gabby wrote:AB is that you?
Wow!!
Yea its me :)
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was an Alt photoshoot?
are you back to the modelling like you wanted?
final question...I promise...Are you wearing a bra in the pic? I ask because they look amazingly perky for BIG boobs.
are you back to the modelling like you wanted?
final question...I promise...Are you wearing a bra in the pic? I ask because they look amazingly perky for BIG boobs.
Gabby- BJSF Addict
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No im not wearing a bra, the top is made of Latex & it does wonders for boobs lol
I was going to Torture Garden, my friend Daf took some pics before we went out. [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]
I was going to Torture Garden, my friend Daf took some pics before we went out. [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]
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AM AZ ING Avatar AB x
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ive been so suprised how many of my clothes still fit me post-op, ive only had one top which had buttons down the middle that is now too tight! so for me nobody has noticed!! no body at my work suspects a thing and before i told my friends they didnt even notice! i dont wear revealing/tight clothes though unless its the summer and its really hot so i might get a few more looks then! but in general in normal day to day wear i doubt any one will notice.... unless you have massiveeee implants!!! lol x
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nobody noticed mine either except for the people I told. Not even my own family!
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