still scared... plz help !

i know ive talked about this alot.. and all of u comforted me that the implants will feel like a part of me and not like anything foreign in my body.. but im still so scared.. i actually cant leave this site because i feel its the only place i can vent out.. i wish i can feel what any of u is feeling.. im so scared.. will i feel like im feeling now.. like its a part of me totally.. as if im born with it.. or will i always feel something is different..
when i wake up from the surgery... as soon as i open my eyes.. what would i feel.. something pressing on my chest n making it hard to breath ??? like a really tight bra.. because i cant take tight bras i hate them.. i usually wear bigger ones so that i doesnt bother me because im clastrophobic so i always make sure not to wear reallyyyyy tight bras n clothes so that i feel comfortable..
i am sorry im bothering all of u again n again.. but im so scared the moment ill wake up ill get a panic attack n want to take them out again right away..

oh hun i am so sorry you are feeling so stressed about this :( i am a newbie pre-op so cant offer any advice on how you will feel. just wanted to pop over and give you a virtual hug

oh hun c'mere! you will be fine, breathe deeply now....
its totally normal to feel nervous n scared..i think we all did at some point! i know i did!
im sure wen u wake up youll b so out of it n lovn th ga, u wont even b thinking bout ur chest.
if u r, i imagine youll b really curious to see th lovely lady lumps youve been wanting!
its something u want n u have been so brave to get to this stage, n soon u swill have th confidence n boobs u want! :)
read thru sum of th ba stories it should help put u at ease hun.
as for my boobs, wen saw them aftr, it was more like ''ahhhh, there my boobs r! FINALLY!'' lol it was a trjuly great moment, n they felt like part of me straight away, like they had always been there!

Hey sweety, I had my BA today and honestly it's not bad at all. I would do it all again tomorrow if I had to. I'm a little bit uncomfortable now I'm in bed but that's because my incisions are a bit sore. Its barely a pain and I've just taken some more painkillers before I sleep. My boobs are still numb from the local anaesthetic injection they use but I can feel the implant a little, its a strange feeling but not bad. I have no tightness on my chest at all, my bra fits very comfortably and I am completely esctastic that I'm wearing a bra with no padding at all and don't have a completely flat chest! Honestly sweety it's not that bad at all, and I'm an incredibly squeamish person!! Xxxx

OH MY GOD... I LOVE U GUYS !!! really wanna hug u alllll ur the only people i wanna talk to these days.. my husband brings me down all the time... and my family thinks its ridiculous..
i had two babies before c section and an appendix ... why am i sooo scared.. im such a baby !!!

any of you have unders ??? sometimes i feel like i wish i can get overs because they are less painful ...

hey doony! I am getting unders, these pre op jitters are totally normal!



It's human nature to fear the unknown. Its a shame your family and hubby arent supportive but everyone here is so ask as much as you need to.



It's important to feel comfortable and semi-confident when going in for elective surgery. The girls on here are like my extended family at the moment, such a helpful and caring group, we can give you all the support you will ever need!



Hubby will come round, as soon as he see's you new boobies!



Another member had the same thing with her husband I will have a look around for the link to that discussion as everyone offered some great advice and I think things really improved for them.



xx