Scared! Emotional!Excited! Scared! Is this normal?
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Scared! Emotional!Excited! Scared! Is this normal?
Hi Girlies,
I just wanted to reach out to you all and see how you all felt 3 days before your operation!?!
I'm so emotional at the moment!! I'm like "am i doing the right thing"?? Are my original boobies really that bad?? What happens if I hate my new additions??
I'm so scared of the proceedure...
I'm so excited too, each night wearing my rice additions and trying my clothes with them...
My emotions are so up and down and left and right right now...
Could do with some advice ladies xx
I just wanted to reach out to you all and see how you all felt 3 days before your operation!?!
I'm so emotional at the moment!! I'm like "am i doing the right thing"?? Are my original boobies really that bad?? What happens if I hate my new additions??
I'm so scared of the proceedure...
I'm so excited too, each night wearing my rice additions and trying my clothes with them...
My emotions are so up and down and left and right right now...
Could do with some advice ladies xx
chezza- Newbie BJSF Member
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Don't worry, I felt exactly the same! Even started to like my pre op boobs! I was really scared, but it was so so easy, and the vast majority of girls say that too. Good luck for your op, it will all be worth it! Xx
Rachy87- Active BJSF Member
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Chezza I posted a similar thread to you a few weeks ago and im not booked until December.Apparently these thoughts and feeling are completly normal.I felt so much better after a few kind words from the boobie girls.Big hugs sweetie xx
peggysue- BJSF Elite Member
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peggysue- BJSF Elite Member
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Yeah, I just want to echo whats already been said to he honest! I havent even booked my ba yet and i still go through moments of thinking 'oh they arent that bad' 'maybe ill just leave them alone' but then i catch sight of them in a mirror and i know that i do really want them done!
I think its totally normal to feel nerves, worry and have doubt!
Hopefully the next couple of days will go quickly and it will all be over before you know it. Sending you a hug xxx
I think its totally normal to feel nerves, worry and have doubt!
Hopefully the next couple of days will go quickly and it will all be over before you know it. Sending you a hug xxx
georgiana76- BJSF Addict
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Thanks girlies...
It's nice to know I'm not alone out there...
I wish for these next 3 days to go super, duper quick...
It's nice to know I'm not alone out there...
I wish for these next 3 days to go super, duper quick...
chezza- Newbie BJSF Member
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If its of any comfort i've got three weeks to go and seem to feel the same, it seems i can flip between massively excited and hugely terrified and back again in the space of two seconds. I guess we just need to remember that its normal to be nervous and will be well worth it once its done! When i start to doubt what im doing i try and think 'well would i rather stay the way i am because thats the only other option' and it kind of helps me to realise that it is deffinately what i want. I guess if you're starting to doubt whether you need it then that may not be of much help to you but i thought i'd share as its the only thing that seems to help me think a bit more rationally. Im sure you'll be over the moon once you've had it done. Excited for you, good luck xx
xlaurax90- Active BJSF Member
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I certainly don't think you're alone on this one!x
xlaurax90- Active BJSF Member
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Hey Chezza, I'm feeling EXACTLY the same - and I have 3 days to go as well - I look at mine and think things like:
"My BF and I are the only ones who see them totally naked - so what do I really care what they look like?"
"I can wear cutlets and padded bras"
"I've been wearing huge bras for so long people think I have huge boobs anyway"
But then I remember, this is about ME. This isn't about anyone else. I look at my boobs, as I have since age 14, and think -
"ugh, is this it?" I want to feel good about myself, even when I'm alone - and I think these are going to make my body the best I can be!
Good luck to you - I look forward to reading your story, and can't wait to be posting my own!
xxxxxx ali
"My BF and I are the only ones who see them totally naked - so what do I really care what they look like?"
"I can wear cutlets and padded bras"
"I've been wearing huge bras for so long people think I have huge boobs anyway"
But then I remember, this is about ME. This isn't about anyone else. I look at my boobs, as I have since age 14, and think -
"ugh, is this it?" I want to feel good about myself, even when I'm alone - and I think these are going to make my body the best I can be!
Good luck to you - I look forward to reading your story, and can't wait to be posting my own!
xxxxxx ali
alexandra33- BJSF Elite Member
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Hey chezza,
I think I'm having exactly the same size/type as you (300cc unders?) - my op is on Thursday so one day before you and I am PETRIFIED! Sitting here wearing the stupid rice bags and panicking about how much it's going to hurt, how long it'll take to recover, whether the size is too big for me (I am 5ft 7, size 10 and have hypoplasia so no boobs at all at the moment) - I am yet to experience any excitement about it because I'm so frightened! This place is the best I've found for reassurance and support though, been driving myself mad reading loads of conflicting stories and advice all over the net. So...what I'm trying to say is, no it's not just you, and I think we will both be fine! Good luck xx
I think I'm having exactly the same size/type as you (300cc unders?) - my op is on Thursday so one day before you and I am PETRIFIED! Sitting here wearing the stupid rice bags and panicking about how much it's going to hurt, how long it'll take to recover, whether the size is too big for me (I am 5ft 7, size 10 and have hypoplasia so no boobs at all at the moment) - I am yet to experience any excitement about it because I'm so frightened! This place is the best I've found for reassurance and support though, been driving myself mad reading loads of conflicting stories and advice all over the net. So...what I'm trying to say is, no it's not just you, and I think we will both be fine! Good luck xx
RedUmbrella- Newbie BJSF Member
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hi chezza, i posted near enough the same thing yesterday. i have 6 days to go and i dont feel emotional at all, very aprehensive about whats goin to happen and cant believe im actually doing it. im just hoping that the closer i get the better i will feel. im sure once u get to the hospital and it all starts to become real u will be fine. i can assure u thou that all your emotions are completely normal and we all have them. hope all goes well hun x
meme- Active BJSF Member
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Like many of u im full of emotions and questioning everything too, im so excited to b seeing the surgeon in less than 2 weeks but also panicing big time too, good to know theres others out there feeling the same, good luck wiv ur ops everyone xxx
LM- BJSF Addict
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Thank you so, so much girlies!!
It's such a comfort to know I'm not the only one with these emotions and feelings...
2 days to go Eeek!! Good luck to everyone and thank you for all of your support
xxx
It's such a comfort to know I'm not the only one with these emotions and feelings...
2 days to go Eeek!! Good luck to everyone and thank you for all of your support
xxx
chezza- Newbie BJSF Member
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lol @ Rachy!
I am so glad someone else said it! Over the past couple of days I have been 'noticing' how 'big' my natural boobs are, wondering if I am doing the right thing or not?
I don't even HAVE boobies atm!
I am so glad someone else said it! Over the past couple of days I have been 'noticing' how 'big' my natural boobs are, wondering if I am doing the right thing or not?
I don't even HAVE boobies atm!
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Hi Girls, I Havent even officially booked mine yet but it will be november and i feel like that already!!
Its only normal to feel that way, i believe it wouldnt be normal if u didnt to be honest.
It is an exciting event to think about as your getting something you have always wanted but on the other hand extremley nerve rackin as its a big thing to go through, both physically and mentally.
You always look at what you have and think 'do i really need to change these or am i just being silly' as you always have what other people think in mind..which overcasts what you actually think and feel. But you are changing something that your unhappy about and thats the main thing, you have to think about why your doing it and that you will feel amazing once its all done.
Its only normal to feel that way, i believe it wouldnt be normal if u didnt to be honest.
It is an exciting event to think about as your getting something you have always wanted but on the other hand extremley nerve rackin as its a big thing to go through, both physically and mentally.
You always look at what you have and think 'do i really need to change these or am i just being silly' as you always have what other people think in mind..which overcasts what you actually think and feel. But you are changing something that your unhappy about and thats the main thing, you have to think about why your doing it and that you will feel amazing once its all done.
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