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Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Karen1982 2nd August 2011, 7:34 pm
Was just wondering when they are able to touch the new boobs??? 
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by gloday 2nd August 2011, 8:05 pm
my husband waited about 2 hours and then i told him to sod off!
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Emme-Kate 2nd August 2011, 8:09 pm
They can touch then at anytime I guess if they are gentle.Men are so funny!They are like kids with a new toy!
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by *Sally* 2nd August 2011, 8:13 pm
Yes they can touch them at any time as long as they're super gentle. You are advised to not have sex for about 3 weeks tho I think. Tell him he can look but not touch!!
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Crystal 2nd August 2011, 8:16 pm
Mine wanted to touch them but I couldnt bare it! lol
Its ok for him to touch them if its done very gentle but they will need time to heal before he gets to have a good fondal
xx
Its ok for him to touch them if its done very gentle but they will need time to heal before he gets to have a good fondal
xx
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Karen1982 2nd August 2011, 8:26 pm
Lol so glad I asked now!!!!
Emma-Kate are they really like that? My boyfriend keeps saying he doesn't mind either way but I really hope he prefers them!
3 weeks, seriously??????????????? Xx
Emma-Kate are they really like that? My boyfriend keeps saying he doesn't mind either way but I really hope he prefers them!
3 weeks, seriously??????????????? Xx
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Shelsuit 2nd August 2011, 8:30 pm
Yeh the sex ban thing is because when you re aroused your boobs and nipples swell and u want to avoid that for the first few weeks ! Lol, I was shocked too !!
My boyfriend cupped mine a few times in the first week but I was hardly thrilled about it lol, xxx
My boyfriend cupped mine a few times in the first week but I was hardly thrilled about it lol, xxx
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Karen1982 2nd August 2011, 8:35 pm
OH MY GOD!!
I'm not sure I dare tell him lol xx
I'm not sure I dare tell him lol xx
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by Nyssa-H 2nd August 2011, 9:57 pm
I didn't know anythin about a sex ban lol?!! My fiance actually didn't seem that interested at 1st, think they scared him but then at about 2wk post op I said he could have a feel if he wanted - they wouldn't bite him! I told him 2 b very gentle though as they are very sensitive! xx
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Emme-Kate 2nd August 2011, 10:06 pm
karen1982,I think a lot of men are like that.For some reason boobs seem to mesmerize guys no matter what size the boobies are!LMAO!
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by dd wannabe 2nd August 2011, 10:12 pm
Wasn't told about the sex ban - oops! Just made sure I didn't bounce around too much. Hubby is loving his daily duty of rubbing in moisturiser very gently.
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by lauraswts 2nd August 2011, 10:22 pm
dd wannabe wrote:Wasn't told about the sex ban - oops! Just made sure I didn't bounce around too much. Hubby is loving his daily duty of rubbing in moisturiser very gently.
uck i dont have a BF, think ill need to hire someone to do job of rubbing the cocoa butter in!!! lol
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by kiwigirl 2nd August 2011, 10:57 pm
Yeah... I told my BF about the recommended sex ban, his response was "WHAT?!?!? If it weren't for the fact you're getting new tits, I'd trade you in for that!!" He's a cheeky bugger!
I this another thread on here somewhere though, where girls have said they just took things very gently, and got along just fine....
hehe xx
He's a cheeky bugger!I this another thread on here somewhere though, where girls have said they just took things very gently, and got along just fine....
hehe xx
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by dd wannabe 2nd August 2011, 11:22 pm
Not long now Laura and there is nothing wrong with enjoying your own cocoa butter massages. X
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Babster 3rd August 2011, 1:35 am
tongues can be less groping than hands LOL! Take it easy. Or hands off. I like the idea of using him to rub the bio oil in or whatever but they will never be as gentle as you are as they can be so sensitive and painful. He will just have to wait until you are ready! He can always touch you in other areas but you mustn't let your blood pressure/heart rate rise for 3 weeks, or at least that's what I was told anyway, just in case it causes you to have a bleed. Have fun!
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by abbie 3rd August 2011, 7:04 am
i didnt adhere to the sex ban
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by XxTracyxX 3rd August 2011, 7:41 am
I'm not sure I can stick to the sex ban,
Will it cause permanent problems if you do get aroused?
Will it cause permanent problems if you do get aroused?
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by abbie 3rd August 2011, 7:43 am
nah, just keep your sports bra on and be gentle.
No swinging from the chandaliers. Do more lying back and letting him do the work. Not exactly big woooo sexy time, but it does for the first few weeks.
No swinging from the chandaliers. Do more lying back and letting him do the work. Not exactly big woooo sexy time, but it does for the first few weeks.
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by chrystal 3rd August 2011, 7:50 am
I let my bf touch mine the next day. :D
I didn't know about the 3 weeks ban! I thought I'm suppose to avoid sex for the first few days.
I didn't know about the 3 weeks ban! I thought I'm suppose to avoid sex for the first few days.
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by NewGirl 4108 3rd August 2011, 8:16 am
Oh dear! I didn't know about this sex ban either! My Husband is already depressed because he hasn't had it for a week!!! He is gonna go mad when I tell him :heehee:
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by sweetcarol 3rd August 2011, 8:55 am
Oh my boyfriend isn't going to be impressed with That either, I have told him its only a week he will have to wait! LOl. He also said he wasn't bothered about me having bigger boobs until it came to trying huge implants in a sports bra at a consultation.... he then decided the biggest ones were the best... funny aren't they! LOl.
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Karen1982 3rd August 2011, 9:11 am
Men are very funny creatures lol.
Well I plucked up the courage to tell him (well actually I was a chicken and text him lol) and his response was 'Oh no that's no good' bless him, but at least he knows and he just said we'll have to see how it goes.
I don't think we'll be waiting 3 weeks though lol xx
Well I plucked up the courage to tell him (well actually I was a chicken and text him lol) and his response was 'Oh no that's no good' bless him, but at least he knows and he just said we'll have to see how it goes.
I don't think we'll be waiting 3 weeks though lol xx
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by sweetcarol 3rd August 2011, 9:24 am
I am going to text mine now... bet he will say the same. ALthough I doubt we will be waiting that long either! Lol. Think it better go on the ever increasing list of questions to ask before the op!
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by barbiecon 3rd August 2011, 9:28 am
the sex ban for me was two weeks but to be honest i was too scared of them bouncing all over the place anyway lol!! im 17 days post of my fiancees had a touch but only gently it hurts a little wen i massage them so wouldnt want his man hands groping me lol!! x
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Re: Silly question about boyfriends/husbands?!
by Jennifer2011 3rd August 2011, 9:37 am
I had sex after 4 days and it was just fine! lol Infact it was just great
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