What do your boyfriends/ husbands think about BA?

After a very long indepth disccussion in the pub the other night with pretty much e drone in there lol, would like to hear your input, what do your other halves think about you having a boob job? My ex was dead against it saying oh I love them the way they are.....blah blah... You don't need one etc.... My sisters bf was the same with her, however ogled every set he could get his eyes on, so he didn't want her having big ones but enjoyed looking at everyone else's. On the other hand my current bf just says whatever makes you happy, if it's what you really want and will make you feel better about your self then go for it he is a much more mature guy though. How did your partners react to your new boobs, and more than likely more looks from other guys????

My husband got mine as my xmas pressie last year so was all for me Getting it. Kept on at him how I hated how much my bottom half looked too big for my small tophalf. Went to a few consultations then fell pregnant. So postponed. Aftercare breastfeeding and expressing they went even worse so my hubby booked a consultation and for xmas booked my op for me. He's lovely, he says he is a bum man but now changed to bum and boobs. Not had my bad boys out yet kept them hidaway as im still wearing my post op.bra but can't see him liking other men ogling at my boobs. Prob say something to them but I will wear the most revealing tops now iv finally got my boobs so he best get used to it :heehee: Xxx

Well I havent got a bf @ the mo, but Ive been with my ex bf from pre BA days a few times since and he loves them haha! Ive also been with a doctor who had NO IDEA that i'd had a BA, you think he of all people would have been able to tell but no! But i've always recieved positive feedback. I think men don't want to tell their women to go for it too much incase they then make their partners feel bad about themselves but at the end of the day if they love you they'll support your choice!x

My partner is excited - he likes boobs !!

He'd mentioned me getting one a few times before (we've been together 7 years) but I didn't want one as I was happy with size/shape, but then i lost some weight (only about 7kg) and they completely shrivelled up! So when I told him i was thinking about having one, he was very happy!

(though he does keep saying he doesn't want me to do it for him, am i sure etc so think he's worried he's making me do it!)

Hi beej, mine says that they look good as they are and I don't need a BA. But on the other hand he respects my decision of having a BA and now he's looking forward to them. Welcome to the forum

My husband's always been a boob and bum man. I've always had the bum, and though I never had BIG boobs, I had gorgeous boobs. That all changed since having children, now I have tired, saggy, overworked boobs, it just amazes me (shocks me really) how much they have changed. We're at a point in our relationship where even though he likes boobs, he loves me, still thinks I'm sexy, and I still have my wonderful bum anyhow, lol. Plus, if he want his dose of big boobs he can get them when we watch porn for all I care

But I'm the one who's really set and atm obsessed about having this done. When I was pretty much decided on having the uplift only, he was fine with that even though he prefers bigger boobs, because if I'm happy he's happy. When I changed my mind again, and decided to go bigger, part of him thought I might as well if I'm getting an op. But another part of him told me not to bother with the implants due to the extra commitment it involves.

Another thing, He prefers natural boobs for sure, we've spoken about this many times in the past. It's not a preconception either, he's been with his share of augmented women so speaks from experience. And the augmented boobs he does like are the natural look ones. My ps specialises in the natural look, I really do hope they turn out fantastic, and that the uplift scars don't freak him out too much, and that he loves them too

Heyyyy,
my bf was all for it until I pad the money. Then it became real and he had a bit of a tantrum, saying why would i need them done when he loves my boobs, am I wanting to get with someone else and moan moan moan moan.

I had asked for his full opinion the day before paying, yet he has a hissy after, no way was I backing out after putting money down!!!!

So after the payment he was fine, i didnt really talk about it with him, ant the ladies on here got all the meltdowns/excitement!

Straight after the BA (he told em last week) he wasnt very attracted to me, they did look like missiles... but now he says they look great and he really likes them. So all ok now. I think it was all about his insecurities and he felt that by imporving myself I wouldnt want him anymore - not true.

Also he woud go on and on about EVERY OTHER GIRLS MASSIVE BOOBS, yet I shouldnt get them done?! WTF??? So I thought screw him im doing what I want! I have and Im verrryyy happy
xxx

I'm pre-ba at the minute, but my boyfriend's been kind of up and down with the whole thing.

I brought it up with him pretty early on in our relationship and he said I didn't need it etc, but when he could tell I had already made my decision about getting it done he was really supportive.

He came with me to all of my consultations, but when it came to booking a surgery date I think he freaked out that it was actually going to happen and told me he wasn't happy anymore and wanted me to wait a bit longer, at least until we were living together, because he was scared my confidence would grow and i'd either leave him or start sleeping with other people .



I did wait a few months, but enough is enough and I put my foot down and told him he had to trust me. A BA is something i've been waiting for for years now and I needed to go through with it. So we sat and talked about his nerves and he's not so bad now. However his major concern at the minute is for my safety and health. My BA isn't even booked yet but he's already organised how I'm getting home, spoken to my parents loads explaining how I have to be looked after and makes me promise him I won't do anything thats "against the rules" (like driving in the first week etc). I suppose i should be thankful I have someone doting on me!

steph999 wrote:Heyyyy,
my bf was all for it until I pad the money. Then it became real and he had a bit of a tantrum, saying why would i need them done when he loves my boobs, am I wanting to get with someone else and moan moan moan moan.



...Also he woud go on and on about EVERY OTHER GIRLS MASSIVE BOOBS, yet I shouldnt get them done?! WTF???

Are we dating the same guy???

My OH is a self confessed big boob man, he loves them big and he can't help but look at big boobs. Mind you I have become just as bad since deciding on having a BA.

When we got together I was a DD/E but he thought I was more like a C (git!). Anyway, I lost 21lbs and dropped to an empty C cup and although slimmer felt completely unattractive.

Whilst drunk one night I asked my OH what he thought of me having a boob job. He asked why I wanted it and I said cos I hate my boobs, I feel unattractive. He told me he loved me and loved the slim me, he said "better to have a small **naughty word** and no boobs than a big **naughty word**.....". We carried on talking, he asked me if I was doing it for him, I said no even though I partly was. Over and over we talked and he said as long as I was doing it for me and it would make me happy then he would support me. I then asked "don't suppose you fancy going halves on the cost do you?" and he said "sounds fair seeing as I get to play with them" lol!

So I went ahead and did it.

He was scared to touch them at first for fear of hurting me. They have got better and better as time has gone on and this weekend he said (during naughty time) that they are bouncing like real boobs now.

I can distract him with my boobs which is brilliant and I am even a cup size bigger than his favourite glamour model which is very cool.

He is fine with other people looking at them as long as they don't touch and he has warned me (as I am an outrageous flirt) that if people get too touchy feely I need to tell them to back off very quickly as it will be preferential that I tell them rather than him having to have a word.

He also said that he can't feel what is implant and what is me but that maybe because I had skin to fill and a fair amount of breast tissue.

My DF was very supportive - he knew how bad I felt about my empties (four kids, BF'd them all long term) and was with me from the start. He was concerned for my health as they all are but hes rational and knows just how super-well cared for you are .... especially if you pay for it (not sure if thats a correct thing to say so I apologise if it offends anyone!)

Have had a couple of probs with mine and had a little revision surgery - that was very hard for him and I could see that it was affecting him bad cos he couldnt protect me - think that was the worst bit for him.

He was always a bum-man before (and still is ... got a fairly good bum even tho I say so myself ) but he loves my new boobies. And he knows how much I love them. I am a different person, much more confident and he appreciates that extra confidence and happiness. Its a definate positive from him. xx

My husband LOVES them !!! After being used to my little A cups for 33 years he cant take his eyes off them wanting a flash all the time !!! He did say they were fine before but he he likes these better,he even thinks they feel like real boobs since theyve softened up a bit!!!xxxxx

Mine was supportive and agreed I should get it done not because he had a problem with them (bullsh*t) but because of my mental block over it.

I've still got very small boobs now after surgery but it's enough to keep me content!

Also, I didn't want to have to have big boobs to feel attractive, I love the rest of my figure and didn't want my chest to be the centre of attraction, it's the whole package that counts for me!

My husband didn't want me to get it done, he said he loved me the way i was. But he also knew how miserable i was about my baps, so supported me all the way, and just wanted to see me happy again. He certainly hasn't complained since they've arrived, he seems to LOVE them!! xxxx

my husband has supported me all the way, he never got to see my boobs before my BA but now i flash him every time i walk past him :flash

My hubby got me mine for my 30th, he knew that I wanted them and when we started going out 12yrs ago he said that if we were still together and I still wanted them then he would get me them. He is more of a bum man but think thats because he didnt really have a choice with me!

He has now admitted now though that he preferred them before but he hasnt had the full effect yet if you know what I mean

I love them though and thats all that matters. x

little miss new boobs wrote:......t he hasnt had the full effect yet if you know what I mean

I love them though and thats all that matters. x

You are about a week behind me - my OH commented this weekend that mine were alot bouncier this weekend

Thanks Aurora, think the sports bra has to be the mother of all passion killers lol. Cant wait to get rid of them.

Congrats on the size im sooo jealous X

I think my OH stopped seeing bras when I had my op, all he sees is boobs, lol! I did always take my bra off for naughtiness though!

I still can't believe I am a 30GG they really don't seem THAT big!
I am sure that when you get fitted professionally yours will be bigger than you think they are!

Finally back online, fuc*king B.T. Funnily enough my other half who a while back said he'd buy them for me has suddenly decided to ignore me when I say I can't wait to have them done, I didn't want him to pay for them even though they cost less than a months wages for him, but it's the ignoring when I bring it up so something's telling me that now he sees how serious I am he is not liking the idea toooo much . But f*ck him I'm doing it on my own anyway. Men are strange grrrrr...... He moans when I get uncomfortable when I'm topless around him coz I really hate them and want to cover up and not let him see me so I would be more confident and it would benefit him. I'm booking consultations tomorrow so when I see him il see what his reactions are!!!!!........

My husband doesnt want me to have it done, he just says "its up to you" and "theres nothing wrong with you".

The new one is talking about all the things that could go wrong during surgery. A little disheartening really.

Lauren

My BF does not like me having a boob job at all. Sending me constant articles of complications and what you should follow up the years post procedure. Then again he is very involved and helping me find the best option implants for my body type. His family are not happy with my decision either, nor is mine...

I'm going trough with it either way, but I'm still kind of gutted...:(

told my other half i booked consultation, he didnt say **naughty word** all. my mother is sooo up for me having it, so is my best friend (a guy) however my friends that are girls are like NO dont have it done you dont need to etc... (yep they have boobage and somethings telling me they getting a bit bitchy bout it) my brother thinks im a *naughty word*, if something goes wrong im sure the ones that are against it will be "told you so" i just hope if something does goes wrong touch wood it dont that i will have their support. Even though the only peoples opinion i care about is my mum and other half. Its a scary process and its not all about vanity, us girls no that it would change our lives for the best and its horrible when people want to put a downa on it. xx