Hate my boobs

Hi everyone x

For the past few days I have really turned against my boobies, I hate the way they look, feel and think I was prob better flat chested!
I was really really flat before Ba and had no tissue at all, and think this is the reason why they look so ugly ! I'm 19 days post op, and yes I know it is still early days and so many changes to come, but I just don't see mine changing at all, the swelling has gone mostly, and I suppose yes they have softened slightly, I just feel that they are not gonna drop and fluff like everyone else on here, as there is no excess tissue or skin. They look like they are squeezed into my chest and look so false ! I know that's cosmetic surgery , however I thought they would somehow look and feel better than they do, so my question is , has anyone on here gone from really really really flat chested, and what do they look like now ? I had 380 unders which was my only option. Loved them when first done, as obviously had boobies, but now Im embarrassed to even let other half see them, they look hideous ! Really cheesed off and quite depressed
Anyway not looking for sympathy , just needed to let it out ! My poor hubby thinks I'm insane already ! F

Anyway sorry to rant on and on ,

Happy healing everyone, and good luck to those who have there Ba this week x x

I am sorry to hear you are so unhappy at the moment, but dont think that what you see now is the end result, as you said you are very early days, 19 days post op is only the beginning. My ps told me that my boobs would take up to a year to fully heal, and I would say that I had the most dramatic changes around the 3-6 month mark, so please give them time. I dont think that it is the swelling that makes that much of a difference, I had drains for 2 days so I had very little swelling yet mine changs a fair bit... I think that it is the skin and muscle on the chest having to accomodate the implant that makes all the changes, as this happens the implant settles and drops into its space and the feel and shape of the boob changes. Give it time hun and dont be so hard on yourself, we woman have a tendancy to overly critisize ourselves. xx

You have the boobie blues!!! I had it bad. Hated mine and myself for spending that kind of money to mutilate my body. I am over that now!! Love the new boobs and I feel better in my swim suit now too. Hope you are feeling better soon. Things will look up and they will be changing alot over the next few weeks.

Agree with the others hun - what you have now is far from the end result. I know you say you don't have much breast tissue, but your skin will relax a little too - at the moment it's clinging on to your implants in shock! lol! Give it time... you're experiencing a classic case of the boobie blues and it'll pass - I promise!

Take care of yourself
Mx

Hi Hun

Oh you poor thing , you do have the booby blues. Hun I had no boobs, virtually no breast tissue and I had unders. The first time 13 years ago I had only 230cc's and they did take a while to settle in and they were very tight on my chest for a while (but I did love them even though I was in agony for 2 weeks). They ended up so natural looking nobody ever guessed that I'd had a BA. Due to capsular contracture I've had a reop on 5th May and again had unders 345 cc's and they are now settling (albeit right and left are doing it at different stages and look a little lop sided at the moment) in quite nicely.

I am happy to share my pics with you hun and you will see pics of me when I was so flat chested. I will PM you my details if you want to have a nosey :-) . You will feel better in the coming weeks and months and I look forward to reading about it. xxx

Hope you feel better soon, I loved my new boobs from the moment I had them but sometimes when I see them in the mirror it does look a bit strange but I am now getting used to them - I think for those of use who didn't have them before the op it does take a while for us to adjust to seeing ourselves with boobies x

hey yetti, would u mind if i see your pics? i dont think i ever have! lol, ur boobs look so good in ur avatar, its hard to imagine u with no boobies.
mand2kw, u r sooo early in the recovery....i promise u they will look so different in a few months tim. My friend had a ba five years ago, n had NOTHING!!! anyway, hers r like real boobs now n she is a dd!! they look so bloody real! and they feel it too! ( yes, i had a little squeeze, no, im not a lesbian!) lol
x

Yettiricey, please can I have a look at your pics? I've got no boobs at the moment & am getting 240cc unders - I would love to see how they looked on you! I'm getting a bit unsure about the size I've chosen?

Thanks,
Chan x

Yettricey - sorry to jump on the bandwagon but could I look too please. Have followed your CC story on here - which is my biggest fear. I am having 390CC overs on 12th July but worrried it will be too big. Would be interested to see how 345cc looks. Many thanks. Rach x

I'm pming you ladies. Ohhh my boobs haven't been starred at so much since I went to sainsbury's without my top on

yettiricey wrote:I'm pming you ladies. Ohhh my boobs haven't been starred at so much since I went to sainsbury's without my top on

Thanks for the pics! X

you're welcome hun xxx

I am 3 months post op and I still hate mine. I had tissue and liked my size but was deflated and saggy. My boobs look the same as they did before just bigger. I hate them and have spoke to my doc about possibly taking them out! I feel so embarrassed when I'm in a bikini and keep my arms folded most of the time. Since mine have dropped they look more saggy than before. They do look completely natural that is a plus. I need to do some updated pics.

hazleyez2201 wrote:I am 3 months post op and I still hate mine. I had tissue and liked my size but was deflated and saggy. My boobs look the same as they did before just bigger. I hate them and have spoke to my doc about possibly taking them out! I feel so embarrassed when I'm in a bikini and keep my arms folded most of the time. Since mine have dropped they look more saggy than before. They do look completely natural that is a plus. I need to do some updated pics.

Did you discuss having a lift prior to getting them? Perhaps is having a lift instead of having them out an option? It is amazing how much a lift changes the shape of the breast.

sarahdawn31 wrote:

hazleyez2201 wrote:I am 3 months post op and I still hate mine. I had tissue and liked my size but was deflated and saggy. My boobs look the same as they did before just bigger. I hate them and have spoke to my doc about possibly taking them out! I feel so embarrassed when I'm in a bikini and keep my arms folded most of the time. Since mine have dropped they look more saggy than before. They do look completely natural that is a plus. I need to do some updated pics.

Did you discuss having a lift prior to getting them? Perhaps is having a lift instead of having them out an option? It is amazing how much a lift changes the shape of the breast.

I have to agree a lift would give you the look you want. I would go back to your surgeon

Mand2kw wrote:Hi everyone x

For the past few days I have really turned against my boobies, I hate the way they look, feel and think I was prob better flat chested!
I was really really flat before Ba and had no tissue at all, and think this is the reason why they look so ugly ! I'm 19 days post op, and yes I know it is still early days and so many changes to come, but I just don't see mine changing at all, the swelling has gone mostly, and I suppose yes they have softened slightly, I just feel that they are not gonna drop and fluff like everyone else on here, as there is no excess tissue or skin. They look like they are squeezed into my chest and look so false ! I know that's cosmetic surgery , however I thought they would somehow look and feel better than they do, so my question is , has anyone on here gone from really really really flat chested, and what do they look like now ? I had 380 unders which was my only option. Loved them when first done, as obviously had boobies, but now Im embarrassed to even let other half see them, they look hideous ! Really cheesed off and quite depressed
Anyway not looking for sympathy , just needed to let it out ! My poor hubby thinks I'm insane already ! F

Anyway sorry to rant on and on ,

Happy healing everyone, and good luck to those who have there Ba this week x x

Hi hun. I really wouldn't worry, there is no way your boobs wont change. Your surgeon should have warned you that they can look and feel stuck on for a good few weeks or months.

Thank you everyone,
think i was just having one of those moments. Feeling a bit more positive today, after a good bollocking from my OH lol, i do love having the boobies think that looking at everyone elses and how wicked they all looked, i worried my self a little, ( ok alot) !!

Anyways , ive done the picture trail thingi if anyone wants a gander, especially those girlies who are completely flat chested, to give you an idea of how you could look. I know i struggled to find someone who looked like me before Ba.

love ya all

Hi there! if you wouldn't mind i'd like a look, im VERY flat chested and getting mine done on the NHS so would be nice to see just how they might look once they're done :)

Misty x

mistyhoney wrote:Hi there! if you wouldn't mind i'd like a look, im VERY flat chested and getting mine done on the NHS so would be nice to see just how they might look once they're done :)

Misty x

Of course i can, just updating the pics as we speak, will pm you with details once done, im
a bit slow at these things !!!

hazleyez2201 why is it you hate them is it you think they now look too big or just not pert enough??? I agree witht he girs an uplift is what you maybe need to discuss xx

I wanted a lollipop lift but my doc said i qualified for a donut lift which has less scars so i went with the donut lift. Without support they fall low on my chest. I didn't want the implants as i was happy with my size just wanted some fullness so this is what i got. My doc knows I'm not happy. He just doesnt want to do anything about it as he thinks they are great!

Hey hun

I'm going through exactly the same thing at the mo, and its a horrible feeling. Had a major argument with my BF last night about it coz he thinks I'm being stupid.

Hard to explain that getting implants was to make me feel more like a woman as I had no boobs before, but now its like a sign that I should have lived with what I had.

I am feeling a bit better today though, just gotta keep thinking they'll change, be patient.

But hey, I'm with ya all the way xxx

Mand2KW can I look at your pics? xxx

I really think you will love them once they settle:-)

Kezmac you look so lovely in your avatar hun, hang on in there it really does get better :-)

Hi there,
Would you mind if I had a look at your photos Mand2k? Also yettricey, would I be able to see yours, I was really flat chested before and I had 225cc three weeks ago and really didn't like them at first, I just felt they were too small, but have now come round to liking them now and am happy but am having a bit of an unsure day today about them!
X

Hi all pmd you my details for picture trail
do let me know what you think?

i just hate the great big gap between them , and really wanted a cleavage but other than that i do love the boobie look instead of the flat look lol