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comfy showing your boobies?!
by smalls 3rd March 2011, 5:56 am
So I am now about 5 weeks post op now. I still havnt shown my bf my boobs. I always just keep my shirt on while having sex since I am still in a sports bra. Cant even wear cute tops because it shows. Well its cold rite now anyway so its ok lol. Well I guess they still look kinda diff from each other. He also says that he dont want to see them til theyre healed. 
Idk if that means he didnt want me to go thru with it or just doesnt wanna see them while they look weird. He tries to get peeks at them cuz i caught him a couple times lol. :eyesup: I also feel like theyre gonna move around without my bra on. How did it go with you ladies if you dont mind sharing??
Idk if that means he didnt want me to go thru with it or just doesnt wanna see them while they look weird. He tries to get peeks at them cuz i caught him a couple times lol. :eyesup: I also feel like theyre gonna move around without my bra on. How did it go with you ladies if you dont mind sharing??
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by Diamond2223 3rd March 2011, 7:55 am
My husband doesn't want to see them properly until they have healed mainly cause he's squeamish perhaps your BF is the same xx
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by RoxyChick 3rd March 2011, 12:14 pm
They can look really strange at first because they sit unnaturally.
Can't say it was a problem with my OH, he wanted to see asap, but if your boyfriend wants to see them when they're fully healed he's got another 11 months to go!
Can't say it was a problem with my OH, he wanted to see asap, but if your boyfriend wants to see them when they're fully healed he's got another 11 months to go!
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by hollyolivarria 10th March 2011, 7:51 pm
Lol Lol Im pre-op right now but my boy friend said the same thing. He said "Umm Holly its cool and I support you getting your boobs but they are going to look so weird and gross" And I was like "You Asshole!!" then he said " I dont mean to be mean its just going to look weird, you show be pictures all the time and it takes forever for them to look good lol" Then I said "Well you cant help me massage them when they look good" Haha... I understnad what he means cause part of me is so scared of getting my BA becuase I know that they are not going to look great at first, but I know soon after they will look great. And my boy friend does too haha Getting breast implants is a serious surgery so just like every surgery you have to heal after and soon enough everything will come out normal
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by Malibu 10th March 2011, 8:22 pm
I think I'll be the opposite and not want to show my boyf until they're healed. If he made a bad comment about them or pulled a face or simply didn't respond fast enough I'd have a massive sulk and probably call him a few choice names.
It's more important to me that they look good in clothes and a bra than with nothing on. I swear men aren't half as fussy about boobs as we are.
It's more important to me that they look good in clothes and a bra than with nothing on. I swear men aren't half as fussy about boobs as we are.
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by elleblondie 10th March 2011, 8:28 pm
I have had my surgery a week ago and I was fine to show my OH. The one reason I did want him to see was if anything was changing he could see it with me.
It didn't freak him out and he knows I'm already sensitive about this whole thing so he hasn't said anything offencive at all.
It didn't freak him out and he knows I'm already sensitive about this whole thing so he hasn't said anything offencive at all.
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by summer11 12th March 2011, 8:22 am
everyone is different sometimes people like to wait and see the final result bit like them make over shows. mine were strapped up with thick white duck tape looking stuff for a week. but i suppose i was more conscious of them and in the end my hubby was like hey we have pqid £5k for these can i see them lol.
my oldest daughter and her friend said to me "mum why don't you wear tops that show your boobs off as can't see the point of having a boob job if you dont" that was the moment i thought yeah shes right and now my hubby moans saying you have always got your boobs on show cover up woman lol
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just take each day at a time whilst healing hun xx
my oldest daughter and her friend said to me "mum why don't you wear tops that show your boobs off as can't see the point of having a boob job if you dont" that was the moment i thought yeah shes right and now my hubby moans saying you have always got your boobs on show cover up woman lol
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just take each day at a time whilst healing hun xx
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by Shorty 12th March 2011, 8:32 am
I cant stop getting them out for my Husband. We have been together for 10 years so his my solemate.
I want to get them out for everyone to be honest, even though they are still a bit wierd I am really pleased. I can't wait until they settle. :boobchick:
I want to get them out for everyone to be honest, even though they are still a bit wierd I am really pleased. I can't wait until they settle. :boobchick:
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by summer11 12th March 2011, 8:36 am
lol hey sounds like your ba will relight your sex life after ten years of being together . thats another positive point for ba's
hey i bet he doesn't know what hit him lol
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hey i bet he doesn't know what hit him lol
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by Shorty 12th March 2011, 8:41 am
True summer11, we have always had a good sex life, but this will be icing on the already nice cake. Added bonus.
My friend said to me I am already a happy person, the boobs will just make me even happier. It is so true.
My friend said to me I am already a happy person, the boobs will just make me even happier. It is so true.
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by belindavictoria 12th March 2011, 9:04 am
Hi,
I'm only 3 weeks post op but I first got mine out for my hubby on day 5. I've also had a lift so I have lollipop incisions. It was like all his dreams had come true. He loved loved loved them. I love them too- makes me quite sexy.
i'm sure your experience will be incredible too.
B xo
I'm only 3 weeks post op but I first got mine out for my hubby on day 5. I've also had a lift so I have lollipop incisions. It was like all his dreams had come true. He loved loved loved them. I love them too- makes me quite sexy.
i'm sure your experience will be incredible too.
B xo
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by HighMaintainance 12th March 2011, 4:59 pm
Well i don't have a bf but I wouldn't want no boys I'd be getting amorous with to see them at this stage. I'm like weeks, nearly six and I think mine look weird. They only look good with clothes on. Naked I'm a freak!
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by melloumaw 12th March 2011, 5:02 pm
i couldnt wait to show my husband,even drifting in and out of sleep i managed to lift my pj top for him to see,he was well impressed no blood no bruising just globes where there had been empty socks.
mel x
mel x
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by smalls 13th March 2011, 5:31 pm
That's great some of you showed em right away. I think mine still look weird though. One nipple is normal and the other is still pointing down. It doesn't seem to want to drop.. it kinda reminds me of snoopy the way his nose is all the way at the bottom lol. hope it hurries up so I can show them off already.. 
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by Peachy34 13th March 2011, 8:11 pm
I showed my OH from the beginning the incisions were covered in white plasters though. He thought he would be squeamish around the incisions when the plasters came off but he never noticed the underneath his eyes never got that far. Hes still like a kid in a sweetshop even after 7 months and I often tell him off for perving at me all the time but I secretly love it lol x
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by iampetite 15th March 2011, 12:34 am
I wouldn't show my OH until it settles it bit because he is still not comfortable with me getting them.
So hopefully, when it settles down he will accept it a bit more. That I did not make the wrong decision.
So hopefully, when it settles down he will accept it a bit more. That I did not make the wrong decision.
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by kittenswithoutmittens 15th March 2011, 10:06 pm
Haha. Hilarious.Peachy34 wrote: He thought he would be squeamish around the incisions when the plasters came off but he never noticed the underneath his eyes never got that far. Hes still like a kid in a sweetshop even after 7 months and I often tell him off for perving at me all the time but I secretly love it lol x
But honestly I don't think I would show my boyfriend either, I would be self conscious about the healing stage, I hope I would be as lucky as you Mel and they just look great right away. But maybe a peak if it makes him happy. I would offer a face full of boobies but I suspect they would be too tender for that :teehee:
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by smalls 18th March 2011, 5:41 am
I know what you mean iampetite. he didn't really want me to get them done in the first place and don't want him to think they're gonna stay like that lol. well he finally asked me if they're healed enough to be taken out and if the incisions had healed. so I guess he was just scared maybe of hurting me or thought he couldn't touch them yet lol. makes me feel better. I guess now its just me not comfy showing em cuz they still look a lil weird but mostly cuz I don't have feeling in them. so if they're touched I can't feel nothing 
so that might be weird. Has this happened to any of you? How did you deal with it? Sorry to go on. I was always ok takin em out. N them being handled lol. Idk just not used to it thats all.
so that might be weird. Has this happened to any of you? How did you deal with it? Sorry to go on. I was always ok takin em out. N them being handled lol. Idk just not used to it thats all.
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Re: comfy showing your boobies?!
by Rachaelf 18th March 2011, 2:40 pm
My hubby saw mine pretty much straight away, I remember having to re-assure him that they would not stay that high and swollen, he said " as long as it made me happy, he was happy", although he did not really want me to get them done (we've been married for 22 years), he said "he loved me just the way I was, but could understand why I wanted them doing". He was very cautious about touching them for quite a while, I think this is because he saw them as not part of me, but he's ok now, he admires them all the time and always tells me how great I look - he also comments on how many other people look at them, say when we are out or shopping. To me, they make me whole again and are to be enjoyed to the full.
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