9 days too go, and honestly i am sh**ing myself

9 days untill my op girls! Im really worried at the moment, i didnt think i would feel like this, but im starting to think iv made the wrong disision!

im not worried about the pain or anything that could happen...Im worried about how they will look! i really dont want to be unhappy after all that money!! Im worried about stretch marks, going back to work, but mostly im worried people will look down at me.

I know there is no reason any1 should, but i know i will get put into a stereotypical box marked "slag" i cant seem to get my head around it. xx

It's a decision only you can make hun.

I'm unsure why you'd think people would look down on you though? I've had my implants for fours years now, I'm still the same person I was before I got implants. My boobs haven't changed me, therefore the people who know me haven't changed their opinion of me either and when I meet new people, it's not about my boobs at all, it's still about 'me' and I've never even heard of a woman simply having implants being branded a slag.

Your new boobs really aren't going to change who you are hunni. If you want these boobs, then why give a stuff what anybody else thinks? Are you getting a BA for you? or for other people?

Good luck with your decision babes. xxx

The thing is, i live in a very small town with a lot of very immature people, also im only 18, and you know what girls can be like! I know i shouldnt care less what anybody else thinks, but sometimes you just cant help it! a lot of people have told me that they have had regrets before their op, so i suppose its quite normal to feel this way?

I am doing it for me and noone else. And iv wanted it done for years, its just scary to not have a clue what i will look like after!

Thanks a lot though hun :) xxx

Last minute nerves are normal hun

If you're really sure about this BA then you won't care about what other people think babe (I live in a small town too). Honestly, you'll be far too busy enjoying the new you

You're gonna be just fine. xx

i hope so!! lol Thanks a lot :) made me feel a lot better!!! xx

I agree with everything Cookie has said (as usual!)and would only add that I don't believe that girls who choose to have implants can be put in any kind of "sterotypical box". The more time you spend on here hun, the more you'll see that we're of all ages and backgrounds - no pigeon-holeing here!! And also, I'm not saying that I'm not concerned about what people think, but I do know that the family and friends that matter (those I'm telling) are behind me 100% - and the lovely ladies in this forum too!

I agree, it's just a bit of last minute nerves. I even worried a little post op (while I was still getting used to my new boobs myself) so I hid them, but as soon as I was comfortable with my new additions I couldn't wait to show them off.

Hi honey
I am due to go in on Monday so I think last minute nerves are normal. I am not worried about what people think, I am 37 and have wanted it done since I was 15 and realised I hated my boobs- i truly dont care what people think
HOWEVER, lol I am worried about how they will look to me. Will it be weird having the extra weight or will i not notice it. Will i love the shape or will i panic if they sit higher or pointier than i am expecting. Will i have any probs post op? however its paid and im doing it Monday. I want beautiful boobs lol

Thanks everyone! i know i shouldnt care what people think, and all my friends and family who know are being VERY supportive!

Dimpledee, that is exactly what i am worried about, how they will look, iv got a feeling im going to hate them untill i get used to it, when i had my braces taken off i cried because it was such a shock! im just scared im not going to get the look i want! but hay ho, like you said, all paid for now, and come 9 days i will have lovely new boobies..(i hope) hehe GOOD LUCK FOR MONDAY!!!

Thanks everyone xxx

Everyone has a little bit of a worry pre op hun. I felt like the whole journey was an emotional rollercoaster but it's the best thing I ever did.

I live in a small town too but just haven't advertised my boob job because I don't want to be gossiped about. Anyone who does know was very supportive. I have a BA for ME, nobody else. And I'm happy with the results so who cares what anyone else thinks?

You have to remember why you're doing this and focus on the fact that soon you'll have lovely boobies. Try to enjoy all this excitement, it's such a great time.

Hi Nataliemay,
Don't worry hunny, I live in a very small town "up north" and own a very busy fish and chip shop. Everybody knows me as I work in there 7 nights a week and have done for the past 6 years. Most of my customers see me 2 or 3 times a week, and guess what! No one has noticed that I have had a boob job and I have gone from a 32A to a 32D, I could not understand how they couldn't notice so I asked a friend who knew I had had it done. Her reply made alot of sense. She said, firstly my boobs now are in proportion to my body if I had had huge bazookas they would been so obvious but mine are just a good natural size. Secondly other people are not as aware of our breast size as we are, the majority of people look at our faces and not our breasts, and if we are unhappy with our breasts they become a focal point to us but not to e eryone else. I am sure if you think of someone you see maybe 2 or 3 times a week you know what they look like but can you remember exactly how big their breasts are. I couldn't.
Finally, if you have small breasts like I did then possibly you wore padded or gel bras which makes you look bigger than what you are so that's a third reason why people don't notice. Hope this helps you feel a bit better. Also what does it matter what anyone else thinks as long as you are happy. I adore my new boobs.
PS my friend is a Phsycologist.

I really wish i found this site a long time ago, all you girls are really supportive Thank you everyone! xxx

Shelle222 WOW cannot belive no1 noticed! but then i suppose i do wear a lot of padding at the moment, and now youv said it, i cant really think of anyones boobies sizes. But my size is all i think about, that is Great advice!!! i never really thought of it like that! its made me feel a lot better, thank you! xxx

If girls do make comments to you, im sure deep down inside its only jealousy.

If people make comments when I get my boobs, I will put it down to that also only because when I see girls with nice racks im like b*tch lol

Have you kept it private or does everyone know your getting a BA?

Haha yeah i know what you mean, im like that aswell!

Its mainly private, most of my work knows as they had too really, and close friends and family. But somehow people just seem to find out, iv had girls i hardly know asking my friends "if its true"!

its just annoying that im making the biggest dissicion in my life and then silly girls comments get me down, but it probally is just down to jealousy your right! But i am a very insecure persson and just cant help but let it get too me!

P.S appoligies for the terrible spelling! lol x

Hi Nataliemay,
You are right they are a great bunch of girls on here.
I decided before my op that if the rumour mill started to grind and people were talking about me I was going to announce my boob job on my Facebook status and take out an announcement in the local paper, that way it wouldn't be juicy gossip anymore cos everyone would know. Actually I mind just do that anyways cos no one has noticed lol ( only joking )
Hold you head up high and be proud of your new boobies.
I agree with the other girls on here, it's jealousy, If the majority of women i know were offered a free boob job they would take it, either to make their boobs bigger smaller, less saggy or more pert. The ones that make comments to you would probably deep down love a boob job but can't afford one I know at 18 I would have loved one but did not have the money and would have been a little jealous of a friend who could have one but I definitely would not have been nasty to her.
Keep your head held high and smile hunny
XShelleX

well said Shelle!
xx

through this whole process of having my BA I have continued to say that it takes a stong woman to do it because, as said before it really is an emotional rollercoaster! I literally make myself sick the week before my op I was so nervous! I am sure you are having last minute nerves... as long as you know you make this decision for you because it will make you happy it does not matter what anyone else thinks...You are young, but I would guess that going through this will help you to learn that. Be stong hunni, I am sure you will be thrilled with the results!

Remember, true friends will not judge you or critizise you for having a BA... if they do you will know they are not genuine friends.

You deserve to do what ever makes you happy! xx

Iv told everyone I'm getting a BA, it's been on facebook! .. I'm excited & I want everyone to know I'm getting some amazing boobies!

I guess if you don't want people to know/think they are natural then it's a different story.

Heya good luck on your op! mines in 2 days now im nervous aswell! im 18 and havent told anyone apart from my family and boyfriend so really worried about what my friends will say after i have it done and worried about what they'll look like, same boat as you really! hope it goes all ok though and your happy with the results xxxxxxxx

Gosh Alt_Barbie, I really admire your courage, putting it on your FB status page is awesome. I am (and always have been) quite shy and so far I have only told one of my best friends - and she's still coming to terms with it, but I have no doubts that she will be great once it's been done.

So I can empathise with you Nataliemay, I can understand how you feel. But, as others have said, if you are happy with your decision to go for a ba, then it is right for you. You are the only person you've got to please in this matter - nobody else matters.

Good luck xx

Not too sure what "slag" is but I think my context clues are right Just think about how long you've wanted this. I go in on Wednesday & my nerves are all over the place. It still hasn't really hit me that I'm actually doing it. I never thought I'd be able to afford this. So after 15 long years of waiting, it's happening I guess we're all nervous about the look afterward, but screw everyone else if your family supports you :thumbs: My moms side of the family I'm afraid won't be so accepting. I havent even told them, not that I care what they think. I just don't want to hear it from them, cos they all got . Me and my mom got skipped over :teehee:

I haven't even booked my BA yet and I am **naughty word** myself!