One step closer ladies!!

Been offered a date today, 16th of December. Just need to have it confirmed tomorrow. My next hurdle will be getting finance, Don't know what I'll do if I'm refused :tears: I'm a TA in a school and don't officially break up for Christmas till the 17th so I'll just have to pull a few sickies and tell them Santa brought me BOOBIES for Christmas lol. Glad I was offered a date today because I was starting to doubt if I was doing the right thing. When I first told my parents they gave me the guilt trip, saying I could take my son to Disney world for the amount of money I'd be spending (by the time i'd have paid off my boobies or saved £4000 my son would be 15 and not seen dead with me anywhere let alone Disney world). I think my mum thinks it's just a phase I'm going through, she doesn't understand that I've hated my boobs for 11 years since my son was born. I shouldn't have to live life hating what I see in the mirror and ashamed to get undresses in front of my partner.
Anyway they're top of my Christmas list this year, not saying I've been a good girl but, PLEASE SANTA!!! Fingers crossed :boobstick:

Good for you hun. I felt guilty too as with the money I could have bought so much for my family but sometimes you just have to do something for you. You work hard earn your money and deserve it and come December you will have some lovely bouncy new boobs to show for it and be a happier you which also does the world of good for your family xxxx

do not feel guilty about the money at all! you deserve boobies to be proud of. i never felt guilty about spending money on myself in that way, i thought boobies were OWED to me after never having any! lol.
good luck with the finance. i got a loan with the co-op bank. i'll be paying it back for the next 4 years.....but SO worth it!!

x x x x

Hi Miss D, hope you get your date confirmed hun, and the finance comes through for you. I felt a little guilty too, thinking of all the things I could have bought for the house or the family, but like peachy says we have to think about ourselves sometimes, and us being happy means everyone is happy. That's my way of thinking anyway.

I'm a TA too hun, had my op just before the xmas break last year, it was good because I had the xmas holidays to recover.

I'm sure Santa will be kind to you hunni. xx

i'm sure santa will give you your boobies for xmas. don't feel guilty about spending the money on yourself - if it makes you happy then it is good for your family. happy mummy makes happy family

Thanks ladies , it helps to hear it from someone else. Should have my date confirmed by the end of the day. I'll keep you posted xxxx

I didn't feel guilty at all....yes i know the £4k couldve gone on my son too BUT......a happier mummy = a happy child & you can't put a price on that :good: xx

kittie wrote:i'm sure santa will give you your boobies for xmas. don't feel guilty about spending the money on yourself - if it makes you happy then it is good for your family. happy mummy makes happy family

kittie covers everything i was going to say :good:

wishing you all the best hunni x x x

Thanks again ladies, I feel so much better. I've got my date now, I'm booked in for 16th December. I'll find out tomorrow if the finance has been approved. so hopefully this time tomorrow I'll have another ticker on count down!! Don't think I'll sleep tonight worrying that it wont happen! xx :pale:

fab news for you hun, will keep my fingers crossed for you x
i felt guilty still do about the money, but gotta say its worth it to have a nice rack and a smile !!!!!!!!!!!