Re: unsure what to tell my kids

by tASHABASHA_1986 6th October 2011, 7:51 pm

my little girl is 2 and half and she is bit too advanced, but i didnt anything, but if she came up to me, id say be gentle, mummy hurts. its only recently when she came with me to the nurses appointment, she turned round and said i got bobbies to, but hasnt said it since. x

by LM 7th October 2011, 8:34 pm

thanx everyone, i think im gonna have to say something coz my boys been misbehaving a little at school.very unlike him but i think he knows somethings up coz i dont always realise he is there listening and i stop conversations part way thru wen i c him listening. i no kids misbehave at times but its very unlike him and never done anything like it before,its all i can put it down too :(

thank u xxx

by AmyD 8th October 2011, 2:57 am

don't worry LM. All kids go through these little blips. just sit him down on his own quietly for a cuddle and a chat, lighten the whole thing up and say ur looking forward to it and excited.... even if ur terrified!!! Best of luck hun, this will all pass. Being a mother is very emotional eh?!

xxx

by LM 9th October 2011, 6:09 pm

thanx amyd, yeah think im being too emotional coz of the op getting so close lol my hubby thinks im over thinking about it and that its just a hiccup wiv his behaviour, but yeah im thinking i might explain a little and like u say make it positive, think im at point where as many girls have said already i dont mind if he says anything at school coz my friends r all behind me and anyone else i dont give a monkeys if they disagree. thanx everyone for ur support and advice, so glad i found this site :) xxx

by springstep123 9th October 2011, 7:23 pm

my personal opinion is you shouldnt tell yout children, because i don't think 'mummy has body issues' is something that needs to be passed on to impressionable children. I told my littl ebrother I'd had a shoulder op and thats why i was sore and couldnt move my arms much.

by LM 10th October 2011, 7:49 pm

each day i keep changing my mind wot to say so will c how this wk goes and c how i feel at wkend as to whether to say anything, thanx girls xxx

by Sponsored content

Sun	Mon	Tue	Wed	Thu	Fri	Sat
			1	2	3	4
5	6	7	8	9	10	11
12	13	14	15	16	17	18
19	20	21	22	23	24	25
26	27	28	29	30	31