My boob job saved my life

hiya girls
we false ladies quite often get a backlashing from the media, family, work colleagues and even our friends wondering why we could have silcone inserted into our bodies and justify the expense of it.
well i'm fed up of it as the real reason i orginally had it done was a to increase my confidence as i was in an abusive relationship with my last partner who constantly pulled me down and totally controlled my every move. even writing this i can still feel the fear i had for him as i was scared to stay but even more scared to leave as he would say he would kill me.
So after a few years of contemplating i was brave enough for the boob job which i had done behind his back with the aid of my parents as if he knew he would of stopped me from having it done, it gave me the strength to finally leave him and stay left. That was 6 years ago and apart from having my kids it was the greatest day of my life.
i remember waking up in pain after the ba but thinking this is going to be the first day of my new life and it sure was.
and of course now my 1300cc is purely boob greed and prob have an unlying bodydismorphoia problem lol xxxxxxxx

Oh, well done you, Sue!! It must have taken a tremendous amount of courage to do that after being in an abusive relationship and being made to feel totally inadequate for all those years. It really does take enormous courage to finally stand up for yourself and break free of that sort of domination. I really, really admire you for that
xx

Im so glad you are able to move on from that horrible relationship!
If you do think you have an under lying problem maybe see your GP? just incase you shift your focus onto somethin else after your BA, but by the sounds of things you seem like you know what you doing.
Good luck with your new boobs XxXxXxXxXxXxX

thanks lol, yes glad all behind me was 6 years ago now, and have met an amazing man 4 years ago got married and two more beautiful daughters so defo moved on. 1300cc sounds big but isnt with unders and i have 700cc at the mo and only s 32ff and a few girls on here with similar stats have 400ishcc overs and acheived the same size.
again with implants they measure bigger than they look as i prob only look a e cup
xxx if only we could acheive the size we want first time lol xxxxxxxx

so glad you managed to change your life. i work with a girls whos sister was murdered in a similar situation with domestic violence its awful! just cant imagine what you went through but its very good to hear you managed to escape and meet the man of your dreams had have wonderful kids. im sure if any one on here is going through domestic violence it gives them the confidence to leave and find a better life.

if only very case were like yours well done! :)

thanks Lauren that make me cry, i feel like i had a lucky escape and it may seem harder to leave but it gets much easier just feel sorry for who he is with now as no doubt he does the same. when people ask why did you stay with so long i never really know the answer..... i suppose its fear of what they may do and what trouble they may cause. i live in a village where there has been a girl murdered through jealously and in jan my neighbour died of hypothermia as her partner was alledgly leaving her so she got depressed and did that. then two weeks ago you prob heard it in the news a woman stabbed her 9, 13 year old then hung herself due to alledgey marriage problems. what goes off in their heads i have no idea but really upsetting when its people you know and shocked as they never appeared to be anything wrong xxxx so sad for them children xx

it makes me so sad to hear. and theres people who moan about the most trivial things and theres this going on in life. .. kinda puts things into perspective. i am really glad you found the strength to leave.. ino i dont know you but your story has really moved me.
well done and i honestly wish u the best in life! you deserve it xx

You have been through it hun but at least you have come out the other side with a positive outlook. I always admire those who get themselves out of abusive relationships as there are far too many who stay in them and suffer xx